Have you ever wondered what your life will look like when you're old?
There is a description on the Internet: every day with girlfriends to go to the nursing home, soak in hot springs, sing KTV, play mahjong, attend parties.
Many people also yearn for this, saying that I will be like this when I am old.
Unfortunately, this is not a reality.
Today, I want to show you the most real and somewhat suffocating "Records of Old Age".
A few days ago, blogger @Cao Su posted a video in Shanghai and visited a nursing home.
It was 3 p.m. when he entered the room. But in the room, only one person was sitting, and the other three were sleeping.
Chatting with the blogger, I learned that she had lived here for almost two years. When asked how she felt, Grandma sighed and said it was like going to jail.
The daily routine here is nothing more than eating and sleeping. Wake up every morning, eat breakfast at 5:40 a.m., eat dinner at 4:40 a.m., and then the day is over.
In the entire nursing home, including her, there were only three elderly people who could move. Others lie in bed every day.
Since it was dinner time when he came to visit, the video also recorded the meal session.
In addition to the one who had just spoken, the grandmother who could move freely, there was an old man who was fed by his daughter, and the other two were fed by nurses.
In the second half of the video, we can see that the process of eating is not so smooth. The old man in red was lying on the bed and had to be coaxed by the nurse to take a bite.
After the video was released, it caused a lot of discussion online.
As usual, the nursing home we see in the video is full of laughter and laughter. On the other hand, this nursing home is not energetic and even somewhat depressed.
Why is there such a big gap with imagination?
In fact, this is the real nursing home, also called a nursing home. Incapacitated people need specialized doctors and nurses to take care of them.
Later, some netizens confirmed that the video was true. This nursing home is close to his home, it's okay. The monthly basic cost is about 6,000 yuan, which belongs to the upper middle level.
But this is the most lamentable part of the whole video. They are not childless and relatives.
The old man sitting there had two daughters and a son. The old man lying in bed without eating was forced to be sent here because of the demolition of the house.
These old people, with an average age of 90 years old, have been busy for most of their lives, but finally find that they are only left.