"I thought that freedom was to do whatever I wanted, but only later did I find out that self-disciplined people have freedom."
In the past, I always felt that life was short and should be happy in time. There is wine in this dynasty and drunkenness in this dynasty, and people do not misbehave teenagers. But as the experience increases, it will gradually be found that every act of indiscipline will bring greater pain to people.
Human nature is difficult to move, to be the master of one's own heart, you can only rely on self-discipline, and if you want to succeed, you must be self-disciplined.
But the reality is cruel, and wanting to be a self-disciplined person means forcing yourself to do things you don't like and don't want to do.
Like what:
You are a foodie, to lose weight, in the process of losing weight you must force yourself not to eat such and such delicious food;
You are a late procrastinator, you have to force yourself to do things, you must be able to procrastinate;
You are a night cat, often at 2 a.m. at night is still brushing the circle of friends or playing games, you have to force yourself to go to bed early;
Why do everyone know the importance of self-discipline, but in reality, so few people can do it?
Because self-discipline means you have to give up something, give up your preferences, give up your inertia.
When a person lacks self-discipline, what he does is always influenced by habits and timely temptations, or he is disturbed by the thoughts and concepts of others, and it is almost impossible to do what the heart really desires.

How many people envy the figure and appearance of others, envy the success and excitement of others.
But when he learned about the hardships and almost cruel self-management behind him, he quickly retreated. In the muddy and chaotic days, it continues to cost lives meaninglessly.
And you will find that those who are self-disciplined to the extreme have a life of opening and hanging. Bull people are fierce characters: masochism and abuse of him, must be one or the other, or both.
You can not be excellent, but you must have a self-disciplined attitude; you can not succeed, but you must work hard. In this world, no one has ever worked harder than anyone else, but has lived more disciplined than anyone.
A person who lives a very hard life has his own radiance; a person who is serious is better than ever; a self-disciplined person, his life will be more successful for the most part.
Everything beautiful in the world has always been dressed up only for people who know self-discipline.
As the saying goes: Life is like a boat against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Even if you stand still, there are still a large number of people passing by you, surpassing you anytime and anywhere.
Those who surpass others are people who have become more and more excellent themselves, and such people are often very self-disciplined people, and their success is slowly accumulated in self-discipline.
There is a sentence in "The Road That Few People Walk":
"Self-discipline is the most important tool to solve life's problems, and it is also the most important way to eliminate the pain of life."
A self-disciplined person, who lives a particularly advanced and free life, regards the pain in the eyes of such people who do not seek to be self-motivated as a necessary pleasure in life, and it is really terrible to think about.
People with great ambitions in their chests are often very self-disciplined people, and self-disciplined people are both terrible and respectable. If it is a partner, you have to learn to discipline yourself with him; if it is an opponent, you must be mentally prepared.
Happiness is divided into many kinds, I think being able to choose your own way of life, having a dream that can be achieved with hard work, and having a self-disciplined attitude to life, this is the real happiness.
The most important thing to become self-disciplined is to find your sense of identification with this matter, and the degree of self-discipline you have determined the height of your life.
May everyone be able to discipline themselves, may everyone be able to live the life they really want to live.