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However, after the Spring Festival, I always feel that this year is not over.
I had to wait until after Chinese New Year's Eve night to suddenly wake up, and it turned out that this year had really passed.
No matter how this year has gone, whether it is a step by step or a hardship, it has become a thing of the past.
Time never waits, always running in front of the line.
In the new year, what kind of life do you want to live, and what kind of plans do you have?
I hope that when you are immersed in hard work, you will also remember these ten sentences in your heart, and maybe you can illuminate your heart at a certain moment.
1. A lot of hard work but no results, don't all blame yourself, may just lack of resources and connections, you have done a good job, don't rush to achieve.
The world is not absolutely fair, and sometimes you give a lot and get nothing.
For example, he has been diligent and earnest for the sake of promotion, but finally spent it on his family;
For example, loving a person affectionately, but only falling scarred.
But this is the normal state of life, all the good things will not be fully as desired, nor will they all develop according to our wishes.
Gains and losses have always been the laws of the world.
Look down, look at the opening point, as long as you have worked hard. It's yours after all, it's yours, it's not yours how to grab it and it doesn't matter.
2. No matter what truths you have heard, what kind of people you have met, and what lessons you have learned, remember that the success process that other people have downplayed cannot be copied.
We rarely replicate a person's success.
When he said it, he said it lightly, but there must have been a huge effort behind it, and he must have silently persisted for a long time to have such an achievement.
So, when you hear someone say that it succeeds casually, it's either a scam or he's overly modest.
3. Many of life's troubles stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting the happiness we have.
Some people live in jealousy and comparison, what others have, he must also pursue, see others have a good life, he is uncomfortable in his heart, and even hate, throughout his life has been chasing the footsteps of others.
But such a person has long lost himself. No matter how vigorously you live, you are just a slave to comparison.
If you want to get true peace, you must appreciate and like what you have, not what you don't have, so that you will be happy in this life.
4. Discard useless things as early as possible, such as meaningless meals, people who look down on you, people who don't love you.
Time is the most precious thing in the world, so why waste it on unnecessary people and things?
Instead of spending two hours in a boring dinner, read a fun book;
Instead of looking at a relative who can't look at you at all, go downstairs for a walk;
Instead of agonizing over someone you don't love, it's really better to go to a movie and have a cup of coffee.
Life is short, let go of these boring things, really do what you like, and love yourself well.
5. The purpose of reading is not to achieve much, but to give you an inner strength when you are beaten back into shape by life and stuck in a quagmire.
In the book "The Road Less Traveled", there is such a sentence: "Man can refuse anything, but he absolutely cannot refuse to mature." To refuse to mature is actually to avoid problems and escape pain. ”
The purpose of reading is not to have a long future, but to refresh one's own cognition, improve one's thoughts, and purify one's heart.
When you read a certain number of books, you will find that all kinds of troubles in the world are self-seeking troubles, and all kinds of problems in the world are only a matter of time.
In the best-selling psychological book "The Road Few People Walk", the author repeatedly tells us that if you want to get the life you want, you must first enrich your heart, truly achieve self-discipline and freedom, and then step by step towards your dreams.
6. Every good person has a time of silence, a time when a lot of effort is put in and there is no result, and we call them rooted.
We all know that bamboo takes root for a long time, in fact, people are the same.
No one can succeed casually, many achievements and fame are boiled out, and many outstanding people are forced out.
A person who is full of light is bound to experience an endless dark life, and the feeling of moving forward silently in the darkness will definitely be remembered for a lifetime.
7. No matter how good or bad, everything will pass, which is the cruelest and most tender truth.
Yang Dai once said that there is no absolute happiness in life, and happiness is always mixed with troubles.
However, time is cruel and sometimes gentle.
When encountering bad things, we must also stabilize God, and surviving the past is victory;
When enjoying joy, don't be complacent, time will take everything away.
8. You don't have to be born brave or gifted, you just have to be diligent and sincere.
Some people say that a person's true maturity begins with acknowledging that he is an ordinary person.
When I was young, I was always proud and proud, and I felt that I was born different and wanted to achieve a big career.
After tasting the hardships of life and understanding the cruelty of society, I have to admit that I am one of all sentient beings.
Although we do not have the talent of people, we can pay hard work and steadfastness, and we can also have a happy life.
9. Don't think about changing others, you can only change yourself, sometimes even yourself can't change. Who suffers, who changes.
Man is really a strange creature, always thinking of saving people from water and fire, always wanting to change and save a person.
But in the end, you will find that no matter how bitter you are, no matter how you know it, no matter how you move it, others are still like that, and they have not changed at all.
Whether it's friends, family, or even a partner sleeping in the same bed, you can't change.
The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move. Don't think about changing others, sometimes just change your mindset, things are completely different.
You may even find that you can't change yourself.
10. Be gentle with yourself, you are just a child of the universe, no different from plants and stars.
Be nice to ourselves, and we'll only live for decades.
When you are young and ignorant, when you are old, you are groggy, how many years can you struggle?
It doesn't matter if you don't get the results you want, experience is wealth;
If you don't talk about love, don't appreciate the flowers, the good times will not be disappointed.
There is a classic saying in "One Hundred Years of Solitude": In life, what really matters is not what you encounter, but what you remember and how you remember it.
Live to the end, nothing can be taken away, only the memory belongs to you.
You don't have to be in a hurry, you don't have to shine,
You don't have to be someone else, it's enough to be yourself.