In the 80s of the last century, Zhao Jing swept the country with her role in "Love of the Sea" and became a goddess in people's hearts.
After that, she starred in countless works again, such as "Iceberg Snow Lotus", "Will a Miracle Happen", "Long Night", "Years Like a Song", "Sisterhood" and so on.
Such a big star, but chose to marry at the peak, and even the marriage object is just an ordinary person, many friends ridicule this is married to the wrong person.
But only Zhao Jing knows that she chose the right one, and happiness has reached today...
Zhao Jing was born in 1957.
She liked to sing and dance since she was a child, and her parents did not object, letting her break through in her favorite field.
At the age of 16, Zhao Jing went to the Qu Art Troupe as a announcer. At that time, Zhao Jing couldn't imagine that she would be related to the movie afterwards.
But fate is so magical.
Director Lu Ren ran all kinds of troupes for the movie "New Wind Song", but none of them were satisfied. Until I met Zhao Jing.
Zhao Jing's temperament suddenly touched Lu Ren's heart, she was quiet and simple, and Director Lu Ren seemed to see hope.
Soon, the crew informed Zhao Jing to audition in the afternoon to see how the effect was, and Zhao Jing got the lines in the morning, and after lunch at noon, she began to take a nap.
Finally it was the staff who shook him awake, and she staggered to the audition point.
People look at her like this, still laughing at "don't sleep and forget your lines".
But Zhao Jing just rubbed her face, and then began to audition, not only did the lines fall, the expression was also very in place, after the audition, the crew all showed an appreciative look.
After the broadcast of "New Wind Song", Zhao Jing has been appreciated by many directors, and "Grand Program", "Iceberg Snow Lotus", and "Love of the Sea" have made Zhao Jing popular all over the country.
It was also at this time that Zhao Jing finally transferred from the Henan Qu Art Troupe to the Shanghai Film Studio.
At that time, almost no one did not know her, there was her in the movie, she was in the TV series, and even the wall calendar at home had her.
Her dignified appearance and personality have made many people pursue her, but she has not been moved, and even her friends in the circle want to match her as a red lady, but they are all rejected by Zhao Jing.
The reason is that Zhao Jing already has a husband and is an ordinary person.
"You're a big red man, married to an ordinary person, which is also too..." The friend always can't help but spit two sentences.
"My husband is an ordinary person, but he is the best for me!"
In 1976, Zhao Jing met the soldier Danning Jun, and the two people could not meet often, but could only write letters to communicate.
Dan Ningjun always thought about Zhao Jing, and then wrote down his admiration, and in the letters that came and went, the two slowly saw each other's true heart.
Three years later, the two got married with a license.
When the two walked out with their cards, they looked at each other and smiled shyly.
After getting married, Zhao Jing thought about whether to return to the family, but Dan Ningjun knew that he liked to perform and did not want her to be wronged.
In order to be able to get closer to Zhao Jing, Dan Ningjun applied to be transferred to Shanghai, and then went to work at Shanghai Television Station.
Zhao Jing often has to enter the crew to shoot, and she can't stay at home for a long time, and she will often miss Dan Ningjun in the crew.
It was hard to finish the shooting, and she returned home to rest.
She dragged a tired body, and some clothes, all worn in the crew, there is no washing machine at home, Zhao Jing wants to rest and then go to wash clothes.
Dan Ningjun looked at the sleeping Zhao Jing, so he found out his clothes, poured water, and washed his clothes.
After washing his clothes, Dan Ningjun continued to cook, and when the aroma of rice wafted out, he called Zhao Jing up again.
Zhao Jing got up, looked at the prepared meals and washed clothes, and felt touched and guilty in her heart, she was touched by everything Dan Ningjun did, and she was guilty of not being able to accompany him all the time.
After a while, Zhao Jing wanted to go to the school for training, which was equivalent to putting the family in second place again.
She had been brewing for a long time before she told the Danning Army about the matter, and she thought, in case the Danning Army did not agree, then give up the idea.
But after Dan Ningjun listened, he was very happy, and he repeatedly told Zhao Jing, "Go after your dreams, I will be your backing."
Looking at Dan Ningjun's eyes, Zhao Jing's heart was already soft and messy.
In the days when Zhao Jing was at the Beijing Film Academy, Dan Ningjun ran the family alone, missed his wife, and took care of his children.
Zhao Jing and Dan Ningjun had a son named Dan Pengju.
When Zhao Jing was not at home, Dan Ningjun was both a father and a mother. Holding his son and singing, feeding his son, and coaxing his son to sleep at night.
When it came time to go to school, Dan Pengju could not be at home every day, and he had to rush to school early, but it was very difficult to get up early.
Dan Ningjun looked at his son who was still sleeping and wanted to vigorously wake him up, but his hand stopped in mid-air.
He thought to himself, "Then let my son sleep more."
After making breakfast, he woke up his son, and Dan Pengju looked at the time and was anxious, "Don't worry, when the time comes, you will take a taxi to school." Dan Ningjun looked at his son's fiery expression and immediately comforted him.
After eating, Dan Ningjun did call a taxi and sent his son to school.
Sometimes Dan Pengju was sick and hung bottles all night long, and The Danning Army did not dare to close his eyes at all.
He looked at his son, then at the hanging bottle, who slept and stretched his arm out of the quilt, and the Danning Army carefully put it back again.
The son was too hot to cover the quilt at night, so Dan Ningjun looked at the quilt that had been kicked to the side and carefully covered it.
If it is a summer night, there will be a lot of mosquitoes, Dan Pengju is noisy and can't sleep, humming and chirping, and the Danning Army will start to catch mosquitoes.
He patted it with his hand, or with a fly, and waited until the mosquitoes were eliminated, and then the Danning Army closed his eyes and let himself rest.
Dan Ningjun is very concerned about his son, but Dan Pengju still misses his mother.
Once When Zhao Jing returned home, Dan Pengju was very excited.
Later, somehow, Dan Pengju suddenly fell ill, lying sick on the bed, Zhao Jing saw that he was distressed, and quickly turned into the kitchen to cook porridge for his son.
The porridge that had just come out of the pot was still very hot, and after Zhao Jing slowly blew it cold, she fed it to Dan Pengju, who was eating the rice made by her mother and suddenly said a word.
"It's good to be sick."
"What's so good about being sick and making yourself so uncomfortable"
"If you are sick, you can eat the food made by your mother."
Zhao Jing listened to her son's words and suddenly panicked, she knew that shooting outside, has always been her husband to take care of the family, but forgot about the childhood of the child.
She began to pay more attention to her son, whether the mood was happy or annoyed, Dan Pengju said happily every time.
Until junior high school, she found that her son had a heart, and every time she spoke, she inevitably quarreled, and Zhao Jing was a little sad in her heart.
She thought about it for several days, and suddenly wondered if her own menopause had met her son's adolescence, which was intolerable, and when she thought about it, she felt that it made sense.
In order to communicate better, she began to delve into psychology to alleviate conflicts with her son.
Dan Pengju grew up day by day, Zhao Jing and Dan Ningjun watched, and there was always comfort in their hearts.
But there are always surprises.
Zhao Jing returned home and asked her son to hand the clothes to herself, and the son turned around and took the clothes, but at this moment, she smelled the smoke on her son' body.
Zhao Jing frowned, but his son obviously did not realize it, and even began to speak, and Zhao Jing smelled the smoke in his mouth.
"Are you smoking?"
"I didn't"
"No, it's the smell of you. Denning Army, son smoked."
Zhao Jing's voice led her husband over, but the latter smelled it for half a day, and just when his son was relaxing, Zhao Jing and Dan Ningjun grabbed their bags.
Without searching, the cigarette case fell out of it.
At that moment, the world was quiet, and then the son's face was greeted with a slap from the Danning Army. Zhao Jing did not expect that her son would also have a day to bother himself, and he said half a day bitterly, just to let him quit smoking.
Fortunately, my son quit smoking, which is also a good result.
Zhao Jing watched her son grow up day by day, and watched her husband slowly grow old with herself.
She was happy and comfortable in her heart, and when she chatted with others, she was also full of smiles, but few people knew that behind such happiness, there was also a huge pain.
Zhao Jing often felt a headache, at first she thought that she did not rest well, did not think much, but for several days in a row, let Zhao Jing panic.
Even Dan Ningjun could see that she was not looking right.
After Zhao Jing said, Dan Ningjun immediately pulled her to the hospital, and after some examination, it turned out to be cerebral capillary bleeding, and the treatment was surgery.
But not long after, Zhao Jing felt that something was wrong with her body, and under this examination, she had a tumor in her brain and was going to undergo gamma knife surgery.
When Dan Ningjun heard this, his palms began to sweat, and Zhao Jing looked at him to express comfort.
And how to operate has become a doctor's problem, Zhao Jing is an actor, it is impossible to drill a hole in the middle of the forehead for surgery.
Thinking about it, I can only perforate from the eyebrow part, set the operation plan, set the operation time, and then wait.
Zhao Jing was nervous in his heart, and Dan Ningjun was even more nervous in his heart, he was afraid that his wife would have some accidents, and whenever this happened, her wife always looked at him with a smile.
Dan Ningjun knew that this was Zhao Jing comforting himself, and he also tried to find a way to reassure Zhao Jing.
He tried his best to go out as usual, buy vegetables, cook, and then chat with Zhao Jing.
On the day of the operation, Dan Ningjun watched Zhao Jing being pushed into the operating room, and his heart was lifted at once.
He didn't sit or stand, until Zhao Jing was safely withdrawn from the operating room, and he didn't let go of his heart.
After the operation, Zhao Jing's appearance was obviously better, and she chatted and laughed as before, while Zhao Jing did the operation, and Cui Jie, a friend who did a good job around her, only later learned.
"Zhao Jing is very resilient," Cui Jie said.
The time was fast, Dan Pengju stayed in New Zealand for four and a half years, and also returned home.
The family was especially happy to be reunited again, but a few days later, Zhao Jing began to worry about her son again, and Dan Pengju always slept too late at night and did not get up in the morning.
She was really upset to see her son so sloppy, he wanted his son to change his habits, but repeatedly preached that he did not change.
Later, Dan Pengju and Zhao Jing had a big fight, Dan Pengju immediately packed up his things and prepared to leave home, Zhao Jing looked at his son who was packing his luggage, and suddenly figured it out.
"My son is grown up and has been living alone outside for so many years, it's time to let go."
Not long after, Dan Pengju found his own career, and Zhao Jing gradually relaxed himself.
She no longer works in the crew like she was young, or for the sake of her children, and she began to walk and chat with her husband often and live her own life.
Zhao Jing's life suddenly became idle, but she couldn't sit still.
She was always thinking about what to learn, she liked to sing and play the piano, and she preferred to read a book in the afternoon.
As for her friend's difficulties, she couldn't help but lend a helping hand.
Friend Cui Jie's wife was sick, the hip joint was not good, Zhao Jing listened to it and immediately called the past, "How is Dongdong recovering?"
"It's all right, it's almost over," Tri jie replied.
"I've got to go see it."
"No need," Cui Jie wanted to refuse.
But Zhao Jing still went, and Cui Jie opened the door to see Zhao Jing with a look of anxiety and a pocket of things in her hand.
There's dough made at home and stuffing.
Zhao Jing put things on the table, and then went into the room to see Cui Jie's wife, the two of them chatted for a while, Zhao Jing turned and went to the kitchen.
She makes the dough into a dumpling skin, wraps it in dumpling filling, and finally waits until the dumplings are cooked in the pot.
Cui Jie looked at Zhao Jing and was unable to speak.
The dumplings were cooked, and Zhao Jing came to Cui Jie and his wife with the dumplings, and the two looked at Zhao Jing, and their eyes slowly became moist.
"In this case, it is false to say that it is not moved."
Later, when Cui Jie recalled, he said so.
Even once Cui Jie had a lung problem, every day he was frightened, Zhao Jing knew and took him to see the old Chinese medicine doctor.
Later, I went to see a doctor, did not write down the prescription drugs, but just asked Cui Jie not to have a burden and live mentally.
After seeing the patient, Cui Jie wondered why Zhao Jing knew the doctor in the lungs, "My lungs were not very good before, I saw a doctor."
Listening to Zhao Jing's words, Cui Jie's heart was also shocked by his friend's touch.
Even if you are sick, you bear it alone and don't tell your friends, "too strong".
Although Zhao Jing is now more than 60 years old, her appearance is still very good.
She watched her son make progress in his career and was happy.
She looked at her husband, Tanning Jun, who had enjoyed accompanying her for 43 years, and her eyes were full of smiles.
Zhao Jing can shoot good masterpieces, it is the support of her husband behind, Dan Ningjun has no complaints to support the family, as her backing.
And Zhao Jing also loves her family, she worries about her son, and she loves her husband wholeheartedly.
Even when it is time to enjoy the blessings, she does not relax, always enriching herself and helping her friends at all times.
She has resilience, she is strong, she has encountered difficulties, she also has happiness, in the years of love, it is sour, sweet, bitter and spicy, but also colorful.