Lead:
With the society getting better and better, everyone's living standards have improved a lot, there will always be a lot of interesting things in life, and now the way of providing for the elderly is more and more diverse, there are many elderly people who do not want to go to the nursing home, because the environment in the nursing home they cannot adapt, so many elderly people are not willing to go to the nursing home, and some do not want to trouble the children, because the children have become a family, they also have their own small families, the elderly have a kind of psychology, do not want to bring more trouble and pressure to the children.
Family life pays attention to home and everything, but there will always be some families that are more special, there are some mothers-in-law who deliberately embarrass their daughters-in-law, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to deal with, Aunt Li poured out: Mother-in-law deliberately made it difficult when she was young, and she had to live with them AA system, but in her later years she wanted me to serve her. What's going on here? Let's see what she herself said.
Aunt Lee, 50 years old
I am 50 years old this year, when I was young I lived in the countryside, my parents are an authentic farmer, they plant these ten acres of fruit trees at home, the income is also average, not too bad, supporting the family should be no problem, I have time and often go to help them, but I have also reached the age of talking about marriage, my parents do not want me to continue to keep the family, just want to help me find a good family to marry, just entrust the matchmaker to help me find a partner.
The matchmaker helped me find one in two days, although I was born in the countryside, but my figure is still very perfect, the temperament is not bad at all, the young man brought is three years older than me, the family lives in the city, the conditions at home are also very good, the impression of the first meeting gives me is still very good, the person is also very tall, and I am very satisfied with my words and deeds, the first time we met we talked very happily, but I did not immediately agree to be with him.
Since the last time we met, he also frequently looked for me, although I am a rural person, but I think he is very good to me, from time to time he runs to my house, every time he brings a lot of gifts to my parents, my parents are also very satisfied with him, but I still have to observe him, every day when I eat, they urge me.
Once he asked me to play, I did not refuse, we went to dinner, in the process of eating to give me a bunch of sweet words, and then confessed to me, this time I did not reject him, because I think he is very good, we have been together for a while, but I have not met his parents, and then he took me back to meet his parents, to meet people's parents can not always go empty-handed, so I bought a lot of gifts to go.
But his parents are not friendly, see me put on a high posture, I did not say anything, probably heard that I came from the countryside, think I climbed high with his son, naturally looked down on me, they are elders, I can not do anything to them, I and my boyfriend in the kitchen to make food, he gave me a hand, and then his mother saw it and pulled his son out, let me get it alone in it, I did not say anything, who called her an elder.
After a night of busyness, I finally finished a large table of dishes by myself, at this time I was too tired to do it, looking at the dishes of this table they didn't say anything, they ate directly, I was already tired and half dead, I couldn't eat at all, I just sat next to me for a while, I wanted to rest and eat, I didn't expect that I just sat for a while in the life of wanting to eat, there were only leftovers and some juice on the table, they went out after eating, fortunately, the boyfriend left me a lot of it, so I didn't lose my temper While eating, the boyfriend told me about their family's situation, said that his mother was like this, told me not to go to the heart, although I was very angry at the time, but I also listened to the boyfriend's words, and did not make much trouble.
We also got along for a long time, and we also got to the point of talking about marriage, and we were ready to get married, and his mother heard that we were going to get married, and we did everything we could to obstruct, saying that we didn't agree with my marrying her son, and then after his son said something, they agreed that we were married, there was a condition, that is, to live with them AA system, I was confused, I asked what is the AA system, and then she said, the cost of living with them AA out, I almost scolded, Fortunately, my boyfriend pulled me aside and secretly told me that this was just talking and would not be practiced, and then I agreed, because we did not live with them after marriage.
A few years later we all have children, children are also going to school, these years I am very depressed, after we got married, my mother-in-law came to the door twice, because at that time we promised to be AA system life, she was afraid that I only said not to do it, although I and my husband can not be like this, but she is too much, just move over to live with us, she said to help us with children, I see that taking children is fake, supervising me is her purpose.
After she came, my life was disrupted, that day I was hungry, I saw some food at home, I thought it was my husband who bought it, I didn't think much about it, I ate a little, but what I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law actually knocked on my door at night and asked me to take money, I didn't understand what she said, she said that the food was bought by her, and now it was eaten by me, and then let me pay half of the money to her, saying that the original AA system, let me not forget.
Then everything has to be with me AA system, but I did not look for her once, the family's vegetable money is my own, she eats and drinks here every day, since she wants the AA system, then I will accompany to the end, this day to eat I deliberately do not buy meat, the result of eating when she was there shouting, blame me why I did not buy meat, I said; If you want to eat meat, you can take the money out, if you take the money out, tomorrow you won't even have your meal, hearing me say this, my mother-in-law is almost angry. But I didn't expect that she actually asked her husband to give her money, and then she gave it to me, which was too much.
So we have many years, the mother-in-law's attitude towards me has not changed, my children have grown up, and now the mother-in-law is also old, the family is such a son, of course, the pension depends on us, but the husband is usually very busy at work, there is no time to take care of her, one day the mother-in-law is sick, the husband is on a business trip, he has been calling me, let me take care of her, at the beginning I was not very happy, but how to say that she is also an old man, although she was very difficult to me when she was young, but now she is old, I don't bother with her about these past things, I should take care of her, but she really embarrassed me when she was young. Now I have also sent these things, I have hated her before, and now I just want to live a good life, home and everything.
epilogue:
In the face of such a request from the difficult mother-in-law, how will everyone deal with it? The mother-in-law asks for the AA system to live, but when she is old, she asks her daughter-in-law to take care of her, this mother-in-law may be very selfish, but Aunt Li does not worry about these things with her, and only wants to live a good life.