Adult love variety show "Semi-mature Lovers" is being broadcast, the reason why it is called "adult" love variety show, because the show's ordinary guests are generally older, here are basically 30+ men and women, and several guests are divorced with babies to participate in the show.
Among all the guests, the hottest is the love triangle between Lola, Yu Yue, wang Nengneng, followed by the "big brother and sister-in-law love" between Huang Ryan and Luo Ying, the "Semi-mature Lovers" contestants are older and have not become disadvantages, but have become advantages, because adults are mature and stable, not naïve, among all male guests, Huang Ryan can be said to be the most mature one.
From many small details can be seen Huang Ryan's maturity and high emotional intelligence, he is also very good at taking into account the feelings of others, in the latest episode of the show, Huang Ryan hesitated twice before making a choice, these two hesitations, to preserve the dignity of Yang Mengjing and Zhou Jinshun.
The first hesitation: write your name next to Yang Mengjing
"Semi-Acquaintances" is about to unfold on the second date day, the rules of this date are somewhat different from the first, the first date day is a man and a woman for a separate date, and the second date program group divides ten men and women into three groups, namely the sports group, the food group and the mystery group.
There are four people in the sports group and the food group, each group must be two men and two women, and the mystery group is a man and a woman for a separate date, and everyone must write their names on the small blackboard in turn, and write in the corresponding position if they want to go to which group.
This is going to test everyone's enthusiasm, everyone wants to be in the same group as the person they like, Luo Ying has already sent a secret signal to Huang Ryan.
Lola and Tong Yao chose the sports group, and Yu Yue and Wang Nengneng both liked Lola, so they also chose the sports group.
Yang Mengjing and Luo Ying chose the food group, at this time only Huang Ruien and Zhou Jinshun did not make a choice, in fact, they did not choose, because the other groups are full, they can only choose the food group, the difference is who wrote the name next to Yang Mengjing, who wrote the name next to Luo Ying.
The guests who wrote their names before all wrote their names next to the object of their hearts, when it was Huang Ryan's turn, he could choose to write his name next to Yang Mengjing, or next to Luo Ying, everyone thought that he would write next to Luo Ying without hesitation, but Huang Ryan hesitated.
After hesitating for a while, he wrote his name next to Yang Mengjing.
Some people say that Huang Ryan is not empathetic and not in love? Didn't he like Luo Ying to start liking Yang Mengjing?
In fact, no, he wrote his name next to Yang Mengjing, not because he liked it, but wanted to give Yang Mengjing some decency, if he wrote his name next to Luo Ying, then Yang Mengjing was the only girl left unselected in the audience, in public to let everyone see that they were not chosen, which is a bit cruel for girls.
So Huang Ryan wrote his name next to Yang Mengjing, he wanted to give her a little warmth, anyway, he and Luo Ying had already exchanged hearts, he did not write his name next to Luo Ying, the other party would not be angry.
The second hesitation: choose a selfie to make Zhou Jinshun decent
Huang Ryan's second hesitation is when making cakes, Huang Ryan, Zhou Jinshun, Luo Ying, Yang Mengjing chose the food group, the content of the date is to make cakes, in the gap between cake baking everyone played a game of blocks, each piece of bricks wrote a problem.
The titles are all about love, and one of the questions is this: Take a picture of someone you like.
The person who drew this question was Huang Ryan, who saw the question and said: Can I smoke again?
Luo Ying said: No
Huang Ryan said: You can not regret it.
After Huang Ryan finished reading the topic, Zhou Jinshun went to the side and drank a sip of water, everyone thought he was going to take a picture of Luo Ying, Zhou Jinshun was next to Luo Ying, if he did not leave, then he would also appear in the photo, he did not want to be so embarrassed so he took the initiative to walk away.
But I didn't expect that Huang Ryan did not take a picture of Luo Ying, he hesitated for a moment and took a selfie with his mobile phone, and then said: I am also the person I like, I have no problem taking a selfie.
Huang Ryan does not want to take pictures of Luo Ying, but if he really does, Zhou Jinshun will be very embarrassed, because Zhou Jinshun is his love enemy, he also likes Luo Ying, Huang Ruien does not want to embarrass the other party, and the opposite Yang Mengjing is watching, Wang Neng can like Lola, Yang Mengjing is miserable enough, Huang Ryan does not want to sprinkle dog food in front of her.
Huang Ryan's two hesitations on the surface are not firm enough to like Luo Ying, in fact, he is just thinking about how not to hurt others, so that everyone is decent, according to past performance, Huang Ryan does not like to express love in public, he likes to express it privately.
Two small details fully demonstrate Huang Ryan's emotional intelligence and thoughtfulness.