In today's materialistic society, there are some people who worship money, think that money is omnipotent, think that money can make ghosts grind, and money can buy anything, including love and marriage.
It is true that money can buy marriage, and some people may marry the other person because of the other person's money, but this marriage is unstable and it is difficult to achieve happiness.
The reason why this kind of marriage is not stable is because since the other party is with you because of money, if the other party meets someone richer than you, then the other party will not hesitate to go with him and will not have a trace of nostalgia for you. The reason why it is difficult to obtain happiness in this kind of marriage is because there is no love between you, your marriage has no love as a support, and the husband and wife look like each other, how can they get happiness?
Therefore, money can buy marriage, but it can't buy love, let alone happiness.
In the process of pursuing women, men should not engage in money supremacy, do not only spend money on women, only pay attention to meeting the needs of women in these two aspects, in order to easily hold the beauty.
Meet women's real needs and give women confidence in the future
Meeting women's actual needs does not only mean providing women with good material conditions, so that women have no worries about food and clothing, and let women have enough money to spend, because material conditions are only a small part of people's actual needs.
For women, their realistic needs are more to have a man who protects themselves, loves themselves and takes care of themselves, can shield themselves from the wind and rain, and can appear next to themselves when they need help the most and help themselves to solve difficulties.
Therefore, for men to meet the real needs of women, it is not by money, but by love and sincerity.
Although some men can give women a lot of money and let them live a rich life without worry, they can't give women care and love, and when women need help the most, when women are most empty and lonely, they will not accompany women, and they will not listen carefully to women's hearts.
Because they simply don't give really to women, they are not willing to waste so much energy and thought on women, they prefer to use money to solve problems, and money to please women. In fact, they just want to play with women, and they have never thought about having a future with women.
You can imagine how a woman could possibly be happy if she was with such a man and entrusted her life to such a man.
On the contrary, some men may not be able to give women too rich a life now, but they are willing to be self-motivated, willing to fight for their dreams and the future, and willing to pay for women with sincerity and love, and will appear when women need them most, and do their best to help women solve difficulties.
Such a man is what women need most, because he can make women full of confidence in the future, let women believe that your future will be full of beauty and happiness. So, a man wants to hold a beautiful person, not just spend money on her, but to meet the real needs of women and make women confident in your future.
Meet women's emotional needs and bring women a sense of security
Everyone has their own emotional needs, of which women's need for emotions is the most exuberant, because women are emotional animals, inner emotions are relatively rich, need others to understand her, also need others to tolerate her, but also need others to bring her enough security.
If a man wants to get closer to a woman, he must figure out what a woman's emotional needs are, and try his best to meet her emotional needs, so as to gain a woman's favor.
If a man only provides women with superior living conditions, only meets women's material needs, completely disregards her emotional needs, does not know how to care for women, does not know how to understand women, and does not know how to give women a sense of security, then women cannot feel happy.
If men can't give women too much money, but they are very concerned about women, appear when women need help the most, and do their best to give women the greatest help, so that women can gain a sense of security.
For example, when a woman is sick, the man runs before and after to take care of her, and gives the woman a reliance when her body is most vulnerable. Another example: when a woman is wronged and in a bad mood, the man always accompanies her, listens to her voice, enlightens her emotions, and even helps her go out to seek justice, which will make women particularly moved, thinking that they have found a man who can shield themselves from the wind and rain.
Such a man, compared with a man who will only spend money on women, will make women more moved and moved, and will also make women feel more secure and easier to hold beautiful people. So, men stop being silly and only spend money on women, learn to meet her emotional needs, and give her enough security.
Conclusion
A happy relationship is by no means something that can be obtained by money alone, and a man who wants to hold a beautiful person is by no means achieved by spending money alone, and must meet the actual needs and emotional needs of women, so that women can gain a sense of security and make her full of confidence in your future.
Therefore, when men pursue women, they must spend enough effort to meet these two needs of women in order to truly obtain women's hearts and let themselves embrace beauty.