After divorcing Ma Yili, the article appeared less and less.
A few days ago, he accidentally appeared in the promotional video of the movie "Valley Soul".
To be honest, if it wasn't for him saying "I am the article" himself, I really wouldn't recognize it.
In the video, he is wearing a loose white T-shirt, his face is a little haggard, he is visibly blessed with the naked eye, and his mental state is not good.
It is not at all the big star that everyone remembers, who is bright and handsome and full of spirit.
Many netizens wonder: Is the 37-year-old article already old like this?
In contrast, his ex-wife, 45-year-old Ma Yili, is in a completely different state.
On January 12, Ma Yili attended the "Feitian Award" award ceremony, with exquisite makeup, a sweet smile and a good complexion.
This star couple, who has been concerned by the whole network, after two and a half years of divorce, the difference in life direction is getting bigger and bigger, which is really regrettable.
Remember that in 2011, Ma Yili, who was married for 3 years, once confessed her husband in the show:
"No matter who the two of us have achieved much, or who one day fell so badly and fell to the trough of their careers, I feel that you will always be my husband and I will always be your wife." 」
Unfortunately, fate has gone around, and in the blink of an eye, everything has changed.
Why does the article break a good hand? The story is well worth reading.
Article Before the age of 30, the luck was particularly good. He is good-looking, his family is well-off, his parents are cadres of the organs, and they are also very supportive of his dreams.
At the age of 15, he was selected by the crew and participated in a drama that was very popular at that time, "Youth on Time", and became a "child star".
In the third year of high school, he got a guaranteed quota at the Art College of Sichuan Normal University, but he was arrogant and arrogant to take the Chinese opera examination.
Then, I was really admitted.
He was really smooth in his early days, for probably three reasons:
First, he has ambitions. Second, his strength is worthy of this ambition. Third, it is very important that when he is weak, he is especially good at being a person.
In front of stronger people, he is always humble, thoughtful, and enthusiastic, so when he is not red, many friends in the circle help him.
"Days Related to Youth" was introduced by Gao Yuanyuan to him. In the "Youth" crew, he met Tong Dawei and became a good brother.
Tong Dawei took extra care of him, managing food and drinking in the crew, and also helping him ponder the drama. The article once praised Tong Dawei as "an angel with wings plugged in".
Tong Dawei introduced the southerly corner of "Struggle" to the article. At that time, director Zhao Baogang had never heard of the article.
Tong Dawei was soft and hard, and Zhao Daocai reluctantly saw the article. As soon as the article appeared, Zhao Dao was very satisfied, and immediately decided: It was him to the south.
In 2005, when the 21-year-old article was filming "JinyiWei", he met 29-year-old Ma Yili and sparked a spark. After filming "Jinyi Wei", the two fell in love.
At that time, the article was still a college student, and Ma Yili was already a popular actress.
The date was photographed by paparazzi, and newspaper headlines called him "mysterious man."
The article is very unhappy: I am also an actor, how did I become a "mysterious man"? Later, the sister-brother love was exposed, and many people said that the article was popular by Ma Yili.
Ma Yili didn't care, but the article couldn't be heard.
Although the article later seemed willing to be the "little man" behind Ma Yili, in fact, he was mindful of some things in his heart.
Ma Yili always comforted him: "As long as we are both living well, you don't care what others say." ”
This is the difference between Ma Yili and the article. Articles care about small things, and they think about superficial things. And Ma Yili looks at the problem more thoroughly and can grasp the fundamentals more.
In 2008, The article married Ma Yili Fengzi. Ma Yili was not interested in the wedding, so the two did not hold any ceremonies, but only hastily received a certificate.
Ma Yili later said that on the day of receiving the license, the two were filming separately. She asked the director for a leave of absence, and the director disagreed. She had to say that she was going to get a marriage license, which was allowed two hours of leave.
The two men wore military coats and ran to the Civil Affairs Bureau, did not say a word of nonsense, signed it, and quickly ran back to continue filming.
After marriage, Ma Yili has been silently paving the way for the article and helping him win good resources. The acting skills of the article are very good, but the showbiz industry actually looks at connections. Someone brings it and no one brings it, it's a world of difference.
Ma Yili is more red than the article, and more intelligent and can be a person than the article. In the years since her debut, she has not only accumulated works, but also saved a lot of relationships.
She wired the article and recommended it to the acquaintance director Du Yuming to have "Snow Leopard"; she introduced the article to her boyfriend Teng Huatao, and only then did she have "Snail Residence" and "Naked Marriage Era".
The article is also really contentious, and every play is well done. His drama path has become more and more extensive, and he has also participated in many big movies, such as "Ocean Paradise" with jet Li.
Jet Li appreciates the article very much, likes to recognize him as a dry son, and often calls him a superstar in private, and even willingly becomes a green leaf, and praises the article in "The Legend of the White Snake" and "Detective No Two".
Stephen Chow also sees the article as the future "king of comedy".
When cooperating with "Journey to the West to Descend demons", Xingye expressed his position on Xuanzang's casting: "To choose the best, you must choose the article." ”
Those were the most proud years of the article's life. In his twenties, red and purple, his works were filmed in a fire, and he won the prize and got the soft hand - Magnolia Award, Huabiao Award, Golden Eagle Award...
The ultimate dream of these actors, he seems to have picked it up casually. Even the article itself lamented: "I am really smooth." ”
Just under the explosion of popularity, the negative information about him gradually increased: "temper explosion", "playing a big card", "disrespecting the staff"...
Some people are like this, the pattern is not enough, the temperament is unstable.
In the low place, the weak mentality will make him restrained, humble, try to please the strong, and then he will go more smoothly.
And once he goes to a high place, he will become arrogant and look down on those who are below him, and this arrogance will make him fall down quickly.
In fact, for the article, Ma Yili is a good companion. Her pattern and mind make up for the lack of the article very well.
This point, the article is probably also clear. He has repeatedly confessed his love for his wife in public: "The most cattle thing in my life is that my woman is called Ma Yili." "I was born to look for Ma Yili."
The article named his daughter Wen Ai Ma (nickname), which shows that he really loves and cares for his wife.
In order to surprise Ma Yili, who was filming in Wuzhen, he flew from Beijing to Shanghai at 7:00 a.m., and then shared a car with someone to Tongxiang, and then walked 8 kilometers from Tongxiang to a taxi... After tossing for almost 12 hours, he appeared in front of Ma Yili.
At home, the article called Ma Yili Commander Ma, and all the money earned was handed over. He said that it is a matter of special pride for men to earn money to support their wives.
He didn't even open his own bank account after marriage, and he didn't know how much money he made.
He also taught Zhang Jie the experience: "When you get married, you have to give money to your wife, so that men don't have accidents." ”
That being said, it's still going to happen.
In 2011, Article and Yao Di starred in the fire drama "The Age of Naked Marriage". The two played a couple of green plum bamboo horses in the play, because of the drama.
The "model husband" article, cheated.
At that time, the article was already a male god in the hearts of many girls. His fame and his excellent acting skills made Yao Di feel humble in front of him.
At an awards ceremony in 2012, Yao Di said on stage: "Teacher Wen is my idol. ”
The article next to it was still serious before, and when I heard this, I looked down and laughed.
The hostess at the time said, "But he is married." Yao Di replied inquiringly, "Idol, can't you?" ”
This admiration, for the article, is a temptation that is hard to resist, and her admiration makes him have the pride of a "big man".
When Yao Di appeared, Ma Yili was pregnant with a first child and a second child, and experienced a big belly, breast swelling, mastitis, chest sagging, postpartum depression...
Unfortunately, not all men can understand the difficulty of their wives. Instead, they will feel that their wives have lost their charm, and they are very interested, waiting for an opportunity to find a new love.
On March 15, 2014, Ma Yili had just given birth to her second child and was still recuperating. The article was tightly covered, secretly flew to Shenzhen, got off the plane and changed three cars, traveled to several locations, determined safety, and came to Yao Di's side.
He originally planned to go to Hong Kong with Yao Di to celebrate his birthday, and March 17 was Yao Di's birthday.
He did not expect that a camera hidden in the shadows had recorded this scene.
That paparazzi has been following him for 8 months.
It wasn't just for a piece of news, it was for a bad breath.
After the article became famous, he offended too many media people, the photo was subsequently published, and the article was hammered to death.
The major platforms set off a boom, but except for Ma Yili, it seems that no big V has stepped forward to support him.
The article also reflects clearly: "The smoothness of my acting career has created my arrogant, arrogant and arrogant temper, which has led to today's precarious situation..."
After this apology letter, Ma Yili stabilized the situation with the classic sentence "Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished".
After the "See You on Monday" incident, the article's career plummeted.
In the entertainment industry, which pays more and more attention to art and morality, few people dare to use a bad star.
After almost two years of silence, the article came out with its first work after the "See You on Monday" incident.
He said: "This play is the most desperate one, it can be said that it was made with my life. ”
Objectively speaking, his acting skills are still very good. It's just that the audience looks at his mentality and can never go back to the past.
At the award ceremony later, the article tearfully thanked zhang Li, the director of the play, for using himself in such pressure.
After that, the article made some films, as an actor and director. People around him said that he was down-to-earth and peaceful. However, he never regained his former glory.
Maybe people's good luck in a lifetime is limited, and once they are defeated, they can't afford to return to heaven no matter how hard they try.
A person's temporary success may depend on talent, appearance, and hard work, but it is still character that determines a person's long-term success.
Later, the article also relied on the "good father" image to win back a little favor.
He was accidentally photographed accompanying his daughter to a Latin dance competition, seriously accompanying the child to the entrance, kneeling on the ground to shoot the child's competition, looking a bit like a good man at home.
But a lot of things are different from what we see. In July 2019, just when people thought the article was completely back to the family, the two people announced their divorce.
At that time, many netizens praised Ma Yili, praised her for being strong, and congratulated her on her final liberation.
But Ma Yili later said that during the divorce period, she was very depressed, unable to do so every day, and even could not get up, and was depressed for a time.
I believe that is the truth. Ma Yili has always been particularly family-oriented.
She once said that "there is nothing better than being a family together". She and the article have been together for so many years, and she has two daughters, and the two people have long been inseparable.
About a year ago, the long-divorced article was photographed with a girl.
Some netizens saw the photo and sighed: "This elegy is really like the previous Yao Di." ”
People like to watch the most popular stars. People outside the spotlight, few people will notice.
I don't know if without the public attention, the article will talk about a love that he is satisfied with. Will you miss the glory of the past, and hate that you can't start all over again.
And the cruelty of life lies in the inability to turn back. As long as some mistakes are committed, they cannot go back.
Every star is a mirror that reflects human nature bluntly and makes us wake up.
I hope that you who read this article will also know how to cherish the people around you, cherish good luck, do not be arrogant, do not be arrogant, think more about others in everything, and grasp the measure of dealing with the world.
This is really important. Because of some wrestling, we really couldn't afford to fall.
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Author: Li Yueliang, Source: Li Yueliang. Editor on duty: Hu Tianyue