Everyone's heart is likely to have a person who can't put it down, people often say that if they are willing to start a new love, they need to erase their past memories, but in this world, almost no one really forgets.
After all, forgetting is the hardest thing in the world. People often persuade others to learn to let go, but when they get here, it is very difficult. There are many unexpected things in life, one second the two are intimate, the next second is likely to be like a stranger.
Love is fickle, but girls must not lose themselves in love. Only by maintaining your own mentality can you have the qualification to speak. If it is true that we have come to the day of separation, there is no need to be too sad, and everyone will break up peacefully.
It may be hard to forget, but it's something that must be experienced. The journey of life is long, and not everyone accompanies you to the end. If you must leave, let it go and don't let yourself be too embarrassed. Everyone knows that it is very painful to let go, to precipitate time, to relieve the heart. How long does it take for a woman to forget the man she loved?
The answer is: I'm afraid it will take a lifetime
In the past, boys made promises and were willing to live with her for a lifetime, but there were times when life always liked to joke. Whether they can walk together with each other, in fact, in addition to some fate, there is still a little luck, if there is no such luck, so it must not be able to walk together. Girls forget a person, in fact, there are some times, it is impossible to forget, even if they want to try their best to overcome, but it is still difficult to let go. This is love, because love is often full of memories, and if you want to kill memories, you must first clear the memories. However, the human brain is not a computer, it can easily restore the factory settings, so girls like a person, even if they are separated later, so in later life, their minds will still think of boys.
Not to mention that it is still a boy who has been in love in the true sense, such a situation can be compared to a person, how many times in this life, maybe only once. Therefore, after the girl is invested, she will also deeply remember that even if the two are separated and lose contact from now on, then the person she loves is engraved in the bottom of her heart, how can she forget, and how dare she forget. Therefore, it can be seen that love is a particularly wonderful thing, but it is also particularly wonderful. Usually after some people break up, they will feel very painful, and then use a period of time to forget, and even some people start a relationship again, the purpose is to forget the past. But how many people can really forget? Therefore, girls can't forget the boys they once loved, and their every move, every move, is engraved in the girl's memory. Since this is the case, how girls can forget, perhaps only think more deeply.
Many years ago, I liked to watch "Tokyo Love Story" and especially liked that Akamei Rika cried a lot when she later decided to separate from Nagao, and from now on, never meet again, such a decisive mentality is not as good as the best farewell to the past.
This method also makes us understand the use of empathy to change, although it seems to be forgotten, but it also tells everyone that love itself is illusory. The best way to forget is to make a new love and wait until you like another person again. Such an emotional transfer will no longer be a deliberate forgetting by the pursuit, but from the previous relationship, choose the person who is suitable for mutual interaction.
In general, compared to a girl, the person who once loved each other has either always been cherished in our hearts; or they cannot get rid of his shadow for a lifetime and live in pain and regret; or they have forgotten each other and lived their own lives.
With love in the heart, anything is possible. Enjoy life and live your true self. Every girl is the best, and now you, just wait for the flowers to bloom.