With the birth, growth, marriage and control of the family, the family also develops. In the process of family development, the rise and fall of family property has a great impact, but the survival of a family's affectionate love directly causes the family's brokenness and happiness. As long as there is still kinship, the family still has the possibility of reconstruction. If only one person has a family affection, the family may develop into a happy family. As long as we try to love every family and love this family, the family's family affection will grow. How can we "love" in order to make the whole family happy and share the joy of the world? The three ways to run a happy family are as follows:
Love yourself – make yourself more beautiful
The prerequisite for loving your family and loving this family is that you must first learn how to love yourself. Love is beauty, and beauty is me. To love yourself is to do everything you can to make yourself more and more beautiful. To make one's body, appearance, voice, movement, language, mood, thought, mind, and every fragment of one's life more and more beautiful, beautiful and beautiful, is to love oneself.
Too many people, after marriage (to take care of their families), do not take care of themselves. More and more people, in the family, make themselves disheveled and rude. Unhealthy health, unattended figure, uncomfortable mood, self-dissatisfaction, and other phenomena allow a person to defile his own beauty, his own self, and his own life. Although there are thousands of reasons to sacrifice for the sake of one's family, a person who is not beautiful and does not take care of himself, and who dedicates in the name of love, is a "love" that all family members cannot bear. Love is common prosperity, you wither my glory, how can you bear it in your heart? How can you be compatible with each other and love each other?
Second, love your family - make your family more beautiful
The love of affection is the mutual fit, mutual discovery and mutual formation of the beauty of the family
Long and mutual enjoyment. With their own beauty, illuminate this family, in order to trigger the family
Beauty, beauty and beauty can grow each other. We must first dress up our hearts and move
The machine, behavior and image go on to dress up the family's heart, motivation, behavior and form
elephant. Lead the whole family to create and receive aesthetic experiences, moods, dialogues and lives
Move, let yourself be beautiful, your family is beautiful, your home is beautiful.
It is important to note that "loving your family" is the second step. Common
The problem is to love your family as the first step, or even as the "only" step
Suddenly — only love family. Take the initiative to be aware of the mental and physical state of each family member and actively go
Explore family role satisfaction and needs; then work on adjusting your own horns
Color, under the prerequisite of meeting the needs of the other person's role, let every family member be because of me
The state of mind and body becomes more because of what I say and what I do
Beautiful and better. And, go further to lead the family, inspire each other to make each other more beautiful
better.
Use "beauty" as a measure of every family member, "You look now."
Beautiful! "This expression is so beautiful!" "You're prettier than yesterday!" ”、
"When I heard you say this, I felt that I was beautiful!" " " Just with you."
Together, I feel that everything is so beautiful! "Remember to be more beautiful, more beautiful."
Yo! "You see, my sister is particularly beautiful from this point of view!" "You guys."
Say, Daddy is not getting more and more handsome! "We all feel, Grandma, you're getting more and more."
Pretty is getting cuteer! "Whoops! Obsessed, you see big brother that cool
shape! "Come, I'll help you get your hair straightened out, ha!" It's beautiful! "Pass
With the right words and actions, everyone can effectively love their family – make the family
More beautiful.
Third, love this home - let our home be more beautiful
Loving oneself, loving every family, and loving this family are exactly three different stages. Loving every family member is not all about loving that family. Just as the basic concept of Gestalt psychology is that the sum of parts is not equal to the whole, the home is a collective, whole Gestalt, and the sum of the gestalts of the parts is not equal to the entire grid tower. The home is the smallest social entity in social organization. The home is composed of family, housing, furnishings, and objects, especially with the concept of "our family" as the core structure. People often say that this is my home, but the home is not the house, the home is not the address, the home is in the heart of the family.
Therefore, when families are chatting and talking, they should take the initiative to intensively use two mantras of Zen –our family and our family. Having a family member often say these two sentences will lead the whole family to gradually use these two sentences. It is often said in the mouth that the heart will last forever and there will be clear indicators of behavior. From "I am so beautiful" and "you are so beautiful" all the way to "our family is so beautiful" and "our family is so beautiful", proper positive communication language will lead every family to the door of happiness.