#影视杂谈 #
What is the hottest TV series recently? I believe that many people will vote for "The Beginning", this drama has been unanimously praised since its inception, it can be described as the first explosive TV series in the beginning of the year, and in addition to the protagonist, the supporting roles in the play also have their own points of view, today we will talk about the middle school young Ludi who covers himself tightly, seemingly indifferent but enthusiastic.
At first glance, Ludy, like many people, felt that this person was "not like a good person" and was difficult to approach, but when he learned his story, he was unconsciously touched, ben was a simple kind and loving person, but he became the number one suspicious person in the eyes of others, such an encounter is really heart-wrenching, and it is the mother who says that he is good for him.
The mother's desire to control is the shackle of Ludy's growth. From Lu Di's diary, it can be seen that Lu Di can affectionately call Li Shiqing and Xiao Heyun who met for the first time as good friends, which shows that in daily life, Lu Di has almost no friends to speak of, and it is his mother who makes him have such a situation. His mother's desire to control him is very strong, even to the point of paranoia, always knowing where others are, what they are doing, and everything must be according to her ideas, and this has become the shackles of Ludy's growth, no friends, no socializing, going out to make herself invisible, becoming a strange person in the eyes of others.
Maintenance in the name of love is a cage that is difficult to break free. In the play, Ludi's mother's love for Ludi is beyond reproach, but it is this love that makes Ludi feel oppressed, his mother has never asked him what he likes, what is his interest, always imposes the idea that she thinks it is good for him, but ignores that the child is also an individual, and slowly her love is like a cage, so Ludi desperately wants to escape, so she hides her family from renting a house outside the house and building her own secret cottage.
The lack of listening has widened the gap between Ludy and her mother. From the moment Ludy came home, the most I heard was the roar of Ludi's mother, Ludi came back late, a chant on his mouth, found that he had cat hair on his body was even more anxious to jump to his feet, and the words spoken to Ludi were heavier than one sentence, at first Ludi also tried to explain to his mother, but found that the other party did not listen to him and then argued, and then closed the door and went back to the house to treat him coldly.
Such a scene has appeared in many people, but it can be seen how much influence Ludy has had on him, and in my opinion, the rebirth after the disaster and the possibility of entering the cycle to experience the explosion again are not the main reasons for Ludy to write a suicide note, and it is his mother who really makes him have this idea. Maybe this idea hadn't been in his mind for the first time, but this time it had just happened to have an opportunity, and it was also a way for him to rebel against his mother.
On the other hand, Ludy is unhappy, so why isn't Ludy's mother? her son broke her heart, but in exchange for Lu Di's incomprehension, disapproval, and even the mother and son are like enemies, as a mother, how can her heart not be painful? But the reason for this is ultimately herself, it is she who imprisons Ludy in the name of love, and finally ends up with a lose-lose situation.
Therefore, I hope that those who are already parents, or who are about to become parents, can be warned by Ludi's case and not to imprison children in a self-righteous way.
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