preface:
Everyone's life is very precious, and a good life starts with a good circle of friends.
We make friends in a sincere way and don't care about the number of friends,
We need to put our energy and time into our true friends.
If the people around you are draining your energy, then let's not care about each other's face.
These three kinds of people should not be contacted when they reach middle age, because there is no point.
"The fun of middle age is to know life quite well, to know yourself,
So as to do what you can do, enjoy the life you can enjoy. "---- Liang Shiqiu."
Therefore, we must appropriately reduce our circle of friends in order to truly make true friends.
Because we have more responsibilities in middle age, after all, it is not the age when we are young and can fool around and ignore it.
So this time is very important for us, the time of friends.
So if you've already won, don't waste time with the following three kinds of friends don't contact again.
When people reach middle age, they have suffered all the hardships of life and enjoyed the hardships of life.
We should understand what we came into this world for.
There are old and small, intolerable, middle-aged people are lax.
So if the first half of your life is already wasted, then the second half of your life must be made up.
People should learn to be selfish and snobbish in middle age,
For those who consume you, no matter how close the relationship is, no matter how good the feelings are, it is appropriate to stay away.
Time brings us growth, whether it is age or the wisdom of dealing with people, we should not stand still.
So by touching things and encountering things, we become more and more rational.
We must know how to optimize our lives to the best state in order to live more and more easily.
1. People who look down on you
In fact, people are mutually attracted to each other, rather than pleasing each other.
Some people are with you for money, and some people are with you for profit.
This is the cruelty of today's society, so those who look down on you, we will be able to distinguish it over time.
If you spend a long time with them, you will feel particularly aggrieved and awkward.
We all know that the hardest thing for a person to change is prejudice and misunderstanding of another person.
If we become more humble, the more we want to please the other party, which will make others look down on you even more.
If a person obviously looks down on you, then we should not wronged ourselves,
As a mature middle-aged man, you must have your own backbone in life, but you must not be humble.
When you find yourself not respected, be sure to stay away and don't wait until the end to regret it.
2. People who do not keep their word
We all know that the most valuable thing about being a human being is to keep promises and promise other people's things to do.
Before we do anything, we must first learn to be human.
When we meet a person who speaks the head of the tao, without integrity and lets you down once and for all, we have to stay away.
People without integrity, they often hurt the people around them in life,
It is easy for such people to make promises, but in the end they rebel, and after getting along with others, we are very insecure.
Therefore, to win the respect of others, we must keep our promises.
Those who do not believe in their words, we must choose to stay away, otherwise you will definitely be hurt by this person.
3. People who like to manipulate right and wrong
Often those who like to manipulate right and wrong, they are very dark in their hearts,
Always like to chew the root of the tongue behind others' backs and stir up the relationship between each other,
Such people can be said to be very narrow in their hearts, and they always can't see that the people around them are better than themselves.
Therefore, this kind of person is often a villain, and we must stay away from such people around us.
Otherwise, it will bring great trouble to your life.
When our circle of friends slowly begins to do subtraction, it is actually to add happiness and happiness.
Those who haven't been in touch for a long time don't have to contact anymore, because contact is meaningless.
Friends actually focus on quality, not quantity.
It's not what we think, the more friends the better, and people don't have to leave too many irrelevant people around in middle age.
Conclusion:
As time goes on, we will find ourselves with heavier and heavier burdens,
The pressure behind it is also getting bigger and bigger, and not giving up some suitable people can better move forward.
When people reach middle age, they should let go and give up, in order to better cherish.
When a person reaches middle age, what should be broken must be broken, and the break is to continue better.
So you will eventually understand that the most important thing in a person's life is to make yourself comfortable.
When you know how to stay away from the above three kinds of people, you will find that the troubles in life will slowly decrease.
That's all I've got to say today.
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References | Journal of experimental psychology. Learning,memory,and cognition