On October 25, 2019, an incident occurred in zaozhuang maternal and child health hospital in Shandong Province, which surprised netizens across the country. On the same day, in the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital, an elderly woman of up to 67 years old gave birth to a healthy baby girl named Huang Tianci.
In our country, it is not uncommon for advanced-age mothers to be pregnant. For example, Sheng Hailin, a 49-year-old mother who was doing IVF before, and Guo Min, who gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus at the age of 54, etc. What is rare is that this mother is already a grandmother, breaking the limits of the human body and still being able to give birth to a child in the way of natural conception.
After the elderly woman named Tian Xinju gave birth to a child, she not only detonated the Internet, causing netizens to talk about it, but also caused a big earthquake in her home.
The debate about whether such an old man should still have a child, and after the child is born, if the old man is not in good health in the future, the debate about who should raise the child has not stopped since the time when the elderly mother decided to have a child.
Although Tian Xinju and the child's father, Huang Weiping, both firmly believe that their old couple is fully capable of taking good care of the child. But it still makes the majority of netizens worried, so after two years, what happened to their family of three.
Let's get closer to the unusual story of this elderly couple who gave birth.
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Before giving birth to the third-born daughter Huang Tianci at an advanced age, Tian Xinju and her husband Huang Weiping had been living a normal and prosperous life.
Tian Xinju was a former doctor in the pediatric department of Zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital, and her husband Huang Weiping worked as a lawyer at a law firm in Zaozhuang City, and both sons and daughters have grown up.
The eldest granddaughter is also in college.
At that time, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping, in addition to Tian Xinju had retired, Huang Weiping was still working in the law firm.
Only the young granddaughter who is in junior high school usually lives with two elderly people, and the two elderly people are responsible for the younger granddaughter's diet and school transportation.
The two old men were usually in good health and had a good economy, so they lived a peaceful and contented life.
But what the couple did not expect was that the peaceful old age would be broken by a sudden child.
In April 2019, Tian Xinju, who usually has been in good health, suddenly felt that her whole body was not energetic, so she went to the hospital to find a doctor to prescribe some drugs that activated blood and dissolved stasis and tonified qi and blood.
After Tian Xinju took the medicine prescribed by the doctor for a few days, suddenly one day she found that her lower body actually showed signs of bleeding. For safety reasons, Tian Xinju went to the hospital to do a B ultrasound examination.
What Tian Xinju did not expect was that the doctor who did B ultrasound said that she was pregnant, and said that through B ultrasound, she could clearly see the appearance of the pregnancy sac.
The doctor's words made Tian Xinju greatly disbelieving, in her opinion, she had been menopausal for many years, and she had already passed the time of natural fertility, how could she get pregnant.
However, the news of the confirmed pregnancy on the examination report made her believe this fact.
At the age of 67, she was pregnant, and this child was still not born to embarrass Tian Xinju and her husband Huang Weiping.
At first, Tian Xinju felt that it was too humiliating to be pregnant at an old age, and she resolutely did not want to leave this child, so as not to spread the laughter and generosity when the time came.
But Huang Weiping's idea was very different from Tian Xinju's.
In his view, the child is the crystallization of the love between the two people and is a precious life.
It was also a gift from heaven to their later life, so Huang Weiping still thought about whether he could give birth to this child.
Of course, Huang Weiping's idea is based on the fact that his wife Tian Xinju's body can withstand the arduous process of pregnancy and childbirth, and more importantly, it also depends on the health of the child in his wife Tian Xinju's belly.
For a long time, the two argued over whether to keep the child.
Gradually, as the child grew bigger and bigger in Tian Xinju's belly, Tian Xinju slowly re-experienced the happiness of being a mother when she was young.
At this time, Tian Xinju was also more and more reluctant to beat up this child.
Finally, Tian Xinju and her husband Huang Weiping comprehensively considered the age, physical condition and income status of the two people, and finally decided that if the child developed well in Tian Xinju's belly,
And Tian Xinju's body is no problem, they will fight again in the retirement year, and experience the taste of being a parent again.
What the couple did not expect was that after conceiving this child, Tian Xinju's body became better.
Tian Xinju is like rejuvenating her childhood, not only has her high blood pressure become normal, but her body has also become more powerful.
In the past, Tian Xinju often couldn't walk when he went upstairs, but now he became able to go up to the fifth floor without breathing.
Both Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju began to think that this child was an unexpected gift from heaven to the couple.
The two agreed that after the child was born, it would be named "Heavenly Gift".
However, what Huang Weipingtian and his wife did not expect was that one of their children was firmly opposed to the birth of this unexpected child.
It should be known that Huang Weipingtian Xinju's eldest son was born in 1977, when the eldest granddaughter was going to college.
In the eyes of their sons, their granddaughters are all in college, and their grandparents have a third child, not to mention how humiliating it is.
Parents who have reached the age of retirement have run to give birth to a third child, and this is like a word.
More importantly, Huang Weipingtian Xinju and the two are both old people in their sixties, and to put it badly, they don't know how many years they can live.
Give birth to a young child, and then in case something happens, who will take care of the child?
In this way, the couple reached an agreement to give birth to a child, but they ate a closed door soup at the child's place.
During that time, in order to give birth to a child who arrived unexpectedly, Huang Weiping, Tian Xinju and a son and a daughter once quarreled very stiffly, even to the point of not interacting with each other.
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Although the children do not understand, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping, who have become parents for the third time, are still full of expectations for the children in their wombs.
When pregnant, Tian Xinju paid great attention to her body.
The obstetric examination that should be done, the folic acid that should be eaten, calcium tablets and other nutritional products, she did not fall at all.
Huang Weiping also takes good care of his wife.
Doing housework, walking with his wife, and even prenatal education that young people will do, scientific parenting knowledge learning, etc., Huang Weiping has not fallen.
Huang Weiping Tian Xinju and his wife were living in the staff room of Tian Xinju Hospital at that time.
At that time, Huang Weiping also specially opened up a vegetable field under the house where he lived, planted a lot of vegetables, and let his wife eat the pollution-free vegetables he grew every day.
Every once in a while, Huang Weiping would ask people to buy native chickens and eggs raised by farmers from the countryside.
Even for the cooking oil of stir-fry, he also bought the vegetable oil squeezed by the farmer himself.
Try to get your pregnant wife to eat well.
Not only Tian Xinju Huang Weiping and his wife paid great attention to their physical condition and the condition of their children, but even the obstetricians and gynecologists of Zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital, who were responsible for helping them with obstetric examination at that time, have always been very concerned about the couple.
When I first learned that Tian Xinju was pregnant at an advanced age, the doctor who examined Tian Xinju also advised the old couple to give up the child.
But later, when it was learned that the old couple was determined to have a child, the obstetrician turned to doing his best to help the couple give birth safely.
In order to ensure the safe production of Tian Xinju, the obstetrics and gynecology department of Zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital has specially organized special expert doctors, who have opened a WeChat group to often guide Tian Xinju during pregnancy to ensure safe delivery.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, it's October 2019.
In order to ensure the safety of adults and children as much as possible, Huang Weiping chose to let Tian Xinju have a caesarean section in the hospital in advance on October 25.
On October 25, 2019, 67-year-old Tian Xinju gave birth to a baby girl weighing 5 kilograms through a caesarean section at zaozhuang Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Shandong Province.
The name is "Heavenly Gift."
The little Gift that was just born was very healthy, which made Huang Weiping, who became a father for the third time at the age of 68, very happy.
To Huang Weiping's surprise, the news that his wife Tian Xinju had a child at the age of 67 quickly spread.
Not only did many media come to the hospital to find out after learning the news, but even inside and outside the hospital, many people were talking about the couple's elderly daughter.
People lament that the couple is powerful, capable, breaking the limits of the human body, and being able to give birth to a child in a natural way at such an old age.
Many more people feel that it is unfair for couples to have children at such an old age as a newborn baby.
It may even be unfair to one's own adult children.
Because in the future, if something happens to the couple, this little baby is likely to be a burden for adult children.
At first, Huang Weiping did not take these discussions to heart.
Because the wife had just given birth to a child, she was still very weak.
Before and after giving birth, Huang Weiping has been staying in the hospital to take care of his wife, sleeping less than two or three hours a day.
After his wife gave birth to a child, although he invited his sister-in-law, he still had to shuttle between the hospital and the family.
What made Huang Weiping even more unexpected was that the fact that the couple had children at an advanced age was quickly circulating on the Internet.
Netizens talked about the couple and said everything.
Some netizens who did not know the truth also said a lot of ugly words, which made Tian Xinju, who had just finished giving birth, very angry after knowing it.
In order to let his wife rest well, Huang Weiping advised her not to pay attention to the Internet.
He himself chose several reliable media to be interviewed, and after sincerely explaining the truth about the elderly daughter, he also chose not to respond to the chaos on the Internet.
Soon, it was time for Xiao Tianqi to be discharged from the hospital.
Because during that time, there were many people who came to the hospital to find Huang Weiping and his wife, who wanted to see the lively, strange, enthusiastic merchants rushing to sponsor gifts, as well as various media.
For safety, Huang Weiping's family chose to quietly discharge home from the special passage of the hospital.
After returning home, Huang WeiPingtian Xinju and his wife politely refused the kindness of many merchants to sponsor baby products, and decided to raise xiao Tianzi on their own.
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In order to ensure the economy of raising children, Huang Weiping worked in the law firm until Xiao Tianci was born.
After Xiao Tianci was born, in order to take care of the child, Huang Weiping reduced his workload a little, but he was still doing the work of a lawyer.
At that time, coupled with the retirement salary of his wife Tian Xinju, the two of them earned more than 10,000 yuan per month, and it was more than enough to raise a child.
In addition, Huang Weiping was originally a diligent and family-oriented person, and he would usually do housework at home.
After having children, in order to take good care of the children and help Tian Xinju reduce the burden, he drove his wife and children to the law firm every day to work.
He works in the front office, and his wife takes the children in the rest room at the back of the office.
This makes it easy for him to take the handle at any time.
Fortunately, the little gift is also very good to bring, which allows the couple to take care of it and get busy.
Soon, xiao Tianzi was three months in the blink of an eye.
The online discussion about the couple's advanced childbirth has gradually subsided, but it has not stopped.
But Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju have already corrected their mentality, they choose not to read these comments, and they spend all their minds on children and enjoy the unique "joy of heaven".
Watching Xiao Tianci grow up healthy day by day, the old couple did not mention how happy they were.
What made Huang Weiping even more unexpected was that as Xiao Tianci gradually grew up and grew better and better, the discussion on the Internet about the old couple's elderly children gradually became mostly understanding.
And when the old couple took Xiao Tianqi out of the house, they unexpectedly received a lot of people's welcome.
After many people recognize their couple and Xiao Tianzi through the Internet, many people will come to greet them and tease the children.
Some people, even after obtaining the consent of the couple, will be very happy to take a video of their family of three and post it online.
To the surprise of Huang Weiping and his wife, the lively and cute little Gift has been loved by many netizens.
Gradually, some people who like Xiao Tianqi will also take the initiative to send toys, clothes, diapers and other supplies to Xiao Tianqi.
The popularity of Xiao Tianqi has reassured Huang Weiping and his wife a lot.
Originally, I was worried about Xiao Tianci's situation when he grew up.
What makes Huang Weiping and his wife even more pleased is that as the children grow up, his sons and daughters have slowly understood the parents' practices.
Not only did everyone return to normal communication, but the eldest daughter often ran to her mother's house to help take care of the younger daughter Tianqi as soon as she had time.
Seeing that the three brothers and sisters with such a large age difference can get along harmoniously is the thing that makes Huang Weipingtian Xinju and his wife the happiest.
After the family reconciled, Huang Weiping also organized a family gathering, and everyone gathered together.
At the same time, Huang Weiping's children also officially stated that if the second elder cannot take care of Xiao Tianzi in the future, they will do their duty as brothers and sisters to protect Xiao Tianzi and grow up safely.
The promise of the children made Huang WeiPingtian Xinju and his wife overjoyed, and the original plan of the couple was to exercise their bodies as much as possible and accompany Tianqi for a long time.
If it really doesn't work, find a good family for Tianzi to adopt, but if today's brother and sister are willing to take care of Tianzi, this is the best.
At this point, Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju were officially relieved of their worries about the future of Tianci.
Later, in order to give back everyone's love for Tianqi and record the growth of Tianqi, the couple also opened a special social account to tell everyone in the form of video that Tianci really grew well.
What's more, although the couple is older, they are serious about taking care of the children.
Especially in the matter of scientific parenting, the old couple is not worse than the young people.
After the opening of Xiao Tianci's online growth account, Xiao Tianci gained a large number of fans online and offline.
This little gift is even more famous, and it can be recognized everywhere you go.
But fortunately, no matter where the couple goes, their family gains most of the kindness.
Even if it is a little bad comment, the kind and generous couple no longer cares about it, after all, compared to the happy growth of the child, what is this.
Today, Xiao Tianci is two years old and looks healthy and cute.
Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju are taking care of their children while still working hard for their children's future.
The most admirable thing is that in order to prepare better material conditions for the future of Xiao Tianqi, Huang Weiping and his wife also followed the trend and opened an online store, and the sales were still good.
Although until now, there are still people who question whether the elderly daughter of the old couple is extremely irresponsible, for Huang Weipingtian Xinju, this is nothing.
What they have to do and can do as parents is to accompany Xiao Tianqi to grow up in their lifetime.
Because since Heaven has the opportunity to let their family of three meet, cultivating the cute little gift with facts and actions is the best proof of love.
Swallow who loves to read and write: Liu Yan, toy voice engineer, magazine writer, has published more than 750,000 words in magazines such as "Chinese Youth", "Shenzhen Youth", "Being a Man and Living in the World", "Reader's Campus", "Yilin" and other magazines.
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