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There was once such a hot search news on the Internet.
A 61-year-old aunt fell in love with the man in the live broadcast room who claimed to be the star Jin Dong, and after she confessed to him, she also claimed to marry him, and even abandoned her husband and son, running away from home to find Jin Dong.
Such an obvious deception, why can it fool this aunt? It turned out that this scammer greeted the aunt every day in the live broadcast room, reminded her to wear more clothes, and said that he would take care of her, and said that he would always love her sweet words, which melted the aunt's heart.
The warmth, appreciation, and affirmation that she usually does not get in her husband are obtained in the tricks used by the cheaters. Therefore, she was carried away by love and made irrational moves.
60-year-old Aunt Liu, after experiencing a not-so-pleasant twilight love, came to a conclusion: the old man's love is all calculation. Widowed Aunt Liu fell in love with square dancing after retirement, and every day she would go to the big square in front of the community to meet her peers and dance and chat together.
In this way, she met Lao Wu, who was also widowed. Lao Wu is very talkative, knowledgeable, and very humorous. As the two have more and more contact, a twilight love affair begins.
However, Lao Wu's children were very opposed to this matter and proposed that they sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage, proving that all of Lao Wu's property had nothing to do with Aunt Liu. Aunt Liu felt a little disrespected, but she could also understand the children and agreed.
But the true face of Old Li was exposed at this time. He first proposed to marry the AA system, and later after he fell ill and went to the hospital, he asked Aunt Liu to bear all the medical expenses.
When Aunt Liu saw his face and proposed to break up, he angrily said that looking for her to marry was nothing more than to find someone who could take care of him, and he didn't really love her at all.
Aunt Liu didn't speak, turned and left.
In fact, the love of the elderly involves too many factors in reality, and it is very complicated, do not let yourself fall into a more difficult situation for the sake of a momentary emotional impulse. Instead of pursuing love, pursue other things that will make you more fulfilling.
01: Enhance your knowledge
To live to be old, we must learn from the old, which is the truth that the ancients told us a long time ago.
After retirement, some elderly people sit at home every day to watch TV, buy groceries, cook, and gossip with the elderly in the community, life is very boring, and due to long-term brainless reasons, people will become more and more sluggish.
In fact, don't take learning as a particularly bitter thing.
The learning of the elderly is different from that of the young people, who study in order to make themselves a promotion and salary increase, in order to improve their professional skills, and there is a pressure in it; while the elderly learn purely for themselves, so they will be more relaxed and happy.
Some people think that reading again at such an old age is a waste of time, but it is not.
Reading more books and newspapers can make the elderly more aware of the development of this era, less resistant to new things, and more easily integrated into their children and grandchildren, and more able to win their love.
In addition to increasing knowledge, reading can also enhance personal temperament, be more transparent about world affairs, and live more clearly.
Study more and read more to increase your knowledge, and you will not easily fall into the trap of love.
02: Expand your horizons
A lot of older people will choose to travel everywhere after retirement, which is a great way to do it. If possible, try not to join a tour group that gets off the bus and gets on the bus immediately after punching in the spot, but experience it yourself.
To live in different places for a few weeks, or a few months, in order to better appreciate the local customs, understand the local culture, but also integrate into the local residents, make some good friends.
Expanding horizons is also important for the elderly.
Some elderly people have stayed in their own cities or small towns all their lives and have never gone out, which leads to their small vision and pattern, and a little thing will cause them to be angry, so that their mood has been very depressed.
Some elderly people will only stare at the affairs of their children and grandchildren, constantly controlling, making their children and grandchildren very disgusted, and family relations are quite bad.
But if the elderly can open their eyes, go to different places to see different landscapes, come into contact with different cultures, and talk with different people, they will slowly make their own pattern bigger, and things that they could not see before will gradually open up, and they will slowly understand the truth that their children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.
Travel to different places and experience a variety of wonderful lives, and at the end of the day you will be radiant and full of vitality.
Travel more and use your heart to discover the beauty of various places and you will find those things or emotions that are actually yourself. Nothing compared to this vast world.
03: Cultivate your own interests
The elderly must have their own interests and hobbies.
Modern older people are lucky, and society has opened up a variety of opportunities for the elderly to cultivate hobbies. 58-year-olds can go to run marathons, 60-year-olds can go hiking in the desert, 70-year-olds can be models, 80-year-olds can learn to draw, and even 90-year-olds can start learning to write.
Many of them have made their own achievements by cultivating these hobbies.
Therefore, it is very important for the elderly to have their own hobbies.
You can dance, and maybe you'll have the opportunity to perform on TV in the future; you can practice calligraphy, maybe you can become a generation of calligraphers; you can even study various inventions, and maybe get your own patents in the future.
The world is fair to everyone, and even if you're old, you can still develop your career or achievement by nurturing your hobbies.
Of course, even if you pursue a sense of accomplishment, you can cultivate your own emotions by cultivating hobbies and hobbies to make your life more fulfilling.
Through these hobbies, you can make yourself happy every day, and you can also make your personality more optimistic and positive, and you will not always be immersed in emptiness and loneliness. Have their own hobbies and interests, full of yearning for it every day, and have no time to pursue illusory feelings.
Write at the end
Don't indulge in those emotions caused by a momentary impulse, but it is better to improve yourself, make your pattern bigger, and the world becomes broader.
Aging is something we have to accept, but we can make our old age more valuable by learning new things, traveling around, and cultivating our hobbies.
Keep up with the new era to enrich yourself and live a more exciting old age than others!
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