In November 2023, a strange incident occurred in the entertainment industry, which sparked heated discussions among netizens.
9 young women pretended to be the red star Jin Dong to defraud the money of innocent aunt fans, and the amount involved was as high as more than 30 yuan!
After that, 8 members of the fraud gang were prosecuted by the procuratorate, and what awaits them will be severely punished by the law!
Subsequently, the People's Entertainment Network commented on the "fake Jin Dong incident", and Jin Dong himself once again appealed to the whole people: Everyone must keep the bottom line of being a man.
Jin Dong has always been honest, courteous, mature and steady, and is known as an "old cadre" in the entertainment industry.
However, it is such an "old cadre" who seems to be more casual when facing emotional problems.
Genuine ex-girlfriend Jiang Shan is not only 9 years older than him, but also divorced with a baby. After 5 years of unsuccessful love, Jin Dong turned around and tied the knot with the divorced Li Jia.
Someone asked puzzledly, Jin Dong has both fame and good looks, what kind of girlfriend can't be found, why do you prefer divorced women?
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In 1976, Jin Dong was born in Jinan, Shandong.
His father worked hard in the local supply and marketing cooperative, and his mother was a typical housewife, Jin Dong was the second in line, with an older sister who loved him and a lively and lovely younger sister below.
At first, although the family conditions were not well-off, the family was quite happy together.
Little Jin Dong didn't understand why his family was shattered so quickly.
I don't know when it began, and the quarrel between parents was like an escalating war. From the initial verbal confrontation, it gradually evolved into a cold silence, and finally ended in a silent divorce.
After that, his mother remarried, and the young Jin Dong and his sister were raised by their father.
However, his father was busy for his livelihood and did not have enough time to take care of him. Therefore, Jin Dong's childhood was mainly spent under the care of his grandparents.
Every time he celebrates holidays and birthdays, Jin Dong feels very lonely and envious when he sees other classmates accompanied by their parents.
Although his father does not work with him, he still sees him a few times a year. But since his mother remarried, she rarely saw him.
I remember one winter, my grandmother told Jin Dong that my mother was going to send him cotton clothes. Xiao Jin Dong was very happy, he stayed at the entrance of the village early in the morning, waiting for his mother's arrival.
But from morning to evening, there was goose feather snow in the sky, and I still couldn't see my mother.
From full of hope to disappointed, the young Jin Dong couldn't let go of it for a long time.
The lucky ones have been healed by childhood all their lives; And the unfortunate person, all his life heals childhood.
Perhaps since then, Jin Dong has begun his healing journey.
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In 2006, Jin Dongyin played Wu Yongnan in "Sad Mother and Son", and met Jiang Shan, the heroine in the play, and gradually developed feelings for Jiang Shan with daily contact and understanding.
At first, Jin Dong's friends were not optimistic about this sister-brother relationship. Because Jiang Shan is not only 9 years older than Jin Dong, but also divorced and has a daughter.
When two people are together, they are destined to go through a lot of ups and downs.
At this time, Jiang Shan's coffee position was significantly higher than Jin Dong's. Many people speculate whether Jin Dong chose to be with Jiang Shan because he wanted to use her network resources to get to the top.
However, Jin Dong ignored the voices of the outside world at all, and he pursued Jiang Shan hard, not only picking her up and commuting to work, but also helping to take care of the children.
Jiang Shan was deeply moved by Jin Dong's intimate care, believing that his affection was not a whim, so she bravely accepted his pursuit.
This sister-brother relationship lasted for 5 years.
When the two were ready to get married, the daughter objected. She stubbornly believes that as long as she insists on not letting her mother remarry, her parents have the possibility of getting back together.
At the same time, Jiang Shan has always felt guilty about her daughter. She believes that it is her divorce that has had a huge impact on her daughter's growth.
Later, Jiang Shan got an opportunity to take her daughter to the United States for further study, which could pave the way for her daughter's future.
The balance of emotions unconsciously tilted to his daughter's side.
This relationship finally ended without a problem, leaving deep regret and reluctance.
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After the breakup, Jin Dong devoted himself to his career and used his busy work to heal his emotional pain.
With the continuous improvement of his acting skills, Jin Dong's film appointments have come one after another, and his reputation has become louder and louder. Correspondingly, his income has risen.
At this time, the goddess of love once again extended an olive branch to Jin Dong.
In 2010, Jin Dong was attracted by Li Jia, who had an outstanding temperament, at an event, and missed Li Jia after the event.
As if it was fate, the two met again soon after, and began to gradually become acquainted.
At this time, Jin Dong is far less famous than Li Jia, who has won the movie, but Li Jia doesn't care about this.
The following year, the two played the male and female protagonists in "Youth Never Say Die", playing a couple in the play.
Although he is filming, he can't hide the eyes that love someone.
The two of them continued the affectionate veins in the play to reality, making countless viewers chant "together". In everyone's expectations, Jin Dong officially announced the news of his marriage to Li Jia.
After marriage, Li Jia chose to quit the entertainment industry and returned to the family to teach her husband and children. Just a year later, the two ushered in their first love crystal.
3 years later, the second son was born, although Li Jia rarely appears in the public eye, it can be seen from her daily dynamics that their family of four is very happy.
Since then, Jin Dong's career has soared.
In 2015, Jin Dong became popular overnight with the two big dramas "Langya Bang" and "The Pretender", and then won the award softly.
Today, Jin Dong has grown into a recognized powerful actor in the industry, which can be described as a double harvest of career and love.
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At the beginning, Jin Dong and Jiang Shan's sibling relationship was a sensation in the entertainment industry, and Jin Dong was once known as the representative of the "soft rice man".
Regarding this title, Jin Le also publicly responded: "I like sister and brother love, but I never rely on women to be on top, and I will be looked down upon by women on top."
What is puzzling is why Jin Dong always prefers second-married women?
Someone once suggested that Jin Dong's emotional choice may be related to his original family.
Jin Dong, whose parents divorced since he was a child and did not grow up with his mother, may be more emotionally inclined to mature and stable women.
Being around older women who know how to tolerate and take care of him can reduce a lot of emotional distress.
The women Jin Dong loves have all had a marriage experience, perhaps just a coincidence in life.
Just like fate, like a phantom, elusive and full of mystery.
The relationship between men and women, such as fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, is suitable only for the parties themselves.
Everyone's emotional needs and expectations are unique, and as bystanders, we can only bless Jin Dong and Li Jia and hope that they can always be happy.
Text: Remembering the original intention