Jin Dong and Li Jia's happy married life
The encounter between Jin Dong and Li Jia was originally just an accident caused by fate. That year, the filming of their same drama "Youth Never Say Die" made the two get acquainted. At first, they were just ordinary co-workers, but over time, an indescribable attraction developed for each other.
Li Jia was born in an ordinary family in Yunnan, is a powerful actor from a professional class, and became famous in his early years by starring in the movie "Warm". She was once married to wealthy businessman Guo Shaohui, but that marriage did not last long.
Li Jia couldn't bear her husband's confinement, and finally she chose to divorce and return to the career she loved.
And Jin Dong's past was also shrouded in a failed relationship. He and the well-known actor Jiang Shan have lived together for 5 years, but due to the opposition of Jiang Shan's daughter, the two finally broke up.
Faced with the heavy blow of his feelings, Jin Dong once fell into the predicament of alcoholism and was disheartened.
At this low point in his life, fate opened up a new path for him. In the process of getting along with the crew, Jin Dong and Li Jia slowly got acquainted and found that they had a lot in common with each other.
They have all experienced the trauma of divorce and have a deep love for photography. Jin Dong did not hesitate to give Li Jia a single-lens reflex camera and accompanied her to travel to every corner of the city to capture the beauty.
Getting along bit by bit made the two have an extremely strong affection for each other. Seeds of piety slowly sprouted and took root in their hearts. After the crew was finished, Jin Dong decided on the most important decision in his life - he proposed to Li Jia, hoping to spend his life hand in hand with this woman who understood his heart.
Li Jia agreed to Jin Dong's marriage proposal without the slightest hesitation. Soon, the two entered the palace of marriage and formed a new family. Before everyone knew it, they had become husband and wife and welcomed two lovely sons together.
The family of four is happy and full of happiness.
After marriage, Jin Dong poured all his love into his wife and children. He will carefully massage and wash Li Jia's feet, share housework and take care of the children. Whenever he has free time, he will take his family out to travel and enjoy the sunshine and breeze.
Jin Dong's eyes were full of affection and affection for his wife.
Perhaps, it is precisely because he has lost the love of his parents since he was a child, so when Jin Dong has his own family, he cherishes his affection so much. He is determined to use all his strength to take care of his wife and children and make up for the regrets in his heart.
The happiness and stability of the family undoubtedly added impetus to the take-off of Jin Dong's career. After getting married, he starred in a number of word-of-mouth masterpieces, including the spy war drama "The Pretender", the costume drama "Langya Bang" and the modern drama "The First Half of My Life", which became famous and loved by the audience.
The peak of Jin Dong's career also made him more grateful to his wife Li Jia, and it was with her strong backing that he could focus on his career without worries.
The episode of Jin Dong and Jiang Shan living together for 5 years and breaking up
Speaking in 2006, Jin Dong met his "mother" - the famous actor Jiang Shan in the crew of the popular TV series "Sad Mother and Son".
At that time, Jiang Shan was already a senior in the entertainment industry, and Jin Dong, as a rising star, was in awe of her. In the play, they play a mother and son, and Jin Dongde affectionately calls Jiang Shan "mother".
An interesting incident happened and shortened the distance between the two. Jiang Shan was embarrassed to be called "Mom", and joked: "Call me sister, if you call Mom, I feel that I am called old!" Jin Dong was moved by Jiang Shan's cuteness, and the two got together.
Soon after, another interesting thing happened. Jiang Shan accidentally lost her mobile phone in the crew, Jin Dong and the staff rummaged through almost every corner, and finally found that the mobile phone had always been in Jiang Shan's own hands.
Jin Dong also had a similar trouble, he mistakenly took the hotel remote control for a mobile phone and brought it home. Because of this, the two had more topics and feelings, looked at each other and smiled, as if they had returned to their youth.
Under the rendering of these vignettes, they developed a strong affection for each other. When it was time to finish, Jin Dong mustered up the courage to reveal his heart to Jiang Shan. "Whether you've ever been divorced or not, what about the age difference of 9 years? I don't care about any of that, I love you with all my heart and I want to start a family with you. "
Jin Dong's sincerity touched Jiang Shan, so the couple, who had an age gap of 9 years, started a cohabitation life.
During the 5 years of cohabitation, they supported each other and walked through difficulties hand in hand. Jiang Shan even generously shared her acting resources to help Jin Dong make a breakthrough in his career.
Despite living in poverty, the relationship between the two is extremely sweet and warm.
However, the good times did not last long, and a small "episode" became the fuse that ended this relationship. Jiang Shan's daughter was resolutely opposed to Jin Dong and could not accept him as her "new father".
Jin Dong tried countless times to please this little girl, take her to play and buy gifts, but she turned a blind eye. When Jin Dong proposed marriage, Jiang Shan's daughter was even more strongly opposed, making it impossible for the two to reach a consensus.
In the end, for the sake of her daughter, Jiang Shan could only give up this relationship. Jin Dong used alcohol as anesthesia, but the loss and pain in his heart could not be soothed.
Interspersed with descriptions of Jin Dong's difficult experience of growing up
Tracing the footprints of Jin Dong's growth, his life path can be described as full of thorns. Born into a single-parent family, he lost contact with his mother since he was a child, and was raised by his grandparents.
His home is far away from the school, and Jin Dong has to walk dozens of kilometers to and from school every day, and he has experienced the hardships of life.
Despite this, Jin Dong has been a smart and studious child since he was a child, and his grades are among the best in school. But who would have thought that the life of the "top student" on the desk was rewritten by chance.
It turns out that Jin Dong has had a fanatical love for music since he was a child. He is not only good at singing, but also proficient in playing musical instruments. This artistic talent allowed him to sneak out to perform in bars and dance halls in addition to his studies.
Gradually, Jin Dong's interest in schoolwork became weaker and weaker, and finally one day, he gave up his studies completely.
In this way, the former top student became a marginal person in society overnight, and made a living as a bar singer during the trough period. Just when Jin Dong felt confused about the prospects of his life, a sentence changed his fate.
A friend from his hometown saw his talent and persuaded him to go to Beijing to try his hand at being an actor.
After repeated thinking, Jin Dong finally decided to give it a go. He left his hometown and came to the city of Beijing to start his career. Despite a difficult start and hitting walls everywhere, Jin Dong never gave up his dream.
His potential was soon discovered by a group of senior actors, and with their vigorous support, Jin Dong got the opportunity to enter the Central Academy of Drama and officially embarked on the road of learning acting.
After graduation, Jin Dong, with his diligence and outstanding talent, began to gradually emerge in the film and television industry. 2008 can be described as a turning point in his career, he not only participated in a number of excellent TV dramas, but also shined in the National Day gift film "Special Battle", known as "the most charming underground party member".
Overcoming difficulties step by step, struggling along the way, this is the portrayal of Jin Dong's life. has grown from an acting star to a popular movie star, and he has used his practical actions to explain to the world the value of tenacity, courage and dreams.
Why does Jin Dong have a soft spot for a married young woman?
Tracing the root of Jin Dong's soft spot for married young women, it may be attributed to his lack of maternal love in his childhood. Born in a single-parent family, Jin Dong lost contact with his mother since he was a child, and could only live in his grandparents' house, living a poor life.
Without his mother's love and care, Jin Dong undoubtedly has a sense of emptiness in his heart. As an adult, he subconsciously yearns for older, loving mature women than he does.
This subconscious psychological influence makes him have a special complex for married young women.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of this inner desire for lack of maternal love that Jin Dong will be moved by his second mother Jiang Shan, who is 9 years older. In the crew back then, Jin Dong played Jiang Shan's son, and the relationship between the two was as close as that of mother and son.
Jiang Shan has a motherly love for Jin Dong, and Jin Dong also regards Jiang Shan as a kind and amiable "godmother".
Gradually, this kind of family affection merged with the color of love, and Jin Dong found that he had a love for Jiang Shan beyond family affection. In the bits and pieces of the crew, the two have a better impression of each other day by day.
When it was time to finish, Jin Dong finally mustered up the courage to reveal his sincerity to Jiang Shan and tell him his new love.
Later, Jin Dong's encounter with Li Jia allowed him to find a partner who could give him a sense of security and comfort. As divorcees, they have experienced the trauma of marriage failure.
But Li Jia's mature and stable personality attracted Jin Dong.
Perhaps it was because of the motherly warmth of Li Jia's love for Jin Dong that this man who longed for it in his heart felt an unprecedented sense of healing and security.
Jin Dong was deeply moved by Li Jia's tolerance and care, and took the initiative to propose to her, opening a new marriage between the two.
From Jiang Shan to Li Jia, Jin Dong's lifelong emotional experience seems to have been affected by the shadow of the lack of maternal love. He yearns for and pursues mature women who can give love, and pins on the deepest desire of his heart.
And when he had his own family, he tried his best to cherish his affection and fill his inner regrets with full love.