Will Congreve said: "Love, like murder, is always exposed. ”
How much a person thinks about you, how much he knows how to hurt you, how much he wants you to live the life you most yearn for, and the details of getting along hide the correct answer.
Really rest assured, know how to empathize, take the initiative to give each other things are more precious, but also the other party's most needed, has been trying to get.
With people who care about you, you often have this feeling: she knows you very well, as if she knows you better than you do, she can't bear your injury, she is very sad about you.
Love, willing to give, can let you taste the sweetness of love, can make you full of hope for life.
Between couples, the most important thing to do is to understand each other, no matter what happens, it is to understand the situation first, and then find a way to deal with it, rather than directly turning the other cheek.
Listen carefully to each other, believe what the other party says, do not compare with the other party, the feelings will not be affected, the communication will not feel strange, and will not become speechless.
In the emotional world, know that everyone expresses love differently, and don't misunderstand each other before you can't see each other's heart clearly, and feel that the other party doesn't love you.
You need to know that the other party deliberately says something ugly, which may be to make you grow quickly; the other party may not want you to be hurt by preventing you from doing something.
Love someone, be patient, don't just say a few words, and yell before you can explain it.
Willing to take care of you, always seem to be nosy, often because they care about you, are concerned about you, and want you to get more. When the opposite sex gets along, you must understand: the three women are not allowed, not to love, but to love you deeply.
Not allowing you to socialize without meaning is a responsibility
Moved by the truth, like to be nosy, that is, as long as it is related to the other party, they want to explore it and cooperate with the other party to complete it.
I have already regarded the other party as the male protagonist, and I have made plans for a lifetime, so I will put the other party first and pay attention to the other party all the time.
When the other party wastes their time and does something very meaningless, it will be stopped in time, so that the other party will immediately press the pause button and not continue.
The opposite sex gets along, can not open one eye and turn a blind eye, not because of stinginess, but because of love, the heart is very worried, do not want to let the other party depressed.
Women restrict your dating, do not allow you to constantly expand the circle, do not easily let you contact outsiders, it seems to be a kind of distrust, but it is actually a kind of protection.
There is a saying that goes like this: "Friends are not in quantity, but in quality." ”
The person who really loves you will observe your every move, and when you frequently interact with people who cannot be deeply related, she will first explain the reason to you, and then let you put your energy into other places.
Love, will use the brain to think, will take care of the heart.
Women don't allow you to have much intersection with certain people, and always advise you to keep a certain distance from these people, you have to find the real reason, but also know how to get along with women.
You are not allowed to stay up late to chat with her, that is a kind of care
People who talk to you late at night are not necessarily because they miss you and don't trust you in their hearts.
Non-extreme special circumstances, disturbing your rest, is a manifestation of selfishness, which means that I do not love you, do not know how to empathize, and will not be responsible for you.
People like the one who occasionally messages you late at night and talks to you about topics that interest herself tend to think only for herself and not let herself get bored.
Not loving is an attitude of indifference, while deep love is really caring.
Women take care of your schedule and don't allow you to stay up late to play games, or chat with her all the time without sleeping, not picking you wrong.
Because I care too much about you, I can't accept that you hurt your own body, and every time you do this kind of thing, it will stop you in time.
It is a kind of heartache not to allow you to blindly favor her
True love is not just about taking, not giving.
The sexes get along, the deeper they love, the more they understand this truth, the less they will ask each other to pay.
Deep love, not selfish, not scheming, not calculating.
A person who loves you will not always pretend to be weak and sympathetic, will not let you pay more, and more often centers on her and accompanies her to do what she likes.
Love is not blind control.
Women love you to the highest level, will put themselves in your shoes, and will never allow you to lose what you care about most and what you are most reluctant to do because of her sacrifices.
Meller Sain said: "To love a man is to help him return to himself and to make him more of himself." ”
In the emotional world, you must read who loves you and cherish the people who love you.
Emotional Message:
People who are valuable, want to take advantage of you, choose to be with you, or want to have a relationship and voluntarily confess to you, are very irresponsible.
Neither of these two kinds of people has a true heart, and neither of them will let you harvest happiness and happiness.
People who don't love you, can't give you anything, two people together won't feel comfortable, won't taste sweet, won't have confidence, won't plan for the future.
With different people, there will be different experiences.
Love you deeply, will think for you, will take the initiative to care for you, take care of you, accompany you, let you live for yourself, do more meaningful things.
Interacting with women, you can feel that women are worried about you, afraid that you are hurt, you can be sure that women are true love for you, and they will not have an outside heart for many years.