Although girls are easily affected by emotions, but in fact, they are angry a lot of times is not unreasonable, but some of the boys' behavior caused, today Xiaobian will talk to you about the boys' most likely behavior to provoke their girlfriends to be angry.
1. Speak out loud to her
Girls are very emotional, and it is easy to become bad because of some of the attitude problems of boys. Speaking loudly is one of the most likely behaviors to be seen as your bad attitude, and girls will think that you are murdering her and arguing with her. But does the boy really want to argue with her? It is obviously impossible for you to argue with her for no reason, and it must be the boy who really quarrels with the girl and suffers the final loss. Secondly, the volume is too large may make the girl think that you are aggressive to her, triggering her insecurity, and then out of self-defense awareness, the girl is also aggressive to you, and the behavior shown is angry. Therefore, in order to avoid her unintentional behavior and make the girl have bad thoughts, the volume should be as gentle as possible when speaking to her. Brothers who like to shout, don't have this bad habit anymore.
2. Perfunctory attitude
Some boys saw that the girls were unhappy, and he said: "If you want to open something, there is nothing to be unhappy about." The girl complained to him, he said: "What is this, how did I come over in the first place?" The girl came to him to discuss things, and he said, "You look at it." The girl shared a very interesting thing with him, and he said, "That's it." Or just one expression. These behaviors are extremely indifferent and perfunctory for girls, she wants your comfort, you don't give, she wants to share happiness with you, you have no waves. Then the girl will definitely not be able to think straight, take your own hot face to paste your cold ass, not angry to blame. If you really like her, it's best to give her a little more warmth and not pour cold water on her when she needs your warm bosom the most.
3. Do not reply to messages for half a day
Waiting for a person to reply to the news is the most anxious thing in the world, and it is necessary to know that the patience of girls with boys is definitely not as good as the patience of boys with girls. So the message has not been received from the other party, most of the boys are just a little lost in their hearts, even if there is a little anger will be restrained, and girls, you will obviously perceive that she is angry! So why do some brothers obviously see the girl's message and don't reply? In fact, sometimes after we receive the girl's news, we can't think of any interesting words to reply to her for a while, and if we reply casually, we may be embarrassed to chat, or let the girl think that your attitude is perfunctory, and you must also be angry. It is better not to talk about such words, so some people see a sentence that is not very good to reply to, simply put away the mobile phone and pretend not to see. As a result, the girl can't wait for you to reply to the message for half a day, and then she is anxious and whimsical, how can she not be angry? I don't know how to return can also use themselves to be busy for the time being, talk later, and calm the girls first, which is at least much better than ignoring them directly. If you are really busy, you should say hello to her first, and don't let the girl wait for you to reply without knowing it.
4. Explain your own behavior
"Why did it take you so long to get back to the message?" Sorry I was a little busy today and forgot to look at my phone. "Haven't watched it all afternoon?" Liar!" When a girl questions your mistake, the more you explain it, the more you will feel that you are making excuses and excuse yourself. As a result, whether you are wrong or not, girls must determine that you are wrong. Therefore, after the girl suspects that you have made a mistake, do not directly explain your behavior, otherwise it is likely to become the fuse of your quarrel. The right thing to do is to show her an attitude, the reason for the matter is not important, as long as she sees that you have a good attitude towards her, the girl can be completely angry.