Zhao Fan, first taishou of Guiyang Commandery under Liu Biao, and then Liu Bei surrendered to Liu Bei because he could not defeat Zhao Yun when he was unable to fight Guiyang County, and then for personal interests, he worshipped with Zhao Yun and married Zhao Yun, hoping to be able to succeed in Liu Bei's camp. Contrary to his wishes, Zhao Fan's wishful thinking was immediately drawn by Zhao Yun, who was always humble and courteous, and turned against each other.
Zhao Fan did not succeed in marrying his sister-in-law, and he had the heart of rebellion, so he had to design a deception to harm Zhao Yun. The Romance of the Three Kingdoms records what Zhao Fan said to Zhao Yun and the look he showed, that is, Zhao Fan was ashamed and replied: "I treat each other with kindness, how can I be so rude!" "So I looked left and right, and there was a sense of harm. In order to save his life, when Zhao Fan and Zhao Yun were married, they used "really good luck", a kind of flattering ghost words; in order to pursue glory and wealth, when Zhao Fan and Zhao Yun married, they used "willing to accompany the dowry", a face of fly camp dog. Once rejected, Zhao Fan changed another diametrically opposed expression, fierce and selfish ugly heart was revealed.
Zhao Fan originally wanted to borrow the appearance of the widowed sister-in-law Fan Shi, and if he could marry Zhao Yun, he would be able to further win Zhao Yun over. However, Zhao Yun, who is known as a "morally perfect person", not only did not accept the Fan clan with national color, but also attacked Zhao Fan, who was very weak. There are three reasons why Zhao Fan did not marry his sister-in-law but instead became rebellious and put into action.
That is, first of all, individual differences.
Individual differences refer to the relatively stable psychological and physiological characteristics of individuals in the process of psychological activities such as personnel, emotions, and wills, which are different from those of others. Zhao Fan took the initiative to accompany the dowry to marry a widow, including the brothers who had previously been demoted, although there was a new defection to Liu Bei, and he wanted to find a person who had the right to speak in front of Liu Bei as a patron. This is also the common sentiment of people, and it is not excessive. In addition, Zhao Fan's widowed sister-in-law Fan Shi did have the appearance of falling into the country. In terms of appearance, beautiful women with heroes are naturally worthy of Zhao Yun, the tooth gate general who entered and exited seven times on the slope of Changshan. Overall, Zhao Fan's sister-in-law has no malice, and only wants to be good and good, kiss and kiss. However, Zhao Yun is not the heroic and generous treacherous Cao Cao, nor is he the Magnanimous Liu Bei, just a true man with perfect morality, a true hero of righteousness and thin clouds. Therefore, Cao Cao would take He Jin's daughter-in-law, Lady Yin, and dare to rob Lady Du, The wife of Qin Yilu. Liu Bei not only married Liu Yan's daughter-in-law Wu Shi, but also crowned Wu as Empress Mu of Shu Han. Zhao Yun had and would only refuse to marry Zhao Fan's widowed sister-in-law Fan.
Next, the frequency effect.
Frequency influence, refers to the action of frequent nature or state. On the first day of the first meeting, Zhao Fan married Zhao Yunyi to Jinlan and became brothers with the same surname in the name of the same surname and hometown; the third meeting the next day, Zhao Fan had to borrow the three conditions of remarriage of the widowed sister-in-law Fan, and he would marry Zhao Yun and marry a relative. After meeting for two days and three days, and marrying each other again, Zhao Fan did not hesitate to honor and lower his nobility for personal interests, did not hesitate to make a big bloody payment, and only wanted to climb the thick line of Zhao Yun, so as to tie Liu Bei's chariot. In Zhao Fan's view, this is a good thing to add icing on the cake, so that the relationship between the two is closer, more stable and lasting; in Zhao Yun's view, this is an excessively reasonable effect, making the relationship between the two become delicate, fragile and smelly. Therefore, Zhao Fan's icing on the cake, for Zhao Yun, changed its taste, became a huge disproportionate reward, and became a shackle that Zhao Fan trapped step by step.
Finally, interest bundling.
Interest bondage refers to the connection of things that satisfy their own desires through certain channels. Binding, the so-called pulling a hair and moving the whole body, one glory and one loss. Although you can save your life and lose money if you are married to Zhao Yun, you can walk in peace and prosperity for generations. Ancient political marriages abounded in order to recognize each other, which was deeply rooted in the thinking of ancient people. For this reason, Zhao Fan believes that Zhao Yun is willing to marry righteousness, is a public, nothing more than to conquer Guiyang and buy people's hearts; Zhao Yun's refusal to marry is private, that is, he does not recognize the status of a subordinate and does not protect his personal interests.
Zhao Fan, who had been immersed in the official field for decades, was accustomed to deceit and intrigue in the official field, and knew that the official field did not marry, not only did Zhao Yun not accept the widowed Fan clan, but the deeper meaning was that Liu Bei did not accept the surrender of high-ranking officials. For the sake of personal interests, they had to rebel and choose a way out.
Author's Note: Narrow-minded, refers to a very small amount of qi. Narrow-mindedness means that you can't stand the unintentional offense and hurt of others, and you can't treat problems with an indifferent and cheerful attitude. Zhao Fan, although he was too defensive, was a subordinate, and in the era of changing the banner of the great king at the head of the city, the subordinate was naturally not welcomed by the new lord, so he could change his master and serve again, only to maximize his personal interests. As the saying goes, the word "li" is the first thousand evil.