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Gao Yuan is one of the most legendary female photographers of our time, and has a certain symbol in the domestic rock circle. Ding Wu, Cui Jian, Dou Wei, He Yong, Zhang Chu, Zhou Xun, Park Shu, Liang Chaowei and many other acting stars have been recorded by her vivid and beautiful lens.
Gao Yuan has another identity, that is, the second ex-wife of the famous rock singer Dou Wei. When she took Dou Wei from Faye Wong, this relationship was once hyped up by the media.
However, after marrying dou wei and having a daughter, Gao Yuan divorced dou wei again. Dou has only been single since his divorce, so what is the living situation of the plateau?
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Goofy and Kurihara small rolls
Highland's native family is not ordinary, and his father is the famous actor Goofy. In 1980, Goofy co-starred with the famous Japanese actress Kurihara Komaki in the TV series "Wangxiang Star", which caused a huge sensation.
Goofy was an actor in the China Radio and Television Troupe at that time, and he was invincible in the world. He also co-produced film and television dramas such as "Awakening" and "Cold Night" with Chen Chong and Pan Hong, and was a famous popular student in the 1980s.
Goofy's personality is not suitable for the film and television circle, and he retreated from the rapids when he was popular, and engaged in behind-the-scenes photography work.
Gao Yuan's mother is from Guizhou and his father is from Beijing, and Gao Yuan was born in the mountains of Guizhou in 1970. Three months later, her mother took her to Beijing. Gao Yuan has a younger brother named Gao Shuang, who is a dancer in the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe.
Dou Wei
Gao Yuan and his mentor Han Zishan
In 1988, after graduating from High School, Gao Yuan went to the Mahua aerobics training class in Yuetan, Beijing with a few friends to study, and met Dou Wei. At that time, the two did not have any intersection, and Gao Yuan did not see that Dou Wei had any outstanding musical talent.
Soon, his father sent Gao Yuan to Beijing Second Foreign Chinese College to study foreign trade English. But under the influence of his father, Takahara was most obsessed with photography.
So in 1990, my father arranged for Gao Yuan to go to the Central Academy of Arts and Crafts to study photography. The teacher is the famous photographer Han Zishan, who has only 3 students including Gao Yuan.
The three masters of magic rock in the plateau lens, from left to right: Zhang Chu, He Yong, Dou Wei
In November 1993, Takahara graduated. The following year her father bought her an expensive Nikon FM2 with 3 lenses. At that time, the magic rock record company, which was in a mess, took the initiative to find Highland to shoot films.
Since then, Takashi has become obsessed with rock photography and has made photography his lifelong career.
At that time, photographers were all institutional units, and there were very few freelance photographers like Gao Yuan, and her way of working was more flexible, but more popular.
Gao Yuan drove around in an old Cherokee that her father had given her, using a camera to record the changes of China's rock pioneers.
With more contact with people in the rock circle, Gao Yuan was conquered by Dou Wei's musical talent. In her eyes, Dou Wei's musical talent was unmatched.
The beauty, atmosphere, cheerfulness and photography talent of the plateau also fascinated Dou Wei.
Album cover by Gao Yuan for Dou Wei Black Dream (1994)
Album cover of Gao Yuan's album Sunny Days (1996)
In 1995, Dou Wei released the album "Sunny Days", which was the cover of Gao Yuan's shooting, and this album also involved the two.
Dou Wei was born in Beijing in 1969, one year older than Gao Yuan, his father was a wind musician, and his mother worked at the Beijing Machine Tool Factory. Dou Wei's younger sister Dou Ying is also a rock singer and has a failed marriage with the famous musical talent Zhang Yadong.
Dou Wei did not come from a music class, but studied vocational high school and majored in psychiatric nursing. He was able to achieve such brilliant results in music, mainly by his own talent and hard work.
At that time, Dou Weizheng was in love with Faye Wong, and between Faye Wong and Gao Yuan, Dou Wei still chose Faye Wong. Takahara left Dou Wei with tears in her eyes, and soon she fell in love with a football player.
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Dou Wei with Faye Wong and daughter Dou Jingtong
In 1996, Dou Wei married Faye Wong Fengzi in Beijing. In January of the following year, after giving birth to her daughter Dou Jingtong, Faye Wong took her daughter to live in Hong Kong, and Dou was alone in Beijing.
Dou Wei and Faye Wong were separated, bringing opportunities to the plateau. In 1998, Gao Yuan broke up with her boyfriend and began to renew her old relationship with Dou Wei.
Highland is 1.72 meters tall, has shawl hair, is very cool, and is a very smart and beautiful girl. She has a bold personality, dares to love and dare to hate, and is very attractive to Dou Wei.
Dou Wei did not care at all that he was a husband with a wife, which would bring harm to Gao Yuan and Faye Wang, and began to be with Gao Yuan again.
Dou Wei's parents divorced in his early years, and he and his sister Dou Ying lived with their mother. Dou's mother herself was unhappy in her marriage and always hoped that her son and Faye Wong would have a good life.
Plateau with Dou Wei
One day, Dou's mother went to visit her son and found Gao Yuan and Dou Wei together. Dou Mu scolded Gao Yuan and threw her out. But not long after his mother left, Dou Wei took Gao Yuan over again.
One day in 1999, Faye Wong returned to Beijing from Hong Kong to see Dou Wei with Na Ying. It just so happened that Gao Yuan and Dou Wei were together, and Faye Wong understood what was going on, only knowing that she was crying, and did not know what to do.
Frankly Na Ying said a few words about Gao Yuan, and Gao Yuan did not show weakness and argued with Na Ying. Dou Wei's cheating broke Faye Wong's heart, but she still hoped that her husband could change his mind.
Who knew that in March 1999, Dou Wei went to Japan to work and took The Plateau with him. The reporter caught Dou Wei, and he said bluntly: "Gao Yuan is my lover." All this completely cooled Faye Wong's heart.
In August of that year, Faye Wong and Dou Wei went through divorce procedures and left Dou Wei with their daughter.
Public opinion blamed Dou Wei and Gao Yuan one-sidedly, and as soon as they went out, Faye Wong's fans chased after them and scolded. In such a difficult environment, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan's hearts became closer and closer.
In June 2002, Gao Yuan was about to give birth, and Dou Wei married her in Beijing. Two months later, their daughter Dou Jiayan was born.
Dou Wei consulted with Gao Yuan in this way: Before her daughter was 5 years old, Gao Yuan was a full-time mother at home, and Dou Wei was responsible for earning money to support the family.
However, Dou Wei underestimated the negative impact of divorcing Faye Wong: many record companies did not use him, and many performers did not invite him to perform. Dou Weikong has a musical talent, but there is no place to use, so he has to commit himself to a bar as a resident singer.
Dou Wei with his mother and two daughters
In fact, since the divorce with Faye Wong, Dou Wei's economic conditions have been not good, Gao Yuan from pregnancy to the birth of a daughter, Dou Wei has not asked her for a nanny, it is all Gao Yuan to take care of himself.
After his daughter was born, Dou Wei went to the bar early every day and did not come home until one or two o'clock in the morning, preferring to sit alone in the bar than go home to face his wife and daughter.
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Gao Yuan took care of her daughter alone, often forced by life to be in a hurry, she could not eat on time, and she did not know how many tears she shed in her arms.
Gao Yuan said in an interview: "Dou Wei is like a changed person after marriage, he is not suitable for marriage, and he cannot face family and children. ”
Indeed, Dou Wei is very simple, values music above everything, does not understand human feelings and sophistication, and does not care about housework.
He wrapped his daughter in a blanket and carried her up to eat, only to slip from the blanket to the floor. He gave his daughter a wet diaper and threw up a mess.
There is not enough milk in the plateau, and the daughter should supplement the milk powder. Once, a friend gave Dou Wei 10,000 yuan. As a result, Dou Wei ran to the mall and bought 10,000 yuan of milk powder for his daughter.
But the milk powder is divided into age groups, Gao Yuan said that it is not suitable for her daughter to eat now, and as a result, Dou Wei went to the mall to change. The little girl who sold the powdered milk powder dumbfounded him.
In the end, Dou Wei bought 5,000 yuan of milk powder, and the 5,000 yuan returned was replaced by the mall for a shopping card. The husband's shortcomings in life made Gao Yuan particularly disappointed.
Dou Wei has a lonely and high personality, rarely communicates with people, as long as Gao Yuan says a word that hurts his self-esteem, he will theorize with her, and the couple often stumbles.
Plateau with daughter
The economic constraints, the collision of personalities, and the distractions of life trivialities made Takahara completely disappointed in this marriage.
She finally understood that some men are only suitable for love and not suitable for marriage, Dou Wei is a god-like existence on the music stage, but in trivial life, he seems to have changed as a person, and which woman's life with him will collapse.
In the spring of 2004, Dou Wei was reluctant to go home, often holding a guitar and singing to himself in the bar. Gao Yuan hugged his daughter to find him, and Dou Wei did not want to go home.
Gao Yuan threw his guitar in a fit of rage, and as a result, Dou Wei decided to file for divorce from her.
People even have daughters, And Gao Yuan did not want to divorce in his heart, so he made a harsh request to Dou Wei, asking Dou Wei to pay her and her daughter 5,000 yuan per month for living expenses, until her daughter was 18 years old, a total of 1.08 million yuan.
Gao Yuan knew that Dou Wei could not come up with so much money, and the purpose was to prevent Dou Wei from divorcing. Unexpectedly, Dou Wei actually agreed, which made Gao Yuan even more sad.
Soon Dou Wei moved away.
Later, under the judgment of the court, Dou Wei paid his daughter a sum of money, and Gao Yuan divorced him, and her daughter lived with Gao Yuan.
The broken marriage brought great harm to Gao Yuan, she was a young and beautiful girl, in the love marriage with Dou Wei, she paid the most precious youth, passion and beautiful years, but finally ended up with this ending!
Sad and disappointed, Gao Yuan decided not to have anything to do with Dou Wei in this life, she changed her mobile phone number, and QQ was uninstalled. She returned to her old profession, supporting herself and her daughter through photography.
Before getting married, Takahara had many good expectations for marriage, but those expectations were shattered like soap bubbles. She felt that the only thing she had gained from a broken marriage was to have a daughter.
Gao Yuan felt guilty for not giving her daughter a complete home, so she had to do her best to make her daughter live well.
In 2006, when her daughter was 4 years old, Gao Yuan sent her daughter to a kindergarten for a monthly fee of 7800 yuan.
My daughter usually boarded in the kindergarten and came home on weekends. Gao Yuan returned to Beijing on time after taking the photographic work, so she went to pick it up herself, otherwise she would let her mother or brother help her pick up her daughter.
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It should be said that Dou Wei is incompetent as a husband, but he loves his daughter very much. Unable to see his daughter, he looked around for the plateau. In order to make Gao Yuan appear, Dou Wei spoke harshly to Gao Yuan in an interview with a well-known media in Beijing, saying that Gao Yuan was a spy lurking around him.
Gao Yuan did not tear up with Dou Wei, and she felt that she would not be able to face her daughter in the future.
Dou Wei's personality is indeed a bit paranoid, he said that Faye Wong married him was a conspiracy. People with a paranoid personality are very persistent in their careers, but it will be difficult to get along with people.
It wasn't until 2007 that Dou Wei found Gao Yuan's contact information. When he dialed Gao Yuan's phone, Gao Yuan asked him what he wanted to do, and Dou Wei said that he wanted to see his daughter. Dou Wei's voice on the other end of the phone choked up, which surprised Gao Yuan.
Out of consideration for the healthy growth of his daughter, Gao Yuan put aside the adult's grievances and agreed that Dou Wei would come to see his daughter on weekends.
Dou Wei and his daughter Dou Jiayan
Since then, Dou has only taken his daughter Dou Jiayuan (a small courtyard child with a milk name) to the family to take care of him on weekends.
Every time her daughter came home from Dou Wei's side, she would twitter in Gao Yuan's ear about her father's goodness, which made Gao Yuan feel a lot of emotions. Many times she thought in her heart: If the marriage is not broken, how good it would be for her daughter to live in a complete family!
Gao Yuan could not afford to buy a house, and has been renting a house with his daughter in Beijing's West Third Ring Road. Because of the working relationship, since 2010, Gao Yuan and his daughter have moved frequently, and the mother and daughter have lived in Wangjing, Sihuiqiao, and Yangqiao.
After several years of going around, in 2015, the mother and daughter of the plateau moved back to the West Third Ring Road. There are a lot of unforgettable past events here, like the scars burned in The Plateau's heart, she forced herself to forget, but she could never forget, which is quite cruel for a woman.
Takahara did not shed tears for this.
Dou Jiayan and her sister Dou Jingtong
In 2020, her daughter Dou Jiayan is 18 years old and is about to graduate from high school. Gao Yuan raised her daughter all the way to such a big age, and only she knew the taste.
After the divorce, Gao Yuan has not considered the emotional problem, lived alone with his daughter, and devoted himself to his daughter. What makes Takahara most pleased is that although her daughter grew up in a single-parent family, she is sunny, cheerful and lively.
In Dou Jiayi's mind, the position of her mother Gao Yuan and her father Dou Wei is the same, and she loves them the same. In order to avoid embarrassment, when she became an adult, Dou Jiayan never said anything about her father in front of her mother, nor did she talk about her mother in front of her father.
Gao Yuan also never asked her daughter about Dou Wei's current situation, and she never met Dou Wei after the divorce.
In 2021, Gao Yuan learned from the Internet that Dou Wei was not doing well, and some people also posted photos of Dou Wei's beard pulling down. Gao Yuan was very sad in his heart, after all, Dou Wei was the father of her daughter, and she sincerely hoped that Dou Wei would have a good life.
In an interview, Takahara said she never regretted her choice or the path she had traveled. That marriage with Dou Wei, although it brought her a lot of harm, also allowed her to have a good daughter.
Life is like this, not only happiness, joy, but also troubles, tears and heartache, all good and bad, you must accept. Accepting this does not mean that you are not living well. On the contrary, it will make people have a more rational attitude towards life.
epilogue:
In his marriage to Dou Wei, Gao Yuan suffered a lot of injuries. As Gao Yuan said in the text, Dou Wei is not suitable for marriage and cannot face family and children.
There is a kind of man in the world who is at ease with his career, but a little housework will make him collapse.
In fact, no man is born to be a qualified husband, meet men in life is low-energy, in addition to the spouse to be more tolerant, considerate, as a man himself also to improve life skills. After all, people can't live in a vacuum, even if your career is brilliant and you fly high, you must be classified into red dust.
Gao Yuan with his daughter Dou Jiayan
Gao Yuan is a self-reliant and talented woman, because of true love, she and Dou Wei came together. After the divorce, she did not use her daughter as a sharp weapon to hurt Dou Wei, and raised her daughter by her own ability.
But it is undeniable that Plateau has experienced a lot of hardships in life along the way. Here, the author advises girls in the world to be more rational in the face of love and marriage, and carefully choose the most suitable person for themselves.
If you make a wrong choice on impulse, it will bring harm to many innocent people.
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