You can't cut off a child's wings with your own hands and ask him to spread his wings

Pay attention to the official account and the compass in the world to read the text "How to become an investor step by step"

I've joked about my wife many times that we've been together for over twenty years and have gone through most of the cycles of almost most breeds.

Almost all of what she wants to sell is the bottom, and almost all of what she wants to buy is the top. Almost all of the things she can't hold are shocks, and almost all of the things she can hold are hills.

What's more, the robust products she believes in, in hindsight, are almost all rolled up.

It's just a joke, because in fact, she hasn't invested in anything, she hasn't even made big purchases, and the most expensive things she's ever bought are probably luxury goods, jewelry, bags, and the like.

Even if she wants to buy a car, she picks it up, and I buy it for me.

A person who has no experience in purchasing is indeed unlikely to be able to train the ability to invest.

Because investment is essentially buying and selling, selling is essentially an extension of buying, and buying is picking something.

So I'm not actually talking about her, but I'm telling you through her that retail investors are like that.

Someone asked me, can I not do this?

My point of view is divided.

Some people may be able to do otherwise, and some may be like this for the rest of their lives.

Because some things, like character, have been shaped in the process of your teenage to adulthood.

For example, my wife and I are two extremes from a personality point of view.

If she were to work as a highway toll collector, she would be an absolute good employee, and I guess she would get a lifetime achievement award.

What she does best is repetition, one thing you tell her the process, and she can execute it meticulously for decades.

Be conscientious and responsible every day.

But I can't do this kind of thing, one thing is very challenging, I am very passionate, without a challenge, I am happy.

If the environmental variables were kept the same all the time, I would soon go crazy, and it is commonly known that going to work is more painful than going to the grave.

If I am also a driver, I can only be a race car driver, and I need to be stimulated by unexpected situations, such as suddenly encountering a section of the road and driving on two tires.

At this point, I will be very excited, and I feel that the boring part of the road has finally passed, and something interesting has arrived.

But as my wife, she would be so nervous, so nervous that she couldn't hold the steering wheel at a loss.

So after graduating, she became a teacher, a ferryman, sending one class of students to the other side, and then going to the next class.

After graduating, I did R&D, and in the first few years after graduation, I was involved in one new product and new project after another, and then started my own business.

Even so, I still don't think it's fun, or rather, I wish it could be more fun.

This kind of personality was formed in her teenage years, and her parents wanted her to be a steady person.

It is commonly known as not seeking merit, but seeking no fault.

The most important thing is that you don't make trouble, you'd better not have ideas, what the teacher says, you do it, when you don't understand, you ask the teacher, the teacher says 12345, you do 12345, don't try 6.

China is an industrial country, if you are so conscientious and responsible from childhood to adulthood, and you are also keen on working overtime, and you are also very motivated, I think, in big cities, you work to maturity, and achieve an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, there is no problem, for most college students.

Of course, if you question what you can do with this money, you really can't do anything.

Not to mention more than 200,000 yuan, you can be a very good manager, the kind of manager in a popular industry, or the kind of executive in a traditional industry, with an annual salary of one million, in fact, it will be hundreds of thousands after tax.

The real estate in the big city that can maintain a little bit of value starts at 15 million, and even if you have 800,000 after tax, you will have to be 20 years younger if you don't eat or drink.

It's almost a lifetime, you go from your 30s to maturity, and it's not easy to get an annual salary of 1 million every year from your 30s to your 50s.

Of course, I'm not saying that this educational goal is wrong.

My wife's education was certainly successful, because she was cut off her wings and avoided the risks.

My first paragraph is joking, what I said is, what would happen if she invested, in fact, this assumption is not true, because a person of her personality would never invest.

The only way she can invest is to save for a fixed term.

Therefore, it doesn't matter whether people are excellent or not, the key is what position they are in and what problems they want to solve?

You put me in the position of a highway toll collector, and I will be complained about every day.

What am I good at? Rampant Qinghai night with a knife, west slaughter stone fort to take purple robes.

If they all go to lead troops to fight, my wife's way of playing is to arrange the troops and fight until they consume their last soldiers, as for who wins, the sky will decide.

Therefore, it is possible for her to win if she fights 10,000 against the opponent's 10,000 people, and it is impossible for her to win if she fights the opponent's 20,000 people.

But if it were me, it was possible.

I rarely use it, and most of the time, I reuse it from time to time.

That is, while your 20,000 people have not yet assembled, I will eat you 5,000 by 10,000 people, and then quickly pull to another battlefield, eat you 5,000 again, and then take advantage of your panic to eat you another 5,000.

In the end, you don't know what happened to the remaining 5,000 people, and I don't know how many people I came, and they broke up.

This is called time-division multiplexing.

Your total strength is 20,000, but when it comes to a certain period of time, the advantage is mine, and I am concentrating 10,000 to fight 5,000.

Her kind of personality can't do this kind of thing, but it doesn't mean that she is not a talent.

If you ask her to go to the street guarding pavilion, at least she won't think as much as Ma Yan, she will definitely carry out the order, go down to the street, and fight to the last soldier.

And if I am sent to guard the street pavilion, the consequences are unpredictable, maybe I will create a miracle, maybe I will be the second horse.

Therefore, later generations of military strategists analyzed Zhuge Liang's decision-making and said that the responsibility lies with Zhuge Liang, not Ma Yan.

People have different personalities and different uses, what is the difference between you letting people with Ma Tan's character fight a war of attrition and you letting monkeys guard the peach orchard.

However, we do not live in an agrarian society, we live in an information society.

The characteristic of this society is that the income distribution is extremely uneven, if you only look at the dimension of money, a serious and responsible person, to achieve 20 tens of thousands, 300,000 yuan a year will be the end.

If you don't have industry luck, you don't encounter the outlet, just by virtue of your management ability, you are not only good at doing things, but also good at being a person, then 1 million a year is over.

Further up, there needs to be something unique.

Do you understand what that means? Four wheels on the ground, it's worth so much money, if you want more, then it's up to you to see if you can land on two wheels, or even one wheel, or even four wheels at all.

You have to be unique, otherwise who wouldn't drive repetitively on all four wheels? Autonomous driving will also be available.

That's when you'll find out what the wings do.

For a child, wings are useless and even cumbersome when they are a student.

Wings will make you less obedient to the teacher, commonly known as more individual, which will affect your test scores, if you cut off the wings, maybe let yourself temporarily take the test higher, closer to the ceiling you can reach.

But how to say it, the disadvantage is also obvious, cutting off the wings will make the child's aura dissipate and become more rigid.

Dullness is also a talent, just like Mu Nianci and Huang Rong are very good, if they are just wives, maybe Mu Nianci is better.

Mu Nianci's adoptive father cut off her wings early, she was more obedient, Huang Laoxie never couldn't bear to cut her wings, so that Huang Rong was eccentric.

At that time, there was a talk in the dormitory of the university, commenting on the women in the Condor Shooting, and several of them said that Huang Rong definitely won, and I interjected to see the demand.

Guo Jing, who has no one to discuss, is absolutely right to choose Huang Rong; Yang Kang, who holds meetings in front of 800 hearts and eyes in the palace every day until late at night, if he goes home and meets Huang Rong and continues to work overtime with him, he will have two big heads.

So everyone laughed and thought it was true.

Of course, we are not talking about being a wife today, we are talking about the pricing of the commercial society.

The price that Huang Rong got would far exceed that of Mu Nianci, because the income was pushpin-shaped, and the base of that disc might be tens of thousands a year, and at the bottom of that needle, it might be hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, but that needle was straight into the sky, boundless.

Follow the needle upwards, millions, tens of millions, hundreds of millions, billions, billions, tens of billions, endlessly.

This is what modern society is all about.

So sometimes, when you go to see the teachers of those famous schools, especially when you are old, you will often sigh with emotion and express a different opinion than back then.

In his early years, he was very fond of pursuing students' grades, and cutting his wings was the most common technique at all costs.

Because after cutting, students will become more obedient, which is indeed conducive to temporary improvement.

But looking back, look at the long term. This student will become no longer in the habit of thinking, and will become what you say, what I do, what you say, how I do, you push, I move.

Then the teacher later finds that students with such a personality are not competitive in society, or rather, they are the same, and they fall into homogeneous competition.

Then, when the teacher is older, he will also reflect on whether there is a problem with the traditional Prussian education method, whether I have achieved talents, or whether I have destroyed some potential talents with my own hands.

Nowhere is this problem more evident than in the world of investment.

The apprentice in the factory asked the master how to process according to the drawings.

But when investing, there are often all kinds of unbelievable plays, such as when you drive a racing car, the weather is extremely cold, and you have to deliberately knock off the intercooler system.

You say that there will be a problem of overheating the engine in the back, yes, but if you don't do it at the moment, you will not have the back.

For another example, in the Tianji horse race, you let your own inferior horse go to the opponent's superior horse to deliberately send it to death, but if you don't do this, you won't win the overall race.

In the final analysis, it is not a lack of curiosity, a lack of good choices, and people who follow the steps step by step are not talents, but that times have changed.

It is not that the return on labor cannot catch up with the return on capital, but the value of answer cannot catch up with the value of solve.

Even, the world slowly doesn't need humans to answer a question, if you can't solve it.

Pay attention to the official account and the compass in the world to read the text "How to become an investor step by step"