Before entering the operating room, Sunlan pretended to hold Huang Jian's hand easily and said to him: "The doctor said that tonight must come out, father-to-be, I tell you, you are not allowed to leave for a second now!" I'm nervous right now, you know? ”
"Don't go, stay with me here, I'm afraid." Sunland smiled slightly on his face and felt nervous.
"Ready, rest assured, I'm not leaving, I'm just waiting here." Huang Jian was inseparable from her side, and also called relatives and friends to accompany her outside the door, and more people could give his wife more security.
One day in April 2014, Huang Jian personally watched his wife Sunlan being taken to the operating room, and Sunland said easily: "See you later!" Huang Jian was lying outside the glass window looking at the operating room, and there was a feeling of parting between life and death. Sunland, 33, is a high-risk pregnant woman with high paraplegia and her lack of consciousness below the chest, which is much more dangerous than the average pregnant woman.
The doctors and nurses moved her to the operating table, which she felt cold on, but felt relieved to know that there were so many friends and family outside.
"Here it comes, little thing!" The nurse carried the baby out of the operating room, and relatives and friends rushed up, and everyone's heart was full of joy. After the birth of his son, Sunland was directly pushed into the intensive care unit, at this time Huang Jian was not worried about the child, but only worried about his wife.
Sunland's blood pressure surge was very unstable, the highest high pressure reached 210, and Huang Jian's heart was also uneasy and hung high. Fortunately, Sunland's production process was finally thrilling and safe, which was also the first case of cervical spinal cord transliteration in China to successfully give birth.
High paraplegia to bid ambassador
Sunland was selected by the Jiangsu Sports Committee at the age of 5, started the competition as a teenager, won the national vaulting championship in 1997, and became the key training object of the national gymnastics team vaulting project due to its outstanding achievements. In 1998, Sunland practiced vaulting before the American Friendship Games, and when she was doing the aerial movement, she fell head down to the ground, and coach Belu rushed over to help her, and more and more people around her worked together to help her on a stretcher.
Sunland was diagnosed with a fractured cervical vertebrae, and she was unable to breathe spontaneously, and medical staff inserted a thick tube to help her breathe. The tube was inserted from the nose to the throat, and Sunland lay on the bed uncomfortably vomiting, waiting in severe pain, and her body could not move at all.
Sunland's cervical vertebrae could no longer be repaired, and only a bone could be removed from the crotch for transplantation. After such a dangerous operation, it can only maintain life, and the body below the chest can no longer move.
Sunland asked the coach next to him, "Can I still practice gymnastics?" The coach choked up and said, "Yes."
Seeing the coach's expression, Sunland vaguely knew that he would say goodbye to the field forever. She is the seeded athlete who won the Olympic vaulting championship and has high hopes, and many people feel sorry for her. From practicing gymnastics at the age of 5 to being paralyzed when training at the age of 17, 12 years of hard work were ruined, and the dream of olympic champion was shattered.
Sunland wanted to cry without tears, and even such a simple action as drinking water and eating needed help. Sunland's parents rushed to the United States, and her mother was very distressed to see Sunland lying on the hospital bed, and washed her face with tears every day. For the sake of her parents, Sunland decided to live well, at this time she was completely unable to take care of herself, even to lift her arms to exhaust all her strength, hands did not listen to commands at all, and kept trembling.
After 10 months of rehabilitation, Sunland's arm strength has increased a lot, and the family has tied the spoon to the palm of her hand with a strap, and she can use the push of the spoon to push the food into her mouth.
After returning to China, her parents rented a house in Beijing, and every day, her mother pushed her in a wheelchair to the rehabilitation center to exercise. The mother would let Sunland climb from the wheelchair to the bed, and she firmly grasped Sunland's calf with both hands, and Sunland supported the edge of the bed and moved several times before lying on the bed.
Under the careful care of her parents, Sunland was finally able to eat freely on her own, do some simple actions, and she thought about going to college. In 2002, When Sunland received her acceptance letter from Peking University, she was both happy and worried. The house is more than 20 kilometers away from Peking University, how to solve this difficulty?
At this time, Olympic champion Li Ning enthusiastically helped her, rented a two-bedroom apartment of 3,000 yuan per month, and undertook all the rent. However, Sunland still refused, and with the help of the school's logistics department, she moved into a dormitory of less than ten square meters, which was more convenient.
She and her mother lived here for five years and successfully obtained their undergraduate diploma. Sunland lost her healthy body because of the gymnastics competition, and her perseverance with disabilities embodied the Olympic spirit.
In 2008, the self-reliant Sunland became the ambassador of the Beijing Olympic bid, and she felt that the identity of the olympic bid ambassador brought a new meaning to her life. Although she was not able to go to Moscow with the Olympic bidding delegation, she also participated in the Millennium Monument.
Sunland was in a wheelchair, and her family held her arms to make her stand up. When the president of the Olympic Committee, Samaranch, announced that the host city was Beijing, Sunland burst into tears with excitement, as if he had returned to the arena, back to the moment when the national flag was raised and the national anthem was played after the game.
"Sky-high claim" after 13 years
For more than a decade after Sunland's injury, she was overwhelmed by more than 100,000 high expenses every year. At that time, the insurance company in the United States stated that it was only responsible for Sunland's rehabilitation costs in the United States, not for the cost of treatment in China.
So Sunland decided to fight a transnational lawsuit, when she was 30 years old, no longer a soft and weak little girl. Sunland revealed that her injury was not an accident, but that coach Belu temporarily removed the mat, causing her to hesitate when she made movements in the air. But she will not sue coach Beru, as a consequence of the organizers' chaotic management of the venue.
Sunland did not fight a lawsuit for such a long time because she was only seventeen years old at that time, she was in a foreign country, and she had to suffer losses, and later she felt: "I will not eat this dumb loss anymore, and now I have the ability to protect myself." In 2011, Sunland's agent, Huang Jian, left a message on lawyer Haiming's social platform, and the two quarreled online.
At that time, Heming was not optimistic about Sunland's claim, because 13 years had passed. After Sunland's claim was filed in the United States, lawyers Haiming and Sunland both received curses from some netizens. Haiming said to Huang Jian, "The two of us are big men, and Sunlan is so weak, can we withstand the insults of these people?"
But Sunland is more optimistic than the two of them, laughing every day, since the age of 17, she has experienced the hardships of life, and the most difficult period has passed. Sunland was injured in the United States, and 25 institutions and individuals became defendants in this transnational rights defense case, and the amount of compensation was as high as 1.8 billion yuan.
In Heming's view, this amount is normal in the United States, Sunland is the national champion, and this money is calculated by the law team according to the legal provisions of the United States. At that time, most of the 18 allegations raised by the Sunland side had already passed the time limit of the lawsuit, and the difficulty of this transnational litigation could be imagined. After several rounds of conversations, Sunland and U.S. insurance companies settled with $10 million in compensation.
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Risking death and childbirth, mother and child are safe
Sunland and Huang Jian are not in love at first sight, Huang Jian has always been Sunland's agent, and Sunland's affairs are all handled by Huang Jian in every detail. Huang Jian felt that Sunlan was not easy, and he took care of Sunland as a sister. Sunland asked Huang Jian, "Do you like me or not?"
Huang Jian said: "If I don't like you, will I be with you?" Don't like you will take care of you? "One year when Sunland returned to her hometown in Ningbo, Huang Jian deliberately accompanied Sunland to take a plane to ningbo, and then flew back by plane, which made her particularly moved.
In 2013, they got married, and in July 2013, Sunland had a baby, and both husband and wife were very excited, sunland has always dreamed of being a mother, hoping to have a child of her own. However, she was also vaguely worried that she usually took drugs to treat the spinal cord, not knowing whether it would affect the fetus, Sunland also sent an email to the attending doctor in the United States to inquire.
The doctor replied that the medicine taken by Sunland was absolutely safe and had no side effects on the child, which made Sunland and Huang Jian feel a little relieved. During pregnancy, Sunland also developed a high fever, can not take medicine, can only physically cool down, Huang Jian patiently wiped her body with alcohol to help her cool down.
The whole process of pregnancy makes the couple live in fear. Sunland has high blood pressure, as well as high blood sugar, and a total of three high fevers during pregnancy. As Sunland's belly grew larger, she couldn't turn over on her own and needed help from her husband, Huang Jian.
Sunland usually needs a urinary catheter to urinate, and she has to lie flat for 20 minutes, sometimes she feels breathless and very tired.
But even after encountering so many difficulties, Sunland did not retreat, feeling that he could get through it by gritting his teeth. A few months later, Sunland was about to give birth, and when Huang Jian signed, his nervous fingers trembled, and he closed his eyes and did not dare to look.
Sunland's usual basal blood pressure is lower than that of ordinary people, her mobility is inconvenient, and the blood flow is slow, so it is easy to have the problem of vascular embolism, and such a danger is still not over after childbirth. Sunland visited the doctor more than a month later, only to learn that her blood pressure rose to 210 during childbirth, and she was very afraid.
The son of the two, Huang Xiaobao, looks very cute, and Sunland often sings "Little Apple" to her son, which makes her feel very happy.
Once, when faced with a reporter's question, Sunland confessed: "Looking at my physical condition, I would like to add another brother or sister to him."
Later, when she was on the show, she played a clip of Sunland's interview.
The host asked her, "Are you kidding?" Or do you really want to? Everyone laughed.
Sunland replied: "Speaking of this question, there is a little struggle, a little contradiction, because after giving birth to a child, I think the baby is too cute, when the mother knows, the mother is so great, the mother is very happy, because I am an only child, I have been talking about giving birth to a sister to the baby."
Sunland's physical condition is not bad, and there is no problem with natural pregnancy. Huang Jian said: "And she is a person who is particularly easy to get pregnant, after giving birth this time, the doctor also found that she was particularly prone to pregnancy, so he repeatedly told me, be careful!"
Everyone laughed at the scene again, these two couples are really big, both people know that Sunland is pregnant and giving birth, it is really as dangerous as going up the knife mountain and going down to the fire, but they even want a second child. Huang Jian usually respects Sunlan and listens to his wife's opinion, he said: "It seems a little unbearable to let her suffer such a sin again, but I think I believe in my wife, and if she absolutely wants a second one, I will still accompany her." ”
Optimistic sunshine, smile on life
Now that Sunland and Huang Jian have been married for 8 years, their daily lives are quite joyful. Once, Huang Jian took out the walnut and put it in Sunlan's hand, Sunlan's fingers were not flexible, and he could press them with his hands, so that he could exercise his fingers and help him plate walnuts.
After several years of tempering in his married life, Huang Jian became a veritable Chef Huang. On Sunland's social platform, a variety of delicacies are often posted, all cooked by Huang Jian. Like ordinary girls, Sunland also likes food, and when she sees something delicious, she often can't hold it.
Sunland is a very strong girl, usually take some medicine, large and small colors are different. She poured out all the medicines, put them on the table, and then classified the medicines into a small pill box and ate them one small box a day. A few years ago, Sunland typed with one finger, and now several fingers are a little more flexible than before.
But the overall flexibility of the fingers is not enough, as if uncontrolled, she also regards the details of the medicine as a rehabilitation exercise, the small black pill is too smooth, Sunland pinched it several times with her fingers before putting it into the small grid, which makes people look a little sad.
Some netizens saw that they all shed tears and felt that Sunland was really not easy. Sunland said very easily, "It's too slippery, it always gets up."
"High paraplegia, can't even hand?" Some netizens asked curiously. "If the hand does not work, it is called high paraplegia, and the low hand is not affected." Sunland patiently gave netizens popular science, and the tone was very calm.
Sunland would take the medicine once a week, and it turned out that her hand could not take these small pills, but now she could open the lid herself and put them in. These things seem simple to ordinary people, but she has been practicing for a long time.
Now, Sunland's son Huang Xiaobao is 7 years old, he likes to play football, usually a lot of physical exercise, running, jumping and jumping can train the coordination of the body, but also can hone the quality of children. The couple's football exercise for their son Huang Xiaobao is more professional, in addition to practicing the basic skills of football in the winter and summer vacations, they also need to increase some physical training.
Like ordinary mothers, Sunland will tutor her children when her son is doing homework, and when he has time, Sunland often travels with her husband and son. Huang Jian often pushed Sunland's wheelchair with one hand and held his son with the other, and the family of three lived comfortably and comfortably.
Having experienced the life and death of the arena, I know the preciousness of life. Sunland has also dreamed countless times of falling down and getting up again, returning to the starting point, she is a brave and optimistic girl, lively and playful is her background.
Every time he appeared in front of everyone, Sunland was radiant, beautiful and generous, and his optimistic and sunny attitude towards life infected many people. Sunland is an angel with broken wings, she faces difficulties and darkness, and finally lives out her best appearance.