If you are a girl who is particularly well protected by the people around you, then you must be careful of someone who will make you miserable, and that person is yourself.
If you haven't experienced too many setbacks since you were a child, if you feel that the world is beautiful and hopeful, if your needs are often met by those around you, then you must be careful, you are falling into the protection of love.
If you are grateful and hope that this "protection" can always guard you, then you must do your duty as a good girl, try not to make some big decisions yourself, and obey the arrangements of the people around you.
If you feel that this kind of protection will make you lose yourself, and let you lose the opportunity to explore and understand the world, then you must be prepared to break through the cocoon and be reborn.
Your wings may bleed, and the germination of your sense of self is hurting yourself who is particularly well protected.
The world is big, there is light and darkness, there is hope and despair, there are good and regrets, if you are not a strong person, do not hurt yourself for the sake of a momentary self.
For example, when you are in love, you reject the door-to-door pair arranged by your parents for you, and you are bent on following the boy who has nothing but is very good to you.
For example, when you work, you reject the position arranged by your parents to have more money and less close to home, and pursue your achievements and dreams.
You must know that every time adults make any decision, they have to pay a corresponding price for it, and if someone is making decisions for you and is willing to take responsibility for you, it is a good thing that you choose to accept it.
But if you are a strong and self-conscious girl, you will have to bear the pressure of breaking the inhibitions, but you will gain the liberation and freedom of self-awareness, and your inner satisfaction will make you feel the meaning of living.
In short, if you are well protected now, but you don't want to be manipulated in this life, and you have the ability to live your own wonderful life and not regret every decision you make, then you must face the darkness of this world.
If you don't have big dreams and just want to live this life in peace, then don't be too egotistical, listen to the opinions and ideas of the people around you, although it is not necessarily the best result, but it will not be so bad.