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Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong's divorced melon, presumably everyone has eaten.
From Wang Lihong's official announcement of divorce, to Li Lianglei's small essay to fight for herself and expose Wang Lihong's various unbearable circumstances in marriage, netizens took sides one by one With Li Lianglei, and even called Li Lianglei's exposure "the hammer of Lei God".
After all, no one likes a man who cheats in marriage and makes mistakes frequently.
This is Li Lianglei's first success in front of public netizens, although Wang Lihong has also sent several small essays to fight back, but compared to Li Lianglei's skills, Wang Lihong is still almost there, in front of netizens is even more indefensible, can not recover their lost image.
In the end, Wang Lihong apologized and ended this huge storm.
In this apology, Wang Lihong admitted his mistake and said that he would take all the responsibility and raise 3 children with Li Lianglei.
However, after a month, Li Lianglei once again sent a small essay to respond to the matter between her and Wang Lihong.
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In Li Lianglei's latest long response, when Wang Lihong went home to see the children, he brought three men and asked that the monitoring of the home be turned off.
Wang Lihong's behavior made Li Jinglei feel frightened, and for the sake of safety, she did not dare to let him and the men enter the room.
In Li Lianglei's exposé, it was also said that in order to save his fame and fortune, Wang Lihong disregarded the safety and situation of his children, and even exposed his children's appearance and privacy in front of the media.
In addition, Li Lianglei also said that she is physically and mentally healthy, and has never had the idea of taking a light life, and if an accident occurs one day, it is definitely not a light life.
Li Lianglei's small essay is as long as ever, and there are many details written in it, which is no different from the previous times.
The only difference is the reaction of netizens.
A month ago, Li Lianglei's small composition attracted a large number of netizens to like and forward praise, but now the reaction of netizens in her comments is not as enthusiastic as the previous times, and even many people resent her approach.
There are roughly these categories:
Some people say that Li Lianglei occupies public resources, and the small essay says a lot, but the evidence is very small.
Some people say that what will Li Lianglei do except write small essays?
Some people also said that Li Lianglei guided the public opinion network to expose that there were problems that should be called to the police, rather than writing small essays again and again.
Compared with a month ago, why is the contrast between Li Lianglei's small essays this time so great?
First of all, a month ago, everyone just knew about this matter, with the psychology of gossip eating melons, curiosity and moral sense made everyone take the same side Li Lianglei.
This time, the curiosity of netizens about this matter has disappeared, and Li Lianglei's small composition has not come up with evidence to support it in addition to breaking the news, so it has aroused the public's disgust.
One method has been used for a long time, and it is inevitable that everyone will feel bored.
In addition, the best way to resolve disputes is the law, Li Lianglei has repeatedly used the sympathy of netizens to resolve disputes, which will inevitably make everyone feel that she is routine netizens.
So why did Li Lianglei use such a method to solve the problem?
Li Lianglei gave birth to three children in marriage, her career stopped, and she was betrayed by Wang Lihong, which was very unwilling.
Li Lianglei, as a person outside the circle, wants to fight against the famous star husband, the resources are certainly not as good as the king, and it is also a helpless move to be able to use the strength of netizens to fight.
Moreover, the two people must be turning against each other before they can bring the family affairs to the public platform.
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Remember the woman who reported her former mother-in-law for eating empty pay?
The reason why she wanted to report her former mother-in-law for eating empty pay was because there was a problem in the marriage, and the mother-in-law interfered in her married life, in order to buy a house, let her fake divorce, and then the fake divorce became a real divorce.
Buying a house became a debt again, and the children she gave birth to were at risk of custody being taken away.
This farce left her divorced, and she was in huge debt, and the children may not be able to live with themselves.
It is precisely because this matter cannot be solved at home, and the helpless move can only use the platform to achieve its own purpose.
Not long ago, a 21-year-old pregnant woman left a suicide note and ran away from home after having a conflict with her mother-in-law during pregnancy.
After 24 days, the 21-year-old girl was salvaged, already the result of two lives.
Judging from the suicide note she left behind, there are family conflicts, as well as her disappointment and uneasiness about the status quo.
At the age of 21, her experience is still shallow, and after entering marriage, she will face various problems and will not deal with them, which is a process of growth, but she chose the worst way to face.
Whether it is Li Lianglei, the woman who reported the former mother-in-law, or the pregnant woman who was born at the age of 21, they are all trapped in the pit of marriage, and their life storms are brought to them by marriage.
Once a woman enters marriage, the risks to life that she faces will skyrocket, which is indeed a heart-wrenching truth.
Telling you this truth is not to cause everyone to fear marriage, marriage is a polyhedron, it has its risks, it also has its unique experience and many advantages.
But compared to its good points, I want more women to understand where its risks are, and how we should deal with these risks properly, so as to make ourselves less hurt, or reach the purpose of stopping losses in time.
In marriage, a woman's physiological conditions determine that women are in a weak position, and I hope that every woman can learn how to deal with family conflicts after marriage and lay the foundation for family harmony.
In addition, risk prevention and prediction should also be a necessary lesson for every woman, from understanding the risks before marriage, to fearing risks after marriage, and being mentally prepared to deal with these risks without putting herself in a desperate situation.
The truth of marriage is not only happiness and unhappiness, it may also change your life, so be hopeful and leave a good way out.
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