Parent-child relationship is very important in the family relationship, the close relationship between parents and children is conducive to the harmonious development of the family, but also conducive to the healthy growth of children, pay attention to the exchange, communication and interaction with the child is the homework that every parent must do.
As the child grows, this intimate interaction will slowly transform into another form. For example, holiday greetings, gifts, etc., instead of holding hands and hugging such intimate actions, because children avoid mothers and daughters avoid fathers.
But recently, after a video of a mother and son meeting in Qingyang, Gansu Province, was uploaded to the Internet, it caused a heated discussion among netizens, some envious, some accusatory, and many opinions.
According to netizens, a mother in Qingyang, Gansu Province, went to pick up her son who returned from college, and the mother and son at the railway station were overly intimate, and even misunderstood by netizens as a couple, causing controversy.
From the picture, you can see that my mother is wearing a long white down jacket, white boots, leggings, and a ball head, and the back looks very good and the dress is very young.
When the mother saw her son pulling the suitcase out of the train station, she opened her arms and took small steps and ran all the way through. When the son saw his mother running over, he also let go of the suitcase, picked up his mother, and turned around a few times.
The son is tall and tall, the mother is petite and weak in the arms of her son, and the two small legs are particularly beautiful when turning in circles. This picture does not look like a mother and son, but more like a little couple who have been reunited for a long time.
Some netizens said: The mother must be very pampered by the father at home, so the son also loves the mother, the mother looks young and beautiful, because the mentality is young, and the women who are loved are young.
However, more netizens expressed their incomprehension, feeling that "the female avoids the father, the child avoids the mother", if the mother and the son are too close, it will affect the feelings of the son and the daughter-in-law.
A netizen commented: "The child avoids the mother, the female avoids the father" said that there should be some measure, to play their own role, not to be confused, a long time will affect the child's cognition.
Some netizens also said: Which girl will marry this son of such a mother?
Some netizens think that the way their mother runs is very good.
Some netizens even suspect that they are single-parent families, which is why mothers are so dependent on their sons.
Although netizens have mixed reviews, but this is after all someone else's life, other people's parent-child relationship, maybe they themselves feel that there is no sense of violation, and enjoy this intimate family relationship, perhaps in the future there will be a daughter-in-law can also have a set of ways to get along.
I think this mother has not seen her son for a long time, and she must miss her son very much, and I can understand the happy mood of seeing her son come home, but I can't accept that the mother and son are so close. No matter how good your parent-child relationship is, when your son grows up, he should keep a certain distance.
If the mother-child relationship is too close, the mother relies too much on the son, which is bound to affect the son's family relationship. Because the daughter-in-law is definitely not used to the mother being like a girlfriend in front of her son, and the mother will definitely interfere in the son's family life.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to get along with, if the mother does not know how to measure up and does not know how to quit her son's life at the right time, it will definitely make the daughter-in-law dissatisfied, and the son will be caught in the middle.
The most important thing for parents is to know how to score inches and play their family role well. When the children are young, we give them meticulous care and accompany them to grow, and when they grow up, we should let them fly, silently withdraw themselves, quietly guard, and be their strong backing and eternal haven.