I found that the fundamental reason why most boys can't find a girlfriend is that they don't know how to communicate with girls! How do you understand her without communication, how do you let her know you, there is no chance to understand, how can a girl be emotional about you? So! Communication is important! Today I will teach you how to make a fun chat, hurry up and sit in the front row.
The first step to lifting the appetite of girls is to understand the psychology of girls and find the topics they like to talk about. For a chat to be fun, you have to meet several criteria:
First, the tone is cheerful
How can you hear the tone of a chat? Must be able to. Let's compare the tone of the following two sentences:
"Hello, my name is XXX and I'm a friend of XX."
"Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you, I always hear XX praise you for your beautiful character and good character."
What do you think? Is there a difference?
The first sentence is very decent, anyway, if I hear such a thing, I will feel, Oh is a stranger I just met, reply with a "hello" and wait for him to continue to say OK.
If you can't take the initiative to provoke interesting topics at this time, there may be a ride that doesn't have a ride.
And the second sentence, as soon as I heard it, I felt that the other party was really cheerfully greeting, which made my mood suddenly cheerful, and I couldn't help but want to understand what he heard about me, maybe I would come out to play together while chatting.
Second, stimulate desire
As mentioned above, if you have mutual friends, you can borrow someone else's mouth, or borrow information from her circle of friends, and boldly give your evaluation.
At this time, she must be wondering: "What do others say about me?"
When you're done, she'll definitely give a series of feedback: "Harm, don't listen to him blow, I actually..." ”
You see, doesn't that give information?
So, when you stimulate her desire, she will give you new information, and there is more to talk about at this time.
Third, drive emotions
To prevent chatting from getting boring, remember a formula: things photo + feel shared.
For example, you go to an art exhibition, send her a picture of a male sculpture, and say that the artist is awesome, and the sculpture feels like it's alive.
For example, if you go to eat crayfish, you send her a photo of the lobster, and then say that the crayfish is doing well, the taste is quite delicious, but it doesn't feel as good as what I made.
When you can open with girls in this way, your feeling sharing can actively drive girls' emotions, and girls will naturally share their own topics.
The above is all the content I bring to you today, of course, I want to be an interesting person only rely on these 3 points is not enough, but things have to learn little by little, so learn these 3 points first, learn to learn the skills later is not too late!