As the saying goes, "The big husband can bend and stretch", which means that the big husband can endure when he is frustrated, and he can do a lot when he has the will. This sentence is still very reasonable for people, and such people who can do it are not ordinary people. A typical example in history is Marquis Han Xin of Huaiyin. It is said that people are good and are bullied, and when Han Xin was not yet founded, he was not less bullied by the local evil people in Huaiyin.
Since Han Xin's parents died at a very young age, he could only make ends meet by catching some fish on his own. As a vulnerable group, Han Xin was coldly treated and ridiculed by the people around him. One day, a butcher said to Han Xin, "Don't look at you who looks tall and tall, and carries a sword, in fact, your courage is very small." If you have the courage, stab me with your sword, and if you don't dare, drill under my crotch."
It is said that men have gold under their knees, and it is already a shame for a manly man to kneel down to others, let alone drill through the crotch of others? In the face of the butcher's humiliation and sneer, Han Xin did not argue and resist, and chose the most humiliating approach. Han Xin slowly knelt down, slowly crawled to the butcher's crotch and drilled over.
In fact, as for the reason why Han Xin suffered the humiliation of crotch, there is also a theory that Han Xin's drifting mother was ill, and Han Xin wanted to repay her, so he planned to go to the butcher to get the meat on credit, and the condition put forward by the butcher was to let Han Xin pass under his crotch. Whatever the reason, Han Xin could tolerate the humiliation of his crotch, which was enough to see that he was very human.
Later, Han Xin followed Liu Bang to fight in the world, made great military achievements, and after being named a great general, he also went back to find the butcher. When Han Xin found the butcher, the butcher was very scared, worried that Han Xin had come to take revenge. However, the way Han Xin treated him was very surprising, Han Xin not only did not retaliate, but also thanked the butcher and made the butcher a lieutenant under him. Because in Han Xin's view, if there was no humiliation of the butcher, there would be no Han Xin today. This also shows the breadth of Han Xin's mind.