Author | Super Mom
The final exams are about to begin, and parents should tell their children that there is an eternal truth in this world: "Self-discipline is outstanding, lazy out."
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Now mess around
Be careful that you will not regret it in the future
Many children do not like to study, so they do not listen well to lectures in class, homework is not done well, and exams are only for perfunctory parents. I even think it's cool to hand over the exam paper and work against the teacher in class.
But child, I want to tell you that in this world, every point of hard work is a harvest. Achievements are all hard work, and future happiness is to rely on yourself to struggle.
Young madness should not be an excuse for not wanting to learn, you want to steal a day today, tomorrow you want to be lazy all the time.
Now laziness makes you have a short-term happiness, and later to the society, there is competition everywhere, and regret is too late.
Mixing up your life now is actually wasting your time and betting on your future. When you lose, it will be too late.
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How disciplined you are
Just how lucky
It is true that self-discipline is a very uncomfortable thing, but at the same time self-discipline can bring people what they want. How disciplined you are, how lucky you are.
Why do some people learn the same learning content quickly, because they have made more efforts than ordinary people behind their backs.
Every night after eating, playing games and watching TV, you are in a daze, and others have already started to do homework and prep homework.
Before you go to bed, you are still thinking that the game is not played well, the TV series just now is not good enough, and others have finished making plans for tomorrow and gone to bed early.
The gap between you and others is one self-discipline, and self-disciplined people know how to be cruel to themselves.
Eat the pain of learning fiercely, take the class well, do the homework well, and reflect self-discipline in every link of learning, because the harder you work, the luckier you are.
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Cultivate self-discipline early
Self-discipline determines how far a person goes, whether he flies high or not, and determines the size of a person's achievements. To cultivate self-discipline, you need to do the following:
Create a good learning atmosphere
Whether children learn self-discipline at home has a lot to do with the learning atmosphere. When the child's mind is not mature enough, the concentration is very fragile, and if the family learning atmosphere is not strong, it is easy to be distracted.
As a parent, to cultivate children's self-discipline, first of all, it is necessary to create a good learning atmosphere for children, and parents try not to interfere when children learn.
Help your child manage their time
Parents should first help their children realize the importance of managing their time and the need to make a plan. Doing things without a plan is easy to be busy and lazy and procrastinating.
Learn to manage time, make practical plans, and strictly implement the plan, and the habit of self-discipline can be formed.
Parents lead by example
Dong Qing once said: What kind of person you want your child to become, you should be what kind of person you want to be.
Self-disciplined parents, the children raised will not be too bad. Parents self-discipline life and work, children will also see in the eyes, follow to learn. No one can succeed casually, and good people know how to be strict with themselves and learn to delay gratification. Don't try to find shortcuts on the road of learning, look up at the stars, and be down-to-earth.
The more disciplined you are, the better you stand out.
Responsible Editor | Du Runnan