A lifetime of generations and a couple, competing for two souls? Acacia does not look at each other, the sky for who spring! Pulp to the blue bridge is easy to beg, medicine into the blue sea is difficult to run. Even in the social context of the ancient society of wives and concubines, people who loved each other still expected love from beginning to end. But contrary to expectations, no matter which period will let us see a surprising view of love, a deformed view of love.
Fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriend, this matter has been applicable throughout the ages. Who is this woman who has twice stepped into someone else's marriage? Li Ying, she is a talented woman, as an editor, publishing books is not a word, she should have found a happiness that belongs to her. But God seemed to have made a joke with her. She met the wrong person at the wrong time and made the wrong choice.
We are not very good at judging her own view of love, but this deformed view of love is justified by her. While she made other people's families smoke miasma, she also brought a very bad impact on society. For more than 20 years, the love-hate entanglement between Gu Cheng, Xie Ye and Li Ying has been criticized.
A fairytale beginning
The grass is bearing its seeds, and the wind is shaking its leaves. When we stand and don't speak, it's beautiful. —— Gu Cheng
After the founding of New China, waves of thought came after wave, during which a large number of poets appeared. Gu Cheng, the representative of the obscure poets, is one of them. This man, born in Shanghai, has a beautiful appearance, and under the influence of his father, he began to write poetry at the age of 7 and published it in many newspapers, and has been known as a divine power since he was a child.
Such a perfect character met Xie Ye in 1986. Similar to the scene in the movie plot, they meet on the train. Xie Ye was deeply attracted to this handsome and talented man. After getting off the train, she found the Prince Charming in her heart. The two quickly established a relationship and entered the palace of marriage.
Things often happen so delicately, at the same time as this encounter, Xie Ye also met the person he should not meet in this life - Li Ying. Li Ying was also a young woman at the time, and the two were similar in age and shared a dormitory.
Xie Ye always likes to describe her love with Gu Cheng in the dormitory. These fairytale-like beautiful loves quietly planted seeds in the heart of Li Ying, who had just opened his love sinus. When she hears the depths of love, Li Ying will secretly cry with the quilt.
Pandora's Box
This undeserved feeling slowly sprouted in Li Ying's heart, and it grew stronger and stronger. On the one hand, she knew that she should not interfere with the feelings between her good sisters Xie Ye and Gu Cheng, on the other hand, she could not bear the thoughts and admiration for Gu Cheng day and night. Gu Cheng became the obsession in Li Ying's heart.
This outstanding young man went abroad, and Xie Ye also followed him, leaving Li Ying alone in the same place. She ignored the advice of her friends, ignored Xie Ye's feelings, and frequently corresponded with Gu Cheng. In the letter, she told the countless days and nights of thinking about Gu Cheng.
In the letter, Gu Cheng discovers that the girl is so admiring of his spiritual world. Gu Cheng, who had never felt like this before, accepted Li Ying and opened a platonic love affair with her.
Xie Ye's taste in it can be known three points without thinking, but the love and tolerance for her husband finally overcomes those mixed feelings. Li Ying finally got her wish and came to New Zealand's Passion Island, an island where she enjoyed infinite beauty.
Gu Cheng's "Ying'er" book describes the process of his and Li Ying's bedtime in a large way. It can be seen that at the beginning of the emotional beginning of this threesome, everything seems to be so normal and beautiful! The funny thing is that Gu Cheng also thanked his wife in the book like a matchmaker. Such a deformed view of emotion also lays the foundation for the tragedy that follows.
Tragic ending
Perhaps in this relationship, only Gu Cheng is very satisfied, and this man who lives in his own spiritual world takes such a life for granted. He did not see his wife's grudge, did not see Li Ying's possessiveness, but just blindly enjoyed the happiness given to him now, and the center of the world was only him.
Or if you can't ask for it, you may see the real side of Gu Cheng: the so-called secluded pastoral life is just an excuse for Gu Cheng to escape the hustle and bustle of the city. Li Ying chose to leave, without formal farewell and without any warning, and shortly after Xie Ye and Gu Cheng went to Germany for work, Li Ying left Waihek Island and married a British immigrant.
A year later, "On October 8, 1993, a couple had an argument on an island in New Zealand, Gu Cheng seriously injured his wife with an axe, and he hanged himself under a tree in a hurry. Shortly after his death, Xie Ye died one after another due to failed rescue. "It was sensational news at the time.
People are speculating about the real reason behind this. In the end, the spearhead was pointed at Li Ying, who was still alive. Under such huge social pressure, Li Ying clarified to the society that she did not intervene in the marriage of Gu Cheng and Xie Ye, and specially wrote "Love Yi Mei'er" for this purpose.
After the book was published, it did not help clarify the matter, but confirmed the fact that she had intervened in other people's marriages twice. The book writes that Li Ying and Liu Zhanqiu met at a dance party, and the two fell in love at first sight. But at that time, Liu Zhanqiu was married. Soon after, she married Liu Zhanqiu and lived the life of a hermit.
In Li Ying's three views, the one who is not loved in the world of love is the third party, so she has never felt that it is a mistake to interfere in someone else's family. This wrong view of love has surprised the public. She was pushed to the cusp of public opinion, but she still went her own way.
brief summary:
Li Ying is sad, her life may have been pursuing her own hazy and sincere love, no matter what method, she tried her best. We are all right for all this, but the fault lies in the fact that she bases her happiness on the suffering of others and on the violation of the basic ethics and morality of society.
Imagine how terrible the world would have become if everyone had been so selfish and acted so "frankly". I advise those who are in emotional entanglement that if what you are pursuing is an unattainable or extremely absurd and shameful result, it is a kind of happiness to take a step back and let go. Because your happiness must be not far away.