When you are young, you make a decision to dedicate your life to love. Later, when the ten thousand arrows pierced the heart, you were fine, because youth gave you a life.
Youth is dead. But you are still alive, but you will never be moved again, everyone has to survive a love that has paid a lot but has no results, and will suddenly grow up overnight.
So don't laugh at a man whose face is expressionless, you just haven't seen his turbulent heart.
Once the infatuated person is sober, no one can keep it, not because he doesn't like it, but because he suddenly feels that you don't deserve me to feel sorry for you anymore.
In the end, how sensible and rational must be, in order to suppress the unwillingness and sadness in the heart, just like which step you have taken wrong, so that today's self looks like everywhere is wrong.
Love must have results, love without results, you give up his wonderful well, you go to travel to come back after all, then don't go.
It is not that the love that must be married and have children is a good love, nor does it mean that the longer the time drags on the love, it must be a good love, how many feelings drag the food tasteless, abandoned it is a pity.
It's beautiful at sunrise, right? Hold your breath at this moment, but it is so short, just for a moment, you have to know that life is very long, and sometimes because of the beauty and excitement of this moment, you can go for a long time.
I have a principle in love.
It's the kind of person who doesn't play tai chi with you and lets me rack my brains to guess, and I don't go back without turning my head, why? Brain teaser? I'm sorry, I'm so stupid, I can't play this set, I don't like to spend a lot of time wondering if a person likes me or not.
I will not do nothing for a day, I will hold the mobile phone waiting for your news, this anxiety suffers from loss and loss, I will not allow my current self, still so childish to pursue love.
Now myself, I may not be able to judge the quality of this relationship, alas, this person is not suitable for me, but at least I can judge whether I like such a self.
I think a good relationship is, do not need to guess, on the friendship love are the same, everyone in the relationship is to make each other into a better person, more positive and optimistic to face life, not to suffer from loss and loss, emotional instability all day.
You can't eat well, you can't sleep well, you must know that life is really not only about falling in love.
What is a partner?
A partner is to be with you, to make the road of life faster, more interesting, in the final analysis, to find a partner is to live a better life, right?
But will there still be people who make themselves unbeatable and ghostly because of love? The kind of person who influences work and becomes in love with a brain.
As a friend, I sincerely tell you: "No one is more important than yourself, have the time to think about whether he loves you or not, how can he fall in love with you, you might as well take the time to make yourself more complete, don't think about it, that kind of almost meaningless love, don't do it."