Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Between men and women, it is often easy to love each other, but it is difficult to keep love! Although you know how to cherish it, you deserve to have it, but not all treasures can have it.
In the relationship, whether men and women can go to the end is never so easy to just love me, I love you this simple 6 words!
Men and women, it only takes a moment to have feelings, because the decision to start a relationship depends on the appearance, which is the so-called eye edge!
And the love that is not easy for two people to get along, long-term or changeable, depends on the energy bursting from within, whether it is attracted to each other!
The two people who can go to the end, we call it the "positive edge" that can cultivate positive results, otherwise they are rotten peach blossoms!
And whether the two people are the right fate and whether they can cultivate the right results are actually doomed from the beginning!
Many people in the relationship, the most common statement that can not reach the end is: the three views are different, the personality is not compatible!
In fact, many people who say that the three views are different and separate do not know what the three views are! I just feel that the other party always fails to speak and do things according to his own wishes, which is a disagreement between the three views!
This is just an excuse for each other's "ignorance"!
In the relationship between men and women, even people with different views will be willing to correct themselves to the other half on the basis of deep love. As long as they do not violate morality and etiquette, such mutual proximity is called "acceptance" and "tolerance", "guidance" and "growth"!
And personality is not in line with this point, as long as it is true love, you can also change your own edges and corners for each other, so that the mutual leveling of edges and angles is called "mutual pandering" and "mutual fulfillment".
So, what kind of two people are only doomed not to cultivate the right results, and can only be separated halfway?
But will people who truly love each other necessarily come to the end? not necessarily!
In real life, many people who truly love each other are scattered by reality:
1: The "mutual integration" of two families
Since ancient times, the combination of men and women has paid attention to "door to door". The wrong door is not right, which is one of the most common reasons why two people can't go together!
The prince and Cinderella, the princess and the beggar, such love stories have always been characters in operas or novels. In real life, two people with such a huge disparity, the time node of true love, must not have moved the chai rice oil and salt of the ordinary years into life!
The combination of two people is the mutual integration of two families!
If the gap between rich and poor is particularly large or the family status is particularly disparity, this will make the people of the two families subjectively impose concepts on each other!
Yes, two families with the wrong door will each carry a "sensitivity" that should not exist, affecting the relationship between men and women in the relationship!
Two people truly love each other, but they must not cut off their relationship with the families of both sides in order to love each other!
Although trust is the first element of feelings, but each grew up in their own family, their parents, brothers and sisters said out, they will understand what the meaning of the first time, but let the other family take the meaning out of context or sensitive misinterpretation, causing contradictions is inevitable!
Two people together, initially because there are not many problems encountered, each has patience and enough trust to communicate with each other, but for a long time. The feelings of two people will be a mess because of the families of both sides.
When love and trouble coexist, people can't stand the torment, and prefer to love each other and choose to stay away from trouble!
Therefore, we often say that when men and women interact, they must go to each other's homes to see each other's family habits, understand whether each other is "right", and choose carefully if there is a disparity!
The disparity between the two families is indeed happy, but it is really a small proportion of happiness!
2: Whether two people can become "emotional" partners
Many people who love each other, relatives and friends are optimistic about each other, love each other, but in the end, because their emotions are beyond self-control, they have not been able to keep their beloved.
Leave, not because you don't love, but because you love and fear!
Some people, because of their growth experiences, have a very weak ability to manage emotions. If when the person's emotions come, a person can divert his attention or effectively dissolve his feelings, he will gradually increase his ability to manage emotions.
That is to say, whether a person is the right person for himself, and how deeply you love him is not important, but how he is most important to you when your emotions are out of control!
Some people, when the wind and waves are calm, give you the romance of gentleness and wind and snow, and once you have emotions, they will immediately flee!
What is love? Love is about accepting your inadequacies and flaws, and it can also help you correct yourself together!
A person who can dare to look at the worst of you and keep you from you must be the right person!
In this stressful moment, not everyone can be happy and sunny all day, and many times when the pressure comes and needs to be released, only the people they love can give themselves more steadfastness.
And it's impossible for two people to be together without arguing forever. When each other is emotionally excited, if one person is willing to soften and cater to the emotions of the other party, and the other party is grateful to gradually pay attention in the future together, then they must be the right person!
Some men and women, they can only be false lovers when they are happy, and when emotions come, they instantly become real enemies! It's not love and killing each other, it's never really loved before!
Emotionally, they are lovers who love each other, and emotionally they are partners who accompany each other, so that two people can really go to the end!
Many men and women, can't tell what is love and what is not love, horizontal and vertical passion period of the first sight of joy, think it is love!
In fact, love seems simple, but it contains too many abstract things! Moreover, if two people want to be together for a long time, they also need to analyze in detail from the family history of both parties and how much they are willing to change themselves for love!
The two people who really love each other to the end, in addition to being able to give each other warm love, will also let the two families integrate with each other under the premise of the door to the door, and can be each other's emotional partners.
Otherwise, putting aside these realities and talking about those abstract love loves, it is really too naïve!
Two people choosing to be together and deciding to be together forever are never the same thing!
Choosing to be together is immediate, deciding to be together is the rest of your life.
Walking together is a hard road, so we must let each other be the most comfortable lover, friend, and confidant of each other without any interference!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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