"I couldn't sleep all night, and I don't know how the baby's fetal heart doesn't beat. I checked in on time every month, talked to him every day, and we all looked forward to his arrival. But before I could see him, he was gone. ”
#流产是一种什么体验? #时隔五年, my sister already has a pair of lovely children, but we still dare not mention the accidental miscarriage of my sister's first pregnancy, because I know that as a mother, abortion is a weight that life cannot bear.
Hello everyone, I'm Miya, a confidant mommy. In the past two days, I saw a very heart-wrenching, shocking and regrettable news on Weibo hot search # Xi'an pregnant women waited 2 hours at the hospital gate due to nucleic acid testing problems, and the 8-month-old fetus miscarried#.
On January 4, in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, a maternal family member posted that on January 1, her aunt's stomach pain could not reach 120, and then called 110 to send her aunt to the hospital.
Arrived at Xi'an High-tech Hospital at 8 p.m., could not be admitted at the door due to nucleic acid problems, and waited until more than 10 p.m., waiting at the door during the aunt's heavy bleeding, and the 8-month-old baby miscarriage.
The hardships of 8 months of pregnancy, the desire and expectation for life, were swallowed up in front of an expired nucleic acid test.
I've never guessed others with the worst malice, but how difficult it is to have a child born! All I can do is show you how to avoid a recurrence of tragedy.
01. It's not easy to have a baby
@Flower Flower
"I didn't even know the baby had been there, and the baby passed me by. The aunt postponed it for two weeks, and the hindsight tested weakly positive. Went to the hospital for testing, but was told by the doctor that it was a biochemical pregnancy. ”
@Clouds
"Every time I get pregnant, I encounter fetal arrest, it's been 5 times. As I get older and the number of miscarriages increases, I am afraid that I will not be able to conceive a child in the future, and I am even more afraid that I will not be able to get pregnant and take good care of it, but I will still get the same results as before. ”
Before having children, we always think it is easy to have children, but it is really not so easy to get pregnant successfully. In addition to the need to consume folic acid every day, do not stay up late and do not diet, maintain a happy mood, appropriate exercise and other careful preparation for pregnancy, the quality and quantity of sperm, women's ovulation time, the smooth flow of fallopian tubes, suitable for growth of the uterine cavity environment are not less.
All in all, pregnancy really needs some "pregnant" qi, and pregnancy preparation is an important part.
02. Words of suffering during pregnancy
If you haven't been pregnant, it's hard to imagine how hard moms work:
1, morning sickness: the sense of taste is extremely sensitive, smell any taste want to vomit, burning stomach and throat is simply indescribable.
2, constipation: a large amount of secretion of progesterone, abdominal distension and abdominal pain, a careless hemorrhoids also followed by a seizure, that taste, sour enough.
3, breast stinging: from the eighth week of pregnancy, the breast is not stinging, just like that Rong Mama from time to time to Ziwei needle.
4. Leg swelling: In the third trimester of pregnancy, the two feet are directly swollen into pig's feet, and then the foot cramps in the middle of the night are added, and there is no sleep directly.
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In addition to the physical pain, the most important thing is the pain of being restrained, starting from pregnancy, spicy hot pot skewers, girlfriends dating and gossip, basically saying goodbye to us.
Regarding these things during pregnancy, we have previously posted a detailed article: 10 ways to take care of pregnancy discomfort, transfer to the husband to see! , you can click to view Oh.
03. Under the epidemic situation, how to give birth smoothly
Many people say: "Women, for the mother is just", before having children, I did not understand, but after giving birth, I have a deep feeling. How can every mother who has gone through the process of preparing for pregnancy, pregnancy and then parenting not be strong?
Therefore, as women, as mothers, each of us feels the pain of xi'an pregnant mothers.
How to give birth to healthy children during the epidemic?
During the epidemic period, it is inconvenient to travel and it is more difficult to see a doctor, but we should not worry too much, prepare in advance, and give birth with peace of mind.
Self-monitoring, prepare in advance. If there is any abnormality, report it in time. Pregnant mothers can also monitor their body temperature, fetal heart rate, fetal movement and other monitoring at home through intelligent medical devices, and report abnormal situations to the community or hospital in time.
Be protective and don't panic. During pregnancy, the mother's mentality is very important, we do not panic, keeping relaxed and happy is more conducive to the growth and development of the baby.
Routine prenatal check-ups should be done during the pandemic. In addition, we should pay close attention to changes in fetal motility, and those with complications or complications during pregnancy should appropriately increase the number of obstetric examinations.
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I know that these simple suggestions are far from helping people facing difficulties in reality, but I hope that these personal experiences can give you reference and emotional support.
In addition, although this tragedy occurred in front of the hospital, I think the more we have to trust professional medical staff in the tense time of the epidemic.
Finally, I hope that all pregnant women will give birth safely and smoothly, and I hope that all hospitals will treat patients and save people, and do not forget their original intentions.
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