Recently, "you work here is my son", the takeaway brother was scolded by female college students to resign on the hot search, netizens have commented: "Every profession deserves to be respected"; "College students, 9 years of compulsory education, learning white!" ”......
Chat history of female college students and takeaway brothers
The cause of the incident is that the takeaway brother delivered food to the female college student, after many times of contact without results, the message will be delivered again, the female college student replied and changed the delivery address after 20 minutes, and the brother said after delivering the meal again: "Send it to you one more time, and you will not say thank you!" This angered the female college student, verbally insulting the takeaway brother: "You are my son when you work here; if you don't have money, you can work well; the old woman will not thank you....."
In life, I often encounter such people, obviously it is my own fault, but I beat a rake upside down, above others, do not know gratitude, and are arrogant and rude.
The arrogance in a person's bones is a terminal illness, and the cure for arrogance is to know gratitude and humility
Maybe the girl is experiencing extreme emotional distress, suppressing out-of-control emotions and having nowhere to vent? Let the takeaway guy just bump into it? Or is it the extreme inferiority complex in her heart, using insults to find psychological balance in the takeaway brother?
But no matter what, respect for others is the basic cultivation and character of being a person, arrogant and rude insults can not comfort their hearts, on the contrary, the consequent negative impact may lead themselves to a more dangerous desperate situation.
Empathy is kindness, and gratitude is human feelings. Who in life is not struggling and moving forward alone. Loneliness does not disappear, but the soul can embrace. Try to illuminate yourself and others so that you are not swallowed up by darkness.
Your arrogance is more terrible than death
A senior entrepreneur, because of chest pain late at night, the doctor after diagnosis, told him that the heart local myocardial infarction, there is a risk of sudden death, must be hospitalized for further examination and treatment, but he is strong, feel that the doctor is making a big fuss, do not listen to the doctor's advice, signed the "refusal to be hospitalized" statement, angrily left the hospital.
Also posted in the circle of friends, arrogantly spit out: "Lao Tzu TMD Xiamen University graduate, scare me, Lao Tzu money has not been spent, the daughter is still young, the wife is still young, God does not receive ...", however, 5 days later he died of sudden cardiac death.
Ignorance is not an obstacle to survival, arrogance is the disaster of life, it starts from the inner discriminating heart, clinging to the fame and fortune of the self, blind self-confidence and arrogance eventually buried their own lives.
What is more terrible than death is arrogance, and abandoning arrogance and returning to rational mindfulness is the true meaning of life.
The male protagonist's sunburned circle of friends
Humility is a kind of wisdom, but it is also a lifelong practice
During the Qing Dynasty, a prime minister and a waiter were both from Tongcheng, Anhui, and the two families were adjacent to each other, and disputes arose over land issues.
The letter from the prime minister's family informed him of his intervention, and the prime minister replied: "The family letter of a thousand miles is only for the wall, so why not let it be three feet?" The Great Wall is still there today, and I don't see Qin Shi Huang in that year", the family saw the book and suddenly woke up, and took the initiative to give way to the ground three feet.
The Waiter's family was also deeply ashamed to see the situation, and immediately let the ground three feet, and the two families lived in harmony from then on, leaving the "Six Feet Lane" good name to pass on to the world.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Humility and tolerance are noble", humility is a kind of wisdom and a lifelong practice, a person is humble to others, tolerant of things, it is bound to be easier to succeed.
Six Feet Alley
Why do people often get mad and angry? Because "I" was full of arrogance, "Why do you think you did this to me?" "That's arrogance. Arrogance means selfishness and self-centeredness, no one wants to help arrogant people, and the solution is to know how to be grateful, to remain humble, to give up arrogance and hostility, and to learn to endure humiliation.
Just as the so-called "humble benefit, full of loss", humility is not to give up their faith and self-esteem, but to give more care to others, to give the world more warmth, your humility will let you discover more advantages and dedication of the people around you.
Give yourself more time to read and study! Knowledge will broaden your horizons, you will no longer be concerned about what others say about you, you will begin to pay more attention to what is around you and participate in the world in a more efficient way. The accumulation of knowledge will enable you to break through the limitations of self-knowledge, let you make more and better new friends, have more choices, and meet better opportunities.
Arrogance hinders your growth, and humility makes you spread your wings and fly high.
Arrogance, like a person who is confident that he can climb over the lofty mountains, disdains to dump the small stones in his shoes, and will eventually be polished by the small stones.
The ancients said: "The good wanderer drowns, the good rider falls, each taking his own favor and doing his own thing." "Arrogance, if not corrected, will eventually be its curse." What do you think?