Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Some people say that when two people break up, they must not have any contact again. Otherwise, in the state of broken mirrors and difficult to reunite, once the "accidental" re-contact will cause the possibility of rekindling old feelings, and it is easy to hurt each other again!
So, for separated people, deleting contact information from each other is the best ending and the best mutual respect! At the very least, behind the crisp and neat back, we can leave each other with the last bit of relatively good memories!
Some people say that in the adult world, deletion and blocking are all manifestations of immaturity! It never matters whether people who don't care still have contact information!
However, it turns out that for people after separation, deleting all contact information is the real maturity.
Although it is true that some people break up and then contact each other, they have indeed gained a rare satisfaction, but the odds of such a thing are really small!
In the world, there are lucky people, but for too many people, they may not be the lucky one!
Those who still retain contact information, sudden contact or being contacted at some point, is deliberately "fixed"!
Although you keep your contact information, after a long time of disconnection, the person who contacts you again may not care! It is necessary to be sober and discerning in order to avoid repeated injuries in the same person!
People who leave you suddenly have to contact again for these reasons:
1: Difficulties encountered
In the face of difficulties, there is never a gender distinction!
In the face of difficulties, people all hope that there is a very reliable person to speak their hearts or a reliable helper; and people who have loved each other, if the contact information is still there, it is easy to be "disturbed"!
In particular, when facing major difficulties, the first thing that comes to mind must be someone who is deeply in their own memory! Subconsciously, the person who can be disturbed at any time stays there, and at a certain point in time, he will be easily "naturally" contacted!
The girl walked at night, encountered danger, and called her ex-boyfriend for the first time, which was an indescribable "tacit understanding" established before. In the conversation where the donkey's lips are not on the horse's mouth, the other party can understand for the first time that she needs to be "emboldened" now!
The boy is experiencing financial difficulties, because of his face and dignity, he may not talk to his friends around him, nor will he talk to the people in front of him! But the person on the phone who was once familiar, he would think twice and make contact.
The re-contact after the disconnection is probably not because of love, but because when I need the help of others the most, I remembered the steadfastness I once had!
2: Broke up with the incumbent
People who have truly loved deeply want them to be well at all times!
So, when you are contacted again after a long disconnection, in the face of the news in front of you and the ringing bell, your hesitation shows your best wishes for ta!
Then, when the message is replied to or the phone is answered, the sadness and mourning coming from the screen tear your heart for a long time.
Because, the person you once loved, was stabbed in the heart by others, and failed to live up to the affection. Therefore, your mood is heartache mixed with the pain of resentment.
Everyone faces the people they have loved deeply but have not been able to be together, and most of them do not want to be owned by others, but they cannot do anything about the choices they have after they leave.
So, when the news of being broken up comes from the other end of the screen, it's easy to ignite the flame of love again out of heartache and protection.
But reality will let you know that the person who broke off contact with you after being broken up and contacted you again is because he remembered your goodness at the most sad time. It's just that it has nothing to do with love!
Ta, just want to find some temporary spiritual comfort in your place!
3: Encountered a very low mood
The adult world is cruel! Because you can't be free to be yourself anytime, anywhere.
In particular, in the relationship between people, seemingly closer relationships, in fact, not everyone can become their true confidant!
In the face of various pressures encountered in survival, although a person must learn to self-regulate the mentality and self-sufficiency of spiritual security, there is still a time for collapse.
When too many negative emotions creep into the heart, when too much pressure has nowhere to complain, the person who once walked a road about love with himself appeared in his mind.
Text message or dial a string of phone numbers, the moment you hear the other person's voice, your heart will instantly become extremely stable!
Many people will say that such a feeling must be true love, and such two people will definitely harvest better happiness after the words are compounded.
But in fact, this is just an emotion of a person's low period! It's just that under the influence of sensibility, a moment of "childishness".
People who have been disconnected from you for a long time suddenly have melancholy or crying on the other end of the phone, and you just need to appease! Don't take action to accompany you, because you are no longer who is who!
When people who have been disconnected from you for a long time suddenly contact you, they don't have to think much, they just want to use the steadfastness of the past to set up some necessary "security" for themselves in the present.
As for whether you want to give or not to feel secure, that is your freedom! Just, don't use the mud and water that has nothing to do with love to disturb the tranquility of your current life!
When you are still qualified to comfort your ex, you can do what you want within your healthy distance. If you already have a new person around you, put the old person down gently.
Although for those who have loved, do not block, do not delete, even if they are no longer connected for a lifetime, it will look warm again, but don't forget that there is a sigh in addition to this warmth.
If you can, once separated, don't say goodbye to each other, and don't leave contact information for each other! People who are doomed not to be together, no matter how they connect, they are just pouring salt on themselves or on each other's wounds, which is of no benefit!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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