Uncle Lover's Introduction:
The first impression is what kind of impression a person's appearance and movements give you, and this influence ultimately affects the first step in your development. In the later interactions, in fact, what is done is to leave more good impressions, so when a couple or a man and woman in an ambiguous period date for the first time, it is actually the influence of the first cause effect, which will form an influence and dominate in the mind, affecting the interaction between each other in the future.
First, the relaxed atmosphere
When it comes to the first date, 80% of people will be nervous, and when they are nervous, they will treat this matter as a formal thing, and all of a sudden, the whole dating atmosphere will become awkward because it is too formal. In fact, the harmony of dating should be relaxed and cheerful, in short, so that the other party can leave a good impression and be able to make the next date under the guidance of this impression.
Second, the appropriate plan
After having the overall atmosphere, the following should pay attention to the theme of the date, the most feared thing about the date is not ready to do, and then sit there on the spot to brush the phone to find a place. So before going on a date, there must be a plan, it can be different and too thorough, but it must be appropriate and implementable.
For example, if you are sure that you are going to go to a store when you are ready to go on a good date, you have not inquired in advance whether the store is open on the same day, and when you go there, you will face the situation of eating closed doors. This shows the importance of Plan B at every date.
III. The "Exposure Effect"
The "exposure effect" means that we prefer people or scenes that we are familiar with, and the appearance of these things will increase our liking.
The specific application of the "exposure effect" in dating is like this, boys should selectively choose 2-3 addresses when dating, because if the date is only in one scene, the first will produce fatigue, and the second is that it may be awkward because there is no topic to talk about, so it is best to choose a variety of scenes when dating, such as eating and entertainment in each place is a good choice.
Appearing in different scenes will make this girl more fond of you.
Fourth, the small details of dating
When dating is in progress, there are actually still a lot of places to pay attention to, such as dressing, boys should not wear too formal in the choice of dress, of course, unless you want to go to some formal occasions, under normal circumstances, it is better to dress suitably for yourself and be comfortable.
Then there are the precautions during the date, letting the girl get on the car when the car door and head guard and help pull the chair during the meal are more basic. Because it is a first date, so boys should pay attention to things about physical contact, you can have, but try to be less, because unless the girl has a high degree of liking for you, otherwise such contact is easy to be disgusted, so this place should be the focus.
Uncle Epilogue:
There are still many small doorways to dating, but the center is inseparable from making both parties feel relaxed and happy, so when dating, treat it with more normal heart.
People choose the meaning of love from the poet's sentences. But the ultimate meaning of the verse is directed at you. - Tagore, "Gitanjali"
Hopefully, everyone can find their own "verse."