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Sections of this article:
01, parents inadvertently make mistakes
02, there are signs of psychological problems in high school
03, the university took two breaks, and my daughter was very desperate
04. Graduated from college and found a job to recover
05. I want to share my experience with other parents
In 2019, we admitted a college student patient, Xiao Xuan.
While in college, she was diagnosed with depression by the Shanghai Mental Health Center;
Because he is extremely concerned about appearance, he can't help but spend a lot of time on makeup, and is also considered to have obsessive-compulsive symptoms. The counselor she approached said she had "somatic dystrophy," also known as "imaginary ugliness syndrome."
Moreover, after receiving psychoanalytic therapy, she became very hostile to her relatives, smashing things at home and hitting her parents. If she had gone to the doctor in that situation, there was a good chance she would have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder.
When her illness was serious, Xiao Xuan could not go to school at all, she had experienced two suspensions, tried to resume school but failed, the learning disability was very serious, and there were 7 subjects hanging.
Because she has suffered a lot of superimposed psychological trauma, she also has a secondary homosexual psychology.
In short, Xiao Xuan's condition is very complicated, not just depression. After our deep psychological intervention (about 67 hours), she gradually recovered and successfully returned to school, with good grades.
Before New Year's Day this year, Xiao Xuan's mother sent good news, saying that her daughter has successfully graduated from college, the whole person is very independent, mature and rational, not only got a number of job offers, joined the listed company, and the relationship with the current boyfriend is also very stable.
Screenshot of my chat history with XiaoXuan's mother
Seeing that Xiao Xuan's recent situation was so good, I had a feeling like Another life. The contrast between her current state and when she was seriously ill is so strong that it is almost like a change of person. Her mom and dad have also changed a lot!
I was really pleased!
What surprised me even more was that Xiao Xuan's mother was a teacher, and she used her personal experience and the scientific spiritual psychology knowledge she learned to provide psychological counseling to her students and parents, and helped a student diagnosed with depression and suicidal thoughts to enter high school, and her condition improved greatly.
Although she caused a lot of psychological harm to Xiao Xuan in the past, after deep self-reflection, change and improvement, she also transformed into a wise parent and teacher!
Regarding the positive changes and promotion of Xiaoxuan's mother, we will analyze it in depth for the reference of other parents.
Today, we share The self-report article of Xiaoxuan's mother, she reviewed her daughter's illness and recovery experience, reflected on the mistakes she and her husband had made in education, and also provided some tips and suggestions to parents, which is worth parents' deep thinking!
--He Rihui
(The following is a self-report article by Xiao Xuan's mother)
Daughter Xiaoxuan's depression has been recovering for more than 1 year, and looking back on her illness, it is like a nightmare, and it still appears in her mind from time to time, lingering.
My daughter's illness should be said to have some signs in high school.
Xiao Xuan has been a smart, lively and cute little girl since she was a child, but her personality is more sensitive. My lover and I are both teachers, and we have strict requirements for our daughter's learning since childhood. Especially my lover, seeing that her daughter is smart and clever, I want to cultivate her well, and cultivate my daughter's good study habits since elementary school.
At that time, the daughter was very well-behaved, obedient, and serious about learning. Occasionally improper, we also found out immediately, in time to stop.
Her father and I really didn't know how to educate at that time, as long as we thought that the child was not doing well, I couldn't help but preach, and her father couldn't help but scold and insist that the child must do what we thought.
Especially her father, the way of discipline is very rough. When my daughter was 3 or 4 years old, one day her father came home and saw me feeding her again, and she played while eating. Her father yelled angrily, "It's so big!" Let her eat it herself! ”
In fact, her father was yelling at me at that time. But Xiao Xuan was frightened, trembling, and scared.
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Also, when my daughter was in the 5th grade, some of the classmates dressed up beautifully every day, and she was very envious, so she bought a lot of hairpins and hair bands with her pocket money, and also learned to dress up.
Once, when her test scores were a little down, her father scolded her for spending all her time on dressing up and not studying well. He also rolled up the thick newspaper and pumped her hard, screaming viciously as he pumped it. In front of his daughter, he also dumped a whole box of hairpins into the trash.
I felt sorry for my daughter and quietly picked up the hairpin afterwards. But I didn't stop her dad at the time. Every time I tried to stop her, he said I was used to her, and then we would argue as a couple. I had no choice but to make a sound.
These two things, Xiao Xuan remembered very clearly before receiving psychological intervention, especially when her father smoked her, she said it was a "vicious face". And in addition to this, there are many examples of her father's rough education.
My husband and I did this kind of education, and after the child fell ill, we realized that it had caused a lot of harm to the child. At first, the child will resist, but she finds that the more she resists, the more severely she is beaten and scolded by her father, and she slowly obeys.
My daughter said to me after she got sick:
"Mom, at that time, my relatives and your colleagues said that I was very well-behaved, but in fact, underneath my obedience, there was a heart of repression and wanting to resist!"
Unfortunately, we didn't understand the child's heart at that time.
Gradually, the daughter gradually turned our high demands on her into her high requirements for herself, and appeared to pursue perfection. She has always been at the top of the class from elementary school to junior high school, which is our pride, and she herself is more satisfied.
At the time of the first year of high school, there were two schools to choose from. One is our key high school there, and the other is relatively ordinary. Xiao Xuan wanted to go to the back one.
But as parents, we took it for granted that we must be on the key points, signed up without her consent, and also applied for science.
My daughter is actually not good at science and likes liberal arts. But the science of that key school had advantages, and her father and I felt that it was not easy to apply for a major after studying liberal arts, and it was difficult to find a job, so we were good at advocating.
The child knew that the emotions were very intense, but he finally went to the key high school.
Now that I think about it, it is really "empiricism" that harms people, and her father and I should ask for the opinion of the child. If you had read the liberal arts, you might not have been so sick later, and you might not have even gotten sick.
In high school, Xiao Xuan was assigned to the key class of the grade, and the ranking in the class when she entered the class was OK, but then the state became worse and worse. Although she is in the middle and upper reaches of the grade, each mock exam exceeds one line, but because she is in the key class, she ranks in the middle and lower reaches of the class, and the competitive pressure in the class is very large.
She was dissatisfied with her grades and doubted her IQ.
Moreover, just as adolescence was coupled with anxiety, her daughter's face began to have acne, which made her more inferior and felt that she was ugly. Sometimes classmates inadvertently joke that Xiao Xuan how did you grow so many acne, she is very sensitive and traumatized.
She had a very good girlfriend at that time, with good skin and good looks, and she felt that she was not worthy to be the girl's friend, and she was inferior.
In short, in the 3 years of high school, my daughter's mood changed a lot, we thought it was a lot of pressure to study, and we didn't care much, and we thought that it would be good to wait until I was admitted to college.
At that time, Xiao Xuan's relationship with her father was very bad. Her father did not realize that the child had psychological problems at that time, and felt that the child was deliberately stubborn.
In high school, because of a contradiction, he beat his daughter and did not let her go to class. How much does my daughter pay attention to study, she is dying urgently, but her father just refuses to let her go, and must let her explain things clearly. Later, Xiao Xuan was late to the school, and the teacher asked her to stop.
She was very concerned about this matter in her heart. Later, as soon as she saw her father appear, she got annoyed, locked herself in the room, or lost her temper and smashed her father's things. In fact, at that time, I already felt that the way of education was wrong, but her father still did not accept it.
In the second year of high school, Xiao Xuan always stayed up late at night to study, and sometimes she was still studying at 1 or 2 a.m. We were worried, I said you go to sleep, she yelled at me, I just had to leave it alone.
As long as the exam does not meet her self-requirements, her mood fluctuates greatly. She also checked her depression online, did self-tests, and measured mild depression.
Worried, she asked me, "Mom, am I depressed?" ”
I comforted her that it was just too much pressure to study. I told her dad again, and he said.
I really regret that the child already had signs of psychological problems at that time, but we were not conscious, and we always felt that it was better to wait until high school was over.
Fortunately, the daughter is determined and insists on the college entrance examination, although the results are not particularly ideal, but she was also admitted to a school in East China, and the major is management, which she does not particularly like.
When she first entered the university, her daughter was very active, participated in various club activities, was very active, and actively participated in social practice activities outside the school, and had certain achievements.
But slowly, my daughter didn't sleep well, and I guess it was related to acne. As long as there was a little acne on her face, she would cut hard, and when there was a wound, she didn't want to go to class, and then the door of the dormitory refused to come out, thinking that everything was meaningless, and she couldn't be interested in anything.
In the first semester of her freshman year, we took her to the Shanghai Mental Health Center once to see her, diagnosed depression, the doctor prescribed sertraline, and a drug to help sleep. But the daughter felt that the effect of the drug was not significant, and she took it intermittently after returning to school.
In the first semester of her sophomore year, my daughter went to school for a month and couldn't stay. The acne on her face also grew longer and worse, and her daughter felt that she was ugly and could not go out.
She felt that there was nothing to love, and often sent me WeChat to say some negative energy words, saying that she did not want to live. Later, I was afraid to see the WeChat she sent me. Still, she said she was timid, and as far as I know, she didn't really hurt herself.
Later, she really couldn't hold on any longer and took leave to go home. We went to the local mental health center, and the doctor diagnosed it as moderate depression, requiring hospitalization and medication adjustment. There was no way, the daughter had to be admitted to the hospital and went through the suspension procedures.
Looking back now, the hospitalization and the effect of the drug were not satisfactory at that time. At that time, our parents did not know much about this disease, and did not know that this disease was so severe.
During the 1 year of suspension, the daughter stayed at home and rarely went out. Watching movies and TV series every day, doing handicrafts, emotional stability is a lot. Before returning to school, he went to the Shanghai Mental Health Center, where he was diagnosed with mild depression, and the doctor said that he had some obsessive-compulsive symptoms.
We thought that our daughter's illness had improved, and she should be able to go to school normally, but the resumption of school was not smooth, and her daughter still could not keep up, did not want to learn, often skipped class, and could not learn. We later learned that our daughter already had a serious learning disability at this time, but she was actually very miserable.
She also became obsessed with video games, playing "Eat Chicken" and escaping from reality through games. She used to basically not play games. Spending money is also unrestrained, frequently buying clothes and shoes online.
I found a counselor for her in Shanghai, but she said that at first she thought the counselor was right, but then she felt that it was ineffective and did not want to go.
Near the final exam, my daughter collapsed with anxiety, and many subjects were hung up. Later, he had to take a second break from school.
She shut herself in her room, her life and schedule were reversed day and night, she played games when she woke up, sometimes did not eat for several days, hated her parents, resented her parents and caused her to be sick, was very indifferent to her parents, and her behavior and thoughts were a bit extreme.
She was reluctant to go out, felt ugly, and was even more reluctant to see a doctor. We could only rely on her, trying not to clash with her, but we didn't know what to do, the whole family atmosphere was very solemn, and her father and I also complained and quarreled with each other.
That was really the most painful time for our family.
Because my daughter was sick, I joined a lot of family members of people with depression. In 2017, I happened to hear Director He Rihui's lecture on bipolar disorder in a group, and that was the first time I learned about Director He.
At that time, some parents in the group had some doubts about Director He's institution. But we really had no way at that time, the child did not want to go to the hospital to see a doctor, nor did he want to take medicine.
Moreover, the general hospital treatment time is relatively short, sometimes communicate with the doctor for a few minutes, ten minutes, and then do the scale measurement, and then prescribe medicine. It is difficult to tell the child's symptoms and phenomena in such a short period of time, and the doctor understands one-sided things.
Taking the medicine also had a great impact on her daughter, saying that her attention and memory had declined, which further affected her learning and could not solve the problem. Later, she stopped the medicine herself, and it didn't fluctuate much. I also feel that as long as there is nothing that stimulates her, she is still stable even if she does not take medicine.
Of course, this is not to suggest that patients and family members can stop the drug on their own. Xiao Xuan secretly stopped the drug from the doctor and his parents. Generally speaking, it is still necessary to reduce and stop the drug under the guidance of the doctor, and it is most important to be safe.
All in all, we want to go to Director He to try the path of deep psychological intervention. As for the cost, nothing is more important than children, no matter how much money, as long as there is hope, we don't want to give up.
In fact, at the beginning, I didn't have much feeling about Director He's article. But because the child had been counseled for the first time in the hospital, the psychoanalyst told her that her problem stemmed from the harm caused by her parents, especially their "desire to control." Although this caused the child to hate us very much, it also gave us a certain awareness of the psychological trauma of our daughter.
So we carefully read Director He's article, continued to study, and the more we looked at it, the more we felt that his analysis of psychological trauma was reasonable, so we decided to face the doctor.
At first, Xiao Xuan was still unwilling and felt useless. We will talk about going to relatives in Guangdong, traveling and distracting, by the way, take a look, she slowly accepted.
Before getting on the high-speed train, my daughter said, "I wish this train would explode soon!" ”
I was shocked to hear it! She is not hostile to society, she wants to die and can't do it, hoping that when the train explodes, she will die without pain.
I immediately said, "You can't say such things!" ”
She immediately retorted, "Why not! ”
In short, the road is still quite tortuous, and the daughter's state is not ideal. But to our surprise, when Director He and her daughter were interviewed alone, she actually let out a long-lost laugh.
After listening to our and her daughter's story, Director He said that her daughter had a lot of superimposed psychological trauma; if these traumas are not repaired, it is difficult to get better. The daughter also wants to recover deeply, and she is a little moved. She finally agreed to accept the psychological intervention here.
However, in the early stage of psychological intervention, the daughter still did not trust Director He much, and she was reluctant every time she went out. Coupled with the fact that she still had severe appearance anxiety at that time, makeup took a long time, so sometimes she was late. I was very embarrassed, but I didn't dare to persuade my daughter, so I could only be anxious.
Director He carried out many psychological interventions for her daughter, and slowly, her daughter's attitude changed, saying that she liked to chat with Director He.
Soon, the daughter began to receive hypnotherapy treatment from hypnotherapist Lucy. According to the requirements of Director He and Lucy, if the child does not take the initiative to say, I never take the initiative to ask the specific situation of psychological intervention, do not influence her thoughts, and let the child feel and digest on her own.
Since entering the trauma repair phase, I have clearly felt that my child's mood has improved. Director Ho and Lucy eliminated her severe appearance anxiety and began to repair the psychological trauma I had inflicted on her in the past. After that, the tone of her speech to me changed.
She used to be always vicious to me, and when she was not happy, she would come back, and her eyes were also disgusted, saying that she was annoyed when she saw me. There are some things I dare not open my mouth, because as soon as I ask her, she will say something about you!
But after that treatment, she spoke to me in a softer tone, communicated more and more, and sometimes told me about her love affair at the time. You know, in high school, she was very repulsive to the relationship between men and women, saying that she was disgusted when she saw boys, and said that she would not marry in this life and did not want children.
I suppose it may be because her father has caused her a lot of trauma. When she was a freshman, she told me that there were homosexuals in school, and she still thought it was normal. But I really couldn't accept it at the time, and even worried about whether she had that tendency.
All in all, she was much more relaxed with me at that time, and I was really happy!
As for her relationship with her dad, there have been some changes. Her father is very busy at work, and he is afraid of stimulating his daughter, rarely comes to Guangzhou, and does not dare to call her hastily.
In fact, her father was also scolded since he was a child. When he was young, Xiao Xuan's grandmother took a stick and beat him, and when the brothers grew up, they all had a tendency to be violent and disciplined. This is a problem with the family of origin.
The father is now very regretful and feels that the child's opinion should be respected. Although he didn't say much, I knew he had guilt in his heart.
Before he left school last year, his child was in a very bad state and wanted to drop out of school at one point. Her dad said, "If you decide, I'll support it." Before the change, he certainly could not accept it. He also said that he would buy some beautiful cards online to give to his daughter to make up for the mistakes of that year.
During the psychological intervention, one day Xiao Xuan suddenly said, "I don't know what Dad is doing?" ”
I tentatively asked her, "Don't you hate Daddy?" ”
If it had been before, she would have said nasty, said "it's disgusting to see it.". But that day she said, "Not annoying, but not sure what it's like to go home and see him and really get along."
We understand that although her relationship with her parents has eased, it is impossible to change it all at once. We need to be patient and give persistently.
After the daughter finished psychological intervention, she returned home and soon returned to school. At that time, Director He had already used psychological intervention to remove her learning disabilities, and she could read and study. But after returning to school for 2 weeks, she will have to make up the exam, the time is very close, there are many subjects, and she is still very anxious.
According to Director He's suggestion, her father went to the school and communicated a lot with counselors and teachers of various subjects. Her father explained to them the daughter's illness and the mistakes that our parents had made in family education, hoping that the teachers could help as appropriate, and not mistakenly think that the daughter was a bad student who was not self-motivated and had a bad attitude.
It was a tough process, and her dad did a lot of work. But this is also what we parents should do and make up for our children.
After her daughter's own efforts, as well as the understanding and help of teachers, she finally passed the make-up exams in all subjects and gradually returned to the normal learning track.
In fact, after the psychological intervention, Xiao Xuan's recovery was not smooth. Although she is more rational and emotionally stable than before the psychological intervention, she is still prone to emotional fluctuations when she encounters setbacks at the beginning.
For example, she had a fight with her boyfriend at the time, and the two had a fierce fight, and they saw that the state was not good again. Fortunately, Director He and Lucy came to our place on a business trip at that time, gave her emergency psychological intervention, and solved some of her deep psychological problems, and she eased up.
Also, once she was going to take an online exam at home, and the power went out in our precinct here. She was in a hurry, and she said that she was going to smash the exam and couldn't graduate on time.
We comforted her and said that in fact, there was some electricity in the laptop, and her father also went to the hotel to open a room, where there was electricity and internet, and we also called the counselor to explain the situation, and the counselor also understood very well. But she just couldn't listen to it at the time, and she was anxious with us, very irritable.
I knew she must be thinking catastrophically again, but I didn't criticize her and silently caught her tantrum. Later, she did use the remaining power of the laptop to complete the exam, and finally passed, the results are good, she is so happy!
At this time, I took the opportunity to analyze with her, let her realize that she was irrational again, and the bad result would not necessarily happen, she decided, and fell into the catastrophic thinking, "You see, isn't it passed now?" ”
At this point, she could listen. But sometimes, it was useless for me to say it, her mood swings were relatively large, so I asked Director He to give remote psychological guidance, and Xiao Xuan's emotions soon calmed down.
Last June, she successfully graduated. At that time, some of her classmates in her dormitory were graduate students, and some of them got offers from education and training institutions early. At that time, she was still very envious, saying that others had found jobs so quickly, and it was a very popular education industry.
As a result, the work pressure of this classmate is very large, coupled with the landing of the "double reduction" policy, the classmate is unemployed. Xiao Xuan felt very deeply, and she realized even more deeply that the good things and bad things in this world are not so absolute.
In short, after a lot of things, my daughter's heart has become more and more mature and calm. She couldn't meet things before, and when she encountered them, she was anxious, and kept sending me WeChat to complain and worry, and she felt that other people's were good, and her own were unlucky, and it was very easy to drill the horns.
Now she's different.
After Xiao Xuan graduated, she looked for a job in a completely unfamiliar city. I was very worried about her, but I didn't dare to ask, for fear of putting pressure on her. She was actually very anxious, but this time she did not complain to me, but faced it rationally and positively.
As a result, within 10 days, she got 3 offers. She wasn't particularly satisfied, went to a public company again, got an offer again, finalized it, and told me the good news.
I was really relieved that my daughter was finally able to face the difficulties independently and strongly!
Moreover, her emotional aspect has also matured a lot. Her former boyfriend wasn't actually a good fit for her, and her dad and I had already seen it. But we realize that we can't force it, and it's better to let our daughter experience and judge for herself.
Sure enough, as her daughter continued to improve, she also found that she couldn't get along with her ex-boyfriend. She offered to break up, and later met her current boyfriend, the two people are very compatible, and all aspects are also very matched. They work hard in the same city and have a stable relationship.
A few days ago, I also sent my daughter WeChat to ask her about her situation. She said everything was fine and had been working for 4 months. Her job is mainly to communicate with foreign customers, her English is very good, she took the professional level eight in college, so she is fully competent, people are also very diligent, and the supervisor is very satisfied with her.
Now, our family of three has a WeChat group, often speaking in the group, and my daughter will say anything important. Nor will we force her to make any decisions and let her work on and experience on her own.
Last year for my birthday, she bought me a shoulder and neck massager; her dad had a birthday, and she gave me a big red envelope. She treated us as enemies when she was sick, and these things were completely unimaginable!
Looking at the way our daughter is now, we are very content! When she was very ill, I hardly dared to expect anything, and even prepared her mentally for not graduating from college.
Now all this is inseparable from the efforts of Director He and Lucy, of course, and the daughter's own efforts and not giving up!
Finally, I would like to share a few insights along the way, as well as the gains I have gained from my daughter's illness and recovery.
First, educating children is a big project, so parents must educate their children in the right way.
Most of my daughter's trauma comes from my husband and me. My husband used to like to preach and scold, while I liked to nag and complain, so the family atmosphere was always disharmonious, bringing a lot of psychological harm to my daughter.
Now I will reflect on myself, have less negative energy, communicate more, create a harmonious family atmosphere, and provide a loving environment for my daughter.
As parents, we can not only stare at the child's achievements, but also take the time to communicate with the child's heart, accompany the child more, and listen to their own experiences and ideas.
If the parent-child relationship between parents and children is close, and children can feel the attention and understanding of their parents, then the child will at least not be bad, and they will know gratitude and return.
Also, children have their own thoughts, and they have their own lives. As long as they don't do bad things and don't go astray, it's important to give them more time, breadth, and flexibility, to let them experience more, to allow them to trial and error.
My daughter, it was the two of us who tried to arrange her life, and in the end she fell ill.
Second, once the child has a psychological disease, he must carefully choose a psychotherapist.
When my daughter was hospitalized at the local hospital, the psychotherapist used psychoanalysis to analyze the cause of her illness, as well as the school's psychology teacher, who also said that because her parents were always scolding.
The daughter finally came to the conclusion that the disease was because of her parents. She became very hostile and regarded me and her father as enemies.
Moreover, she went to those psychological counseling sessions a few times, and then she didn't want to go. This is equivalent to the wound being opened and spread here without stitching.
After her second suspension from school, she felt a lot of pressure and had an emotional breakdown, smashing all the porcelain her father's treasured collection at home, dumping garbage on our beds, venting hysterically, and smashing things. We knew that she was sick, and we didn't dare to go against her, so we had to endure it, but our hearts were really very uncomfortable.
If it were not for the fact that my daughter had received the trauma repair from Director He and lucy, a hypnotherapist, her relationship with us would have taken a long time to repair.
Therefore, parents and children must be cautious when choosing a psychotherapist. When a child is sick, there must be a major educational responsibility of parents, and parents must deeply reflect on themselves. However, when the psychotherapist guides the child to see this, he should also actively guide the child to repair the relationship with the parents, at least not to aggravate the disease.
Third, after the child gets sick, the parents must change.
Parents should not only change, but also learn more, especially to learn scientific knowledge of spiritual psychology, use scientific methods to educate children, and respect each individual.
Thinking back to when we first knew that our daughter was sick, we were anxious and uneasy every day, and we couldn't control our emotions, so how could we provide a strong support for our children if our parents were so irrational? It will only make the situation worse.
Later, I wrote a diary every day, writing down the opinions of Director He and Lucy. She will seek her daughter's opinion on anything and respect her choice. We have suffered too much loss in this regard.
I myself am a teacher and also educate other people's children. After my daughter's illness, I got much closer to the parents of the students. I will give them some guidance from the general direction and advise them to pay more attention to the psychology of the child.
There was one student among them, which I paid special attention to. She was diagnosed with depression in the second year of junior high school, and she also stayed in our local hospital and took a lot of medicine, but the effect was not good.
Her situation was very similar to that of my daughter at that time, and she also had a very bad relationship with her parents, treating her mother as an enemy. When she was seriously ill, she also lost hope for herself, feeling that she could not enter high school, sleeping in class, very decadent, and in the end the teachers of all subjects ignored her.
The child's mother trusted me and knew that the child liked me more, and she offered to let me make up for the child's lessons. But I found that teaching knowledge at that time was not the most important thing, she couldn't learn it at all, what she needed was psychological care and guidance.
I communicated with her in depth, using the knowledge I learned from Director He to slowly analyze her problems and guide her to strengthen her self-awareness and not fall into disastrous thinking. Her learning foundation is actually good, and people are smart; and even if she didn't get into high school, there are many paths to go, which is not absolute.
I also suggested that her mom change the way she was educated.
Her mother has a very strong personality, divorced her husband in the early years, the pressure is very high, and the expectations and requirements for her daughter are very high. After her daughter fell ill, she was also very wandering and miserable.
I've been through this too, and I'm very understanding of her. I looked at her as if I were seeing myself at that time. So, I felt like I was going to help this kid, just as I was hoping someone would save my kid.
Since the second year of junior high school, I have been constantly doing psychological counseling for this child and helping her to make up for her knowledge points. Gradually, she improved her academic status and was finally admitted to the high school of our school.
Now, the child has taken very little medicine, is in stable condition, and has good grades. Sometimes when I saw her on campus, she would happily come up and talk to me.
I promised her and her mom that I would always follow her in high school and give her support and guidance. They are very grateful to me, and I am very touched and fulfilled in my heart.
Here, I would like to thank Director He for giving us hope in our most desperate time. It is your exquisite technology that has given my daughter a rebirth, let my daughter suffer hardships, and return on a sunny day.
I also hope that my experience and sharing can bring hope to more children and parents, recover as soon as possible, and welcome the sunshine!