Women want to be independent.
Nowadays, many people are preaching such a concept.
That is to say, women are encouraged to be financially independent and know how to rely on themselves, rather than relying on others.
Before getting married, rely on yourself, and after getting married, you must also make good money.
I have to say that there is nothing wrong with making women independent enough, everyone is an independent individual, and they should be responsible for their own lives, and, in addition to themselves, others really may not be very reliable.
It's good to be independent, but that's not to say that every woman has to be that way.
If you don't like the workplace so much and just want to be a housewife and rely more on men, there's nothing wrong with that.
Everyone can have their own way of living.
In life, everyone will face many choices. Like which city to go to, whether it is a big city or a small city, like how to define your life and your own value.
As a woman, for your own life, if you just want to become a strong woman, like that kind of storm, you are particularly powerful, then of course there is nothing wrong.
We can not care so much, we can fight for the sake of our careers, in order to achieve higher achievements.
But if you just like to surround the stove and enjoy the feeling of giving for the family, this is actually very good.
There is never a standard answer in life, and each of us can have our own pursuits and choices. Many times, the key is not what others think, but whether you really like it, and whether you can immerse yourself in it and feel a value.
As long as you truly love it, then what you choose, that's the best.
Every choice, it looks like a very beautiful, very good side, at the same time, it will also be missing, you need to pay a certain price for it, give up some things.
And when you choose the path you like, you don't always have to envy others, always want another life, just follow your own preferences, continue your present, so it is already good.
Housewives are actually a career.
There are always people who think that housewives are raised by the other half, which will seem to have not paid much to the family.
In fact, as we know, as a housewife, it is not easy, even very hard.
If you are working outside, you only need to do one aspect of things well, and you can be lazy, but if you are responsible for the family, you need to be able to cook, clean, take children, help children to do homework, and have a lot of electronic devices.
It can be said that being the master of the house, this career has never been easier than any career.
Think about it, a good nanny, even if it is only a little cooking, cleaning, looking at the children, can have a high income, a housewife value, of course, far better than the nanny a lot.
When you are a full-time housewife, you need to be responsible for your family, but also determine the atmosphere in the home, and bear the growth of the children. Every day, you're going to be very busy, all year round.
In fact, making money is very hard, you need to bear a lot, stay at home, responsible for the family, you are the same.
Too many people do not recognize the value of housewives and think that this is not a contribution, but this has already surpassed too many ordinary jobs, it is a very great thing, and it is a very big project, but too many people do not realize it.
The division of labor is different, and that is also a great contribution.
Home is the home of two people, not a man alone, nor a woman alone.
For men and women, if both people are fighting for a career, just focusing on making money, no one at home to take care of, even if there are good economic conditions, the family is a mess, the children are not growing well, it is useless after all.
For this family, women have responsibilities, and men should also have their own responsibilities.
In this case, each other can be busy with work and take care of the family at the same time, but it is difficult for anyone to take care of such distractions, which will only make the family very fragmented, and each other's careers will always be delayed.
In another case, it can also be a person who specializes in fighting for a good career and takes care of the family alone. When they divide their labor in this way, they are all for this small family, and there is no one who pays more, and whose pay is worthless.
Originally, it was precisely because one person insisted on holding the rear that another person could constantly charge forward without any worries.
Therefore, it seems that each other is only responsible for the family in their own field, in fact, in the same half of what they do, that is the other party's credit, the other party is fulfilling themselves.
In a family, the sacrifices and toils of housewives should be respected and recognized.
A woman can just want to be a housewife.
It's just that the premise must be that it's not because you want to avoid making money, you can really take care of this little family.
In addition, the man you are looking for must also be able to recognize your value, know how to respect you, be willing to spoil you, and will treat the money he earns as yours, let you manage the money, to a certain extent, to dispose of the money at will.
Only in this way, retreating to the family, as a housewife, you can really live happily, not always have endless grievances, and will not always go to see whose face you have no income.
In addition, even if you don't work, you better not let yourself stagnate, and always know how to improve yourself and make progress.
Lest one day there be some situation where the man is no longer your dependent, you can get back on your feet on your own.
After all, the other party may not always love you so much, and may even leave you in the future, and in the future days, there may be accidents, and the other party will no longer be able to take on the heavy responsibility of the family.
Text/Tan Meng
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