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01. Preface
"In a world where there is no perfection," Maugham said, "diligence is rewarded, while idleness is punished." ”
The road of life is an experience, and time always passes quickly, pushing people forward. Living at different ages, there are different situations.
Good times or bad times, experience is wealth.
There will always be problems in life, some people put them on hold, do not have the courage to face it, and do nothing in their lives; some people face difficulties, take difficulties as a ladder to move forward, and finally succeed.
On the road of life, there are some potholes, but they are just a storm.
The road ahead is long, and we shouldn't stop there. Life pushes you into a desperate situation, and what you have to do is desperate. With an attitude of never accepting defeat, we will win the obstacles in life.
The road is underfoot, and no one can sprint forever. When people reach middle age, if they are heavily in debt and want to turn over salted fish, they must do the following three things.
02, learn to spend throttling, control the loss of money
If you are in debt, please control consumption and learn to maximize spending and throttling.
In the TV series "Life Home", Qiu Xiaoxia is a single mother, she raised her daughter Qiu Donna alone to grow up, and how much heartache there is only she knows.
It was hard to wait until my daughter graduated from college and started working, and new difficulties kept coming. First of all, because the rental of housing conflicts with the landlord, resulting in nowhere to live, can only rent another house at a higher price.
Later, Qiu Xiaoxia and Wang Shicheng partnered to open a barbecue restaurant. Because of greed and cheapness, he was cheated of 180,000 yuan to open a store. The life that had just seen the dawn was immediately plunged into darkness again.
Faced with such a dilemma, she can only save money from all aspects of life, control some unnecessary consumption, and let the money be spent on the blade.
The days without money can be said to be difficult to move, life can not be without material foundation, in the fast-paced social background, everyone's life pressure is very large.
Therefore, we must establish a correct view of money and consumption to avoid the meaningless loss of money.
When you are in debt, don't compare yourself with others, and use your vanity to cover up your embarrassing situation, which will only make it more difficult for you to get out of the mud.
Let your rationality overcome desire, set realistic goals, strive to reduce the pressure on your shoulders, and slowly restore your life to its original calm.
03, don't complain, use all your strength to try to make money
In life, the pits you dig yourself need to fill in by yourself.
Being in a difficult situation, complaining and remorse is of little use. Not only can not change the status quo, but will aggravate their inner anxiety, so that the footsteps become heavier.
Try to pick up your mood and adjust your positive mindset. Put all your mind into trying to make money so that every day will not be wasted.
A good life is created on your own, and no one will pay for your mistakes.
Instead of complaining about yourself and complaining about others, it is better to settle down and overcome this difficulty.
There are causes and effects in life, and it is my duty to cause such a result. Neither blame others nor need to crave help from others. Try to make money on your own and change the predicament.
Perhaps, this is an opportunity to reinvent oneself.
The height of life that can be reached lies in your attitude at the low point. Truly falling into the bottom, then every step forward is upward and all towards hope.
04. Study hard and continuously improve professional knowledge
When you're in debt, remember to improve yourself. Only excellent technology is the shortcut to make your salted fish turn over.
Lu Xun said: "Great achievements and hard work are proportional, there is a point of labor and a harvest, accumulated over time, from less to more, miracles may be created." ”
Han Chunming in the TV series "Under the Gate of Zhengyang" started out as a returning young man who could not find a job, wandering around the hutong all day and was not welcomed.
He went to work in a bakery and pulled stones on the construction site, but he didn't do it for long. But he had a brain and a willingness to learn, and soon smelled the business opportunity.
He learned a lot about antiques around his master, supplemented his own knowledge of history, and went to the Southern Market with his friends to investigate.
Taking the opportunity to collect the rags, he found a lot of valuable treasures, and finally let him turn over the salted fish.
Life is a process of living to be old and learning to be old.
Time will not pity anyone, and at the same time will not fail to live up to the efforts of every ordinary person.
Only by continuously learning and refining their own skills and professions can they stand out in the crowd and firmly grasp the opportunity when it comes.
A person's ability and technology are the support for his invincibility. Only a strong self can be afraid of the ups and downs on the road of life.
05. Summary
On the road of life, no matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, please adjust your mentality and work hard to struggle.
Zeng Guofan said: "Strengthen their will, work hard, be diligent, and achieve nothing big or small." ”
Life may not go as smoothly as you might think, but where there is light, there will also be darkness.
Different ages, there will be different pursuits, to middle age, down-to-earth people, diligent and sincere work is the most important.
Life goes on and on and on.
Life is so long, you have to believe in your own ability. In the face of adversity, do not hang your head, but choose to make the greatest effort to break through yourself, so that there are more possibilities to break through the predicament.
On the road of life, ups and downs are the norm.
Wherever you fall, you get up from wherever you fall, and those who can't beat you will eventually make you stronger.
The biggest regret in life is to lose to yourself.
Instead of complaining, change. The harder you work, the luckier you get. Adjust your mindset and it's not too late to leave at this moment.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.