Wen | a century-old character turn
Editor| Centennial Character Turn
Cutting the kidney to save the wife spreads a good story, but now life is very hard,
What are the hidden secrets?
Tan Kejun, who lives in a mountain village in Hunan, is about 50 years old this year.
Now the family is surrounded by walls, and only his daughter, who is only 15 years old, is taking care of him.
Whenever he was asked about his youth, he turned his head in shame.
Why?
Looking at the trance-like Tan Kejun, we can only learn more from his daughter Tan Yaxin.
It turned out that their home was not like this,
Her home is also very warm, and all the changes began 12 years ago.
At that time, Tan Yaxin was only three years old.
Mom's body began to ache inexplicably, and her face became very haggard,
Occasionally, there are cases of fainting, and the body will appear very weak.
Finally, one day, my mother fainted on the ground because of physical discomfort.
The father, who heard the movement, ran into the house and found that his wife had collapsed on the ground.
Looking at this situation, it frightens the family,
At that time, the husband Tan Kejun carried his wife on his back and ran to the clinic.
Also because the medical equipment was rudimentary at that time, there was nothing that could be done about his wife's condition.
It is recommended that they go to the big hospital in the county town to rectify it.
But at that time, the traffic was not particularly developed,
The way to the hospital is also very far away;
And the small two who left their hometown and worked in Changsha did not have any friends.
After a long journey they finally came to the door of the county hospital.
After the doctor's diagnosis, Tan Kejun's wife suffered from very serious uremia,
Because of the long time, the method of controlling treatment with drugs has become powerless,
The best thing to do now is to replace his wife's kidney as soon as possible.
Only then would his life be saved.
However, for Tan Kejun at that time, the cost of treatment was a problem.
Because his wife's parents have long since died, and there are no relatives or friends,
Not to mention finding the kidney source.
At that time, my wife's illness was already very serious, and it was impossible to delay it any longer.
Tan Kejun immediately decided to donate his kidney to save his wife.
Despite the doctor's best efforts, his wife still could not survive.
This made Tan Kejun very sad, and after relatives and friends learned of Tan Kejun's efforts behind his back,
They all changed their opinions about him, although their wives could not save him,
At that time, the act of "cutting his life and cutting his kidney to save his wife" made everyone very admirable.
It was also passed down as a good story by the surrounding crowd.
And Tan Kejun also slowly fell in these words of praise.
In the eyes of others, he is a selfless husband,
But at home, children don't think so.
Because of the death of the mother, the contradiction between father and son is also increasingly proliferated.
The intolerable son dropped out of school at the age of 15 and fled the family.
Since then, there has been no news.
And Tan Kejun's side, because of the side effects of kidney donation,
The condition of the body is also deteriorating, and the physical prostration makes him begin to lose the ability to work,
The departure of his son, coupled with the loss of the ability to work due to kidney donation,
Let this family slowly collapse.
Tan Kejun is getting thinner and thinner, but there are still young daughters to raise,
He wandered around Changsha, doing some light odd jobs.
Maintain a life of upheaval and displacement.
During this period, because of his good story of cutting his kidney to save his wife, he also made a lot of friends.
In their eyes, they think that Tan Kejun is a brother with great affection,
Now that he is weak, he has also received frequent help from friends.
It's 12 years.
Until the time of recent years, because of the aggravation of physical conditions,
Tan Kejun has been ill ever since.
Today, this room of less than 30 square meters has become a harbor for father and daughter to rely on each other.
When the daughter saw her father in such a situation, she also persuaded her father many times,
I hope he can go to the hospital to check his physical condition.
Because her daughter Tan Yaxin is very worried,
Because the daughter has no mother, if the father has any accidents,
She really didn't have any relatives alive.
But despite the daughter's constant urging, his father Tan Kejun refused.
This made her daughter very confused and very helpless.
Looking at the skinny, precarious dad on the bed,
Tan Yaxin always secretly washed her face with tears, but she was very powerless.
What is the thing that makes Tan Kejun resist the hospital examination so much?
Is it because of the death of his wife, or is there another hidden feeling behind it?
Only Tan Kejun knew about it.
Until the reporter learned the news and came to interview,
Tan Yaxin, who could not bear to see her father go on like this, asked the reporter to help herself.
Take your dad to the hospital to check your physical condition.
However, what happened after that made the whole thing smell bad.
What the hell is going on?
After a series of examinations by the doctor,
Exposed a 12-year-long lie by Tan Kejun...
After the doctor's examination, it was found that All of Tan Kejun's organs were intact.
There is no loss,
This left Tan Yaxin overwhelmed for a while.
She explained to the doctor that her father had donated his right kidney to his mother.
This made the doctor laugh,
He said: "At present, both kidneys in your father's body are intact.
It's just that the left kidney has atrophied because of the lesion,
So let the blood circulation in the father's body be obstructed,
As a result, he lacked qi and blood, and only then did he become what he is now,
It's not because of kidney donation."
What the! Both kidneys are there? Why is that?
Tan Kejun, who saw that things had developed to such an extent, finally told the truth.
It turned out that after Tan Kejun's wife was seriously ill,
Treated in the hospital without kidney replacement surgery,
That is to say, Tan Kejun did not donate a kidney to save his wife at all.
Under the repeated questioning of his daughter, Tan Kejun finally revealed his heart,
It turns out that the death of the wife is not what people hear because of uremia,
It was because of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage.
Because of his good face, or his guilt for his wife,
That's why I made up such a lie and deceived myself,
Let yourself be comforted by the guilt of your wife,
Every time I ever thought that it would become the status quo now, I couldn't get it back if I wanted to.
Now Tan Kejun, who has lost his ability to work because of a serious illness,
There is no longer any financial income, and there are no relatives,
The only thing I have is the daughter who is always with me.
But speaking of his daughter, Tan Kejun's face was also full of guilt.
Because of my current situation,
Her own young daughter took on the responsibility of caring for her father early on,
Also because of their physical condition, there is no financial resources,
My daughter also dropped out of school at home after graduating from junior high school.
Also because of herself, my daughter has also been bullied a lot during her schooling.
But there was nothing he could do.
Maybe the lie has lasted too long,
In the face of such a lie, Tan Kejun did not feel much guilt in his heart.
In the face of the reporter, he only said a faint word of apology.
This made the reporter very angry,
First of all, he was most sorry for his wife,
Because he spent 12 years by the lie of donating a kidney for his wife;
The second thing I'm sorry for is their relatives and friends,
Using lies to win their attention and sympathy;
The most sorry thing is his daughter, Tan Yaxin,
Because of his lies, the young Tan Yaxin will bear very accusations from society.
The burdens of life, as well as giving up school,
All this was thought to be a lie by him.
At this time, although Tan Yaxin could not understand why his father did this,
But the father also has his own grievances,
Today's home is in tatters,
With the early death of her mother and the departure of her brother, the only thing that accompanied her since she was a child was her father.
If something happens to my father again,
I really don't know what to do in the future.
Although I like to go to school, compared with dropping out of school,
Now it is his responsibility to take good care of his father.
Looking at Such a sensible Tan Yaxin, the reporter is also unspeakably distressed,
This is also a situation that reality cannot avoid.
If you want to change your current living situation,
Maybe finding a son who has been away from home for many years again may lighten the burden of life now.
In fact, Tan Bin, the son who has been away from home for many years,
Since the death of his mother, he has been wandering around,
I have done a lot of work, and I have suffered a lot,
Until a few years ago, he went to Henan alone,
Started working at a local restaurant and now earns a monthly salary of more than 3,000.
Throw away the cost of living, and save not much money.
After the reporter's efforts in many ways, tan bin who was far away in Henan was finally contacted.
At first Tan Bin said no,
But after watching the repeated persuasion of such a distressed sister and reporters, they finally compromised.
Expressed willingness to go home to take care of his frail father.
After solving the brother's side,
The rest is the problem of Tan Yaxin going to school.
Because I took care of my father at home for too long and missed the registration time too long,
It will take until next year.
But after hearing the reporter's remarks,
Let the principal of this school realize that the life of this little girl in front of her is so hard,
So it was decided to make an exception to admit Tan Yaxin.
But the difficulties of the family, tuition fees have become a major problem at present,
The principal said that it was possible to reduce some of the fees from it.
But there is no way to do this in terms of tuition.
So the soft-hearted reporter paid out of his own pocket for this child who loved to learn,
New doors are opened.
Since then, Tan Yaxin's academic path has entered the right track again,
I hope that she can carry the love of the people in the society and study hard.
In the future, we can make achievements to repay the society and the motherland.
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