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In August 2021, a husband who had cut off his kidneys to save his wife fainted from illness. After his father fell ill, his 15-year-old daughter Tan Yaxin prepared to take her father to the hospital.
But at this time, Tan Kejun refused to go to the hospital. His daughter had no choice but to secretly call an ambulance and forcibly take his father to the doctor.
Tan Yaxin told the doctor at the hospital: "My father once cut his kidney to save my mother, and since then, the root of the disease has existed! ”
The doctor looked at Tan Kejun's body and found a strange thing: the kidney cutting surgery would leave a huge wound. How could Tan Kejun's waist be intact?
Tan Kejun was sweating profusely at this time, and in the face of this situation, he knew that he could no longer hide it, so he told the truth in front of everyone. The truth of the matter made his daughter weep bitterly, and also made him rebel from the crowd!
So what truth did Tan Kejun say? What's happened over the years? What happened to his kidneys?
▲His wife died tragically
Tan Kejun, 52, sat on a hospital bench and looked into the distance, sighing and telling his daughter about the past.
Mr. and Mrs. Tan Kejun are from rural Changsha and have no cultural background. When Tan Kejun was 27 years old, their eldest son, Tan Bin, was born. The couple decided to work in Changsha in order to give their children a better environment to grow up in.
The couple is not literate, so they can only do some hard work on the construction site. Their monthly salary is only 4,000 yuan. Although they are very tired, they can always feel the warmth of home when they return to the house rented in Changsha.
building site
Thanks to the couple's efforts, the eldest son thrived and the living conditions continued to improve. At this time, Tan Kejun and his wife planned to have a second child, their youngest daughter Tan Yaxin.
Daughter of Tan Kejun
But fate soon dealt a heavy blow to the family! Tan Kejun's wife was ill.
Tan Kejun's wife has been in poor health, and the heavy physical labor on the construction site has increased her burden. At the time, her wife worked on the construction site during the day and took care of the children when she returned home at night.
At first, the wife would feel that her head was often sore, and her limbs would be numb from time to time, but she felt that it might just be tired, so she insisted on clenching her teeth.
Tan Kejun is also a rough personality, the details can not be paid attention to, when he knows that his wife is unwell, Tan Kejun is only perfunctory, his wife repeatedly proposed to go to the hospital, and finally failed to go.
As a result, the best treatment period was delayed, and his wife finally persevered in 2009!
hospital
On the same day, his wife and Tan Kejun were working on the construction site, and when Tan Kejun just wanted to be lazy and smoke, the surrounding workers ran up to him and told him: "Tan Kejun, your daughter-in-law fainted on the ground!" ”
Tan Kejun was still a little confused, and looked at it half-believingly, only to find that his wife had really fainted and fell to the ground. Tan Kejun quickly dialed 120 to take his wife to the hospital.
At that time, Tan Kejun's two children were still young and had to go to school. After their mother fell ill, they only went to the hospital a few times. Tan Kejun also said to the children: "Don't worry, your mother is very good!" "But the test results are not so optimistic, it is a cerebral hemorrhage, has been terminally ill."
Tan Kejun sat next to his wife and cried! His wife was a poor man. Her parents died early, she had no relatives, and after so many years of marriage with Tan Kejun, she looked like she was going to live a good life, but she fell down again.
His wife eventually died.
That night, Tan Kejun sat in front of his wife's bed and stayed up all night!
In order to cure his wife, Tan Kejun took out all the family's savings and asked the doctor to treat his wife's illness. Originally, the couple had planned to buy a house in Changsha. Now this wish has been wiped out because of this sudden illness!
Tan Kejun went to the doctor many times, but the doctor could only sigh helplessly. He said: "Your wife, the development of the disease is too serious, there should have been symptoms before, why don't you come and see it earlier?" At this stage, there is nothing we can do! ”
Listening to the doctor's words, Tan Kejun regretted it very much! If I had taken my wife to the hospital earlier for a full body examination, I wouldn't have developed this point!
Soon, my wife, who had been lying in the hospital for more than ten days, died! Tan Kejun began to decadent after his wife's funeral!
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Without the supervision of his wife, Tan Kejun began to indulge himself. He no longer restrains himself and drinks all day!
Maybe it was the huge impact of his wife's death, or maybe it was Tan Kejun's original preference for drinking. Since then, he has become a veritable alcoholic.
Tan Kejun's relatives and friends felt that his wife had died, which made the man very sad, so they went to his house to persuade him.
Once, Tan Kejun was drinking with a friend, and the friend said, "Old Tan! People always have to look ahead. You can't always drink like this, how can you be worthy of a dead wife like this! ”
Tan Kejun suddenly had a hot head and said, "How can I be sorry for her?" To save her, I cut a kidney! ”
After his wife's death, Tan Kejun never mentioned to anyone how his wife died, so his friends believed it, so he praised: "Old Tan, you are a good person!" I'm going to tell others your story and let them learn from you! ”
After the end of the liquor bureau, the news that Tan Kejun cut his kidney to save his wife spread. When the workers heard about it, they all thought that Tan Kejun was a good man and could understand why he drank every day!
After all, he couldn't save his wife by cutting off his kidneys. This is hard for anyone to accept! After the foreman knew, he also deliberately did not arrange heavy work for him, and gave him an additional salary of two or three hundred yuan.
The story spread more and more widely. Tan Kejun's relatives will also give him more help after hearing about it. Neighbors also looked at the nice guy with admiration, praising him as a "model husband."
In the face of such praise, Tan Kejun was even a little complacent. Since then, he has often taken pride in telling others about it, even his children.
Break up with your son
As a model husband, Tan Kejun began to lose himself. He even deceived himself into thinking that his wife had died of kidney disease, and in order to save her, he cut his own kidney.
But many of the bad habits his wife had contracted after her death could never be changed again! Tan Kejun was not only an alcoholic, but also addicted to gambling. Tan Kejun gambled when he took the money and stopped thinking about his children.
Tan Kejun in the casino is really "full of spirits". Whenever he walked to the gambling table, he would forget himself, and when he won the money, he would close his mouth and laugh!
People who gamble with Tan Kejun are also curious: people with kidney cuts are usually weak and need to rest, which is reasonable. Why is Tan Kejun so energetic? Is his body stronger than others?
Whenever someone asked a question, Tan Kejun would say, "Because I am a model husband!" You are jealous of me! ”
In fact, Tan Kejun's health is not very good, he suffers from severe anemia.
Because of the anemia, Tan Kejun has to go to the hospital several times a year for treatment. Curiously, Tan Kejun has not been to the hospital since his wife's death, and even if he has anemia, he will grit his teeth.
Tan refused to go to the hospital
Son Tan Bin and daughter Tan Yaxin both think that their father has left a shadow in the hospital because of the death of his mother, in fact, Tan Kejun is afraid that the lie of his kidney donation will be exposed by others!
In the blink of an eye, Tan Bin is 15 years old. He was also an indomitable man, because his father had been drinking and gambling all these years, and the family had borne a huge financial burden.
Tan Bin decided to drop out of school to work and earn money to support his family to support his family. Due to his small age and low education, Tan Bin can only work as a waiter and other work, and his monthly salary is also very small.
Tan Bin would pack his father's clothes to take care of him, and also persuaded his father not to drink again. However, Tan Kejun has never changed. Instead, he beat and scolded his son. What Tan Kejun did was chilling!
Since then, there has been constant friction between Tan Bin and his father, and the gap between father and son has also opened up, and they no longer speak to each other.
Let the father and son completely break up, but also start from a gamble. Tan Bin's monthly salary as a waiter is only 1500 yuan, and it is difficult enough to take care of the living expenses of these three people.
But after Tan came out of the casino that day, he lost his last salary. There were other women in the casino at that time, which made Tan Kejun feel very shameless, so he went home and stole Tan Bin's just paid salary and continued to gamble.
After Tan Bin returned home, he found that his salary was missing, and he thought that his family had been robbed! As a result, the father returned home at night and learned the truth.
Tan did not admit at first that he had taken the money. When he heard that his son wanted to call the police, he panicked and said that he had done it himself. Tan Bin heard that his father had taken the money to gamble again, and the other women were also present!
Talk to your son
Finally, I had a big fight with my father.
The long-standing contradiction between father and son broke out completely at this moment! Tan Kejun slapped his son!!
Tan Bin already knew that the model husband was fake. He couldn't stand such an alcoholic and gambling father. That night, he packed up his things and ran away from home, and he never came back.
As soon as Tan Bin left, Tan Kejun calmed down and regretted it, but now that he regrets it, what can he do?
Tan Bin stopped gambling and chose to drink all day. After drinking for a long time, his hands became disobedient and trembled.
At first, the contractor foreman thought it was very touching that he had cut his kidney to save his wife, and arranged a casual job for him. But now Tan Kejun drank all day and couldn't even work. How could he feed a lazy man on a construction site?
After losing his job, Tan Kejun lived in poverty and relied on his five-year-old daughter Tan Yaxin. In order to make a living, Tan Kejun returned to his hometown and could only sell vegetables in the market and do some small business to support his family.
Daughter Tan Yaxin knows that life at home is difficult, but she never complains. At the time, she was very young and didn't know much about her father's behavior.
Tan Yaxin sometimes asked her father for details of her mother's death. However, Tan Kejun is always vague, hidden, and very unnatural.
Tan Yaxin thinks that her father likes to drink, but she also sees that his father also goes out to work during the day and can understand his father.
But all this is based on the lie that Tan Kejun cut his kidney in order to save his wife. However, the truth will one day be revealed.
▲ After the lie is exposed
In July 2021, Tan Kejun suddenly fell ill, frightening his daughter!
Her daughter was 15 years old at the time. She had just graduated from junior high school and was about to report to the municipal school on July 26, but her father's illness delayed her schooling.
The daughter felt that her father's body was the most important, so she took her father to the hospital, but Tan Kejun did not want to go, which surprised her daughter.
Tan Yaxin had to take care of her father lying in bed, bringing tea to his father every day. However, Tan Kejun was skinny and could only eat a few bites.
Tan Yaxin saw his father's physical condition, so he found a volunteer at the street office and asked him to persuade his father to see a doctor for diagnosis.
Tan Kejun's neighbor
Street volunteers also know the story of Tan Kejun cutting his kidney in order to save his wife, and they also know that Tan Kejun is an alcoholic, but his life is greater than the sky. Moreover, Tan Kejun's early story is very touching, and the volunteers came to Tan Kejun's home without saying a word to check it out.
At that time, the volunteers discovered a strange thing: How could a person who cut his kidney not have a wound?
At that time, the volunteers did not say much, so after getting Tan Yaxin's consent, they called an ambulance and took Tan Kejun to the hospital.
Along the way, Tan Kejun began to panic, and a cold sweat appeared on his head: Can't I hide this lie today?
Tan Kejun did not cooperate with the examination many times in the hospital, and the community volunteers also felt strange. Doesn't look like a patient.
Tan Yaxin deliberately went to the doctor who treated the kidney and said to the doctor: "My father cut his kidney, this may be related to this!" ”
Hearing this, the doctor looked at Tan Yaxin with a puzzled face and said, "Impossible! Examination images show that your father's left kidney is atrophied and your right kidney is intact! ”
Tan Ya Hin
TanYaxin was a little confused, so she went out and asked her father what was going on. Only then did Tan Kejun tell the truth of the matter and uncover a lie that had been hidden for 12 years!
Tan Kejun hoped that his lies would come true, but he couldn't. His wife died of cerebral hemorrhage, which had nothing to do with her kidneys! The son was driven away by himself. It's his father's fault that the family has come to this day!
After Tan Kejun said all this, he seemed relieved. He had no expression and no sense of guilt.
But the impact he had on Tan Ya Hin's mind was undoubtedly enormous! Father made up lies for 12 years and was revealed on this day!
Tan Kejun told the truth
The doctor was there. Listening to the story, he could only shake his head reluctantly, and the community volunteers could not believe it. The story of cutting a kidney to save his wife has been circulating for so many years, which is actually a scam!
For Tan Kejun, the volunteers just looked down on him! Can you see Tan Ya Hin's sadness and sadness!
Soon, Tan Yaxin also accepted the fact that cutting her kidney to save her wife was a lie. No matter what she said, Tan Kejun was also her father. If his father is sick, he deserves treatment!
After several days of hospitalization, Tan Kejun recovered and returned home.
Although Tan Kejun's illness was cured, he also lost the ability to work. The community volunteers, as if they were invisible, called Tan Kejun's relatives. However, the attitude of relatives is also very cold.
The Tank army rebelled
The relative said on the phone: "He has no conscience. His wife's death was a hoax. He had only been drinking for so many years. He deserves it today, he has bad character.
Tan Kejun was lying on the bed at home, afraid to go out to see people. He just looked at the pictures taken by the whole family and fell into deep thought.
The most pitiful was Tan Ya Hin. She missed school because she was taking care of her father. There is no school to enroll her now, and on the other hand, no one in Tanyaxin's family can work. Her source of income was cut off. Where should she go?
Fortunately, an enthusiastic journalist heard about it. By all means, the reporter finally contacted Tan Bin, who had been away from home for more than ten years.
Talk to Tan Kejun's son
Tan Bin has been working in Henan for all these years. When he ran away from home, he just wanted to stay away from his family. At present, he works as a waiter in a hotel in Henan, with only 3,000 yuan per month.
After learning about his father's experience, Tan Bin still did not calm down. He told reporters in detail about the unreliable things his father had done.
However, Tan Yaxin is his own sister after all. When he saw her, he also said that for her sake, he would go back to Changsha to find a job, at least let her go to school!
Tan Yaxin has a video call with her brother
On the phone, TanYaxin cried and said to her brother. Siblings who haven't seen each other in years are reunited via video call!
Careful reporters also found on the same day that although Tan Kejun did not cry, when he lay alone in bed, he cried silently!!
I don't know how Tan Kejun will feel at this moment? What is regret? Or self-blame? Or is it the memory of his dead wife? Maybe only he knew.
After contacting Tan Bin, the reporter helped Tan Yaxin's school, hoping that the school could understand the special situation of her family.
After learning of this, the school said that it could let Tan Yaxin come to the school and exempt her from all future tuition and miscellaneous fees, but it could not exempt her from living expenses of 2700 yuan.
Looking at Tan Yaxin's suffering, the reporter also expressed sympathy, so he decisively took out the money and let Tan Yaxin pay back this money after he came out in the future!
Reporters help Tan Yaxin
In fact, journalists don't really want money. They just didn't want Tanya Hin to repeat her father's mistake! Let TanYaxin smile at life and work hard!
After paying the fee, the school issued an admission letter. Tan Yasin, who was informed, was like getting a treasure. When he got home, he couldn't wait to show it to his father. Tan Kejun was lying on the bed in the room. He took his daughter's admission letter and fell back into contemplation.