Instead of lowering the standard of courtship to live a good life, it is better to be arrogantly single...
Story Provider: Lulu
Lulu, 35 years old, unmarried, a girl born in the family of Scholars, is also a bully girl who likes to compete for the first place in everything.
She has been busy studying and studying for graduate school, and she has never been in love. It's not that she doesn't want to talk about it, it's that the boys she likes don't like her, the boys who chase her, she doesn't like it.
When it is difficult to meet a mutually pleasing object, her parents will object because the door is not right.
In this way, she was left unknowingly.
Her family had an unwritten house rule that the big ones couldn't get married before they got married.
She is the eldest daughter in the family, her marriage is not settled, then her sister under her does not want to get married.
Her 33-year-old sister was already impatient and wanted Lulu to marry out quickly. Because she and her boyfriend have been in love for 5 years, the man's family wants them to get married and have children quickly.
In fact, Lulu is also very anxious, she feels that her requirements are not high.
She only hopes that the other party has a high education and a higher income than her, has a handsome appearance and a polite temperament, has an easy-going personality and rich connotations... nothing more!
However, she felt that her requirements were very low, but after casting a wide net, she not only did not meet a crush, but also did not even meet an object who was willing to look at her everywhere.
She hadn't been able to understand why?
It wasn't until she met a few of her married classmates at the university when she was visiting the mall once, and everyone sat together to talk about marriage, that she realized it after listening.
It turns out that in today's unmarried circles, most of the high-income men want to find women with higher incomes than them, even if they are older.
If the income is lower than theirs, then settle for a second place and find a young, beautiful and obedient woman.
Lulu suddenly woke up: I was left behind, not because I was not good enough, but because I was just as good as I was, and the man who met my marriage requirements did not want to be paired with me. Because they have capital, they naturally have higher pursuits.
When Lulu's classmates listened to her awakening speech, they advised her to be realistic: today's unmarried older women, saying that the good point is excellent, can not find a good match. To be realistic, it is that the vision is high and too picky.
"You have always wanted to find rich and handsome, but the real rich and handsome are surrounded by beautiful women, young and beautiful, where will he look at more than 30+ women." 」
"Moreover, while you require the other party to be rich and handsome, you also need people to be mature and stable, have a good temperament, and have no bad habits... Where in the world is there such a perfect man? ”
"It's not so much that you're looking for a husband, it's that you're looking for a male protagonist in a novel."
"Lulu, it's time for you to lower your standards, women's youth can't afford to be consumed."
...... Listening to your classmates' words, Lulu was a little shaken.
But I can think that her husband is a lifetime, and she can't find one for the sake of making up. Marriages that cannot be consensual, and if they are married, they will not be happy, so why gamble with their whole lives.
Since this is the case, it is not as good as being arrogantly single.
She has always believed that she can find her ideal partner.