Under the thousand-year feudal rule of ancient China, people's idea of preferring sons to daughters has always been very serious, and even in the Qing Dynasty, some people put forward the fallacy that "women without talent is morality", although some people did not recognize it in the early days, but over time, even women also think so, it can be said that such remarks have been successfully brainwashed. Especially the woman who entered the palace, the status is extremely low, and it is strange that the Kangxi Emperor, as an emperor of the ancient world, respected a maid very much, and even buried her after her death, but after the excavation of the maid's tomb by modern archaeologists, he directly called Kangxi a liar.
Who was the maid whom this rumor made Kangxi respect? She is Su Ma Lagu, born in a poor herdsman family, but he did not meet the fate of the arrangement, has been very hard to study, and finally was selected by the Horqin Belle House to be Empress Xiaozhuang Wen's personal maid, good at learning she is in Xiaozhuang to learn a lot of human ability, especially in handling palace fights is very handy, so she is deeply valued by Empress Xiaozhuang, and therefore let her get close to Kangxi.
Because of Su Ma Lagu's outstanding knowledge and sophistication in the world, Xiaozhuang was assured to entrust the emperor's grandson Kangxi to her care, and she did not live up to the heavy responsibility, took care of Kangxi meticulously, and gave Kangxi the correct educational guidance, it can be said that Kangxi's later success has a lot to do with Su Ma Lagu's education. At that time, the Qing Dynasty royal family was deeply influenced by Su Ma Lama, and he gave Su Ma Lama a high evaluation, that is, "My aunt raised me since childhood, and I failed to repay it, so I am willing to live for a few days, provide food within a hundred days, and recite the sutra on three or seven days."
Kangxi and Su Ma Lama have been with him since childhood, the two can be described as deeply in love, and after Kangxi came to power, Su Ma Lama also helped deal with many difficult things, it can be said that with Su Ma Lagu, Kangxi's life is more comfortable, so Kangxi respects her very much, and everyone in the palace knows about this. Therefore, after the death of Su Ma Lagu, Kangxi was sad to hold a grand funeral for her, and also let her be buried as a concubine next to Empress Xiaozhuang, because the funeral form was extravagant, so posterity has always thought that the funeral is very rich.
The matter of Kangxi's generous burial for Su Ma Lama has become a folk story, and the world says that Kangxi is serious about love and righteousness, but unfortunately, when the world is singing his praise, a dramatic thing happened. Considering the grand scale of the tomb of Su Ma Lagu, worried about the memory of tomb robbers, experts are ready to excavate it, but when the tomb is opened, it makes the experts stunned, under the seemingly magnificent tomb, the tomb chamber is very simple, the tomb wall is rough without murals, the tomb passage is even darker and narrower, people can not walk upright inside, and there is no funerary product in the tomb, only an urn placed in the jar.
After seeing the tragic scene in the tomb of Su Ma Lagu, experts all sighed that they were deceived, and Kangxi did all face kung fu, so that posterity felt that he had deep feelings for Su Ma Lagu, so that posterity was touched by his feelings, but he did not know that what he did was a face project. In fact, if you think about the society at that time when men were superior to women, how could Kangxi really put down the concept of hierarchy, even if Su Ma Lagu had contributed to the Qing Dynasty, he could not have the same status as the imperial relatives and state relatives.