Strange things happened at the wedding of old Jiang, which was called "a bad omen" by everyone, and it has indeed been fulfilled over the years
Chiang Kai-shek had a wife before he met Soong Mei-ling, more than one, and the position of the right wife was occupied by Mao Fumei. After meeting Soong Meiling, Chiang Kai-shek instantly smelled the taste of military power and political power, so he tried every means to build a relationship with Soong Meiling.
But Song Meiling is not like an ordinary woman, she herself has received a good education, zhishu Dali is also full of wisdom, and more importantly, Song Meiling's family believes in Christianity and advocates Western monogamy. Therefore, if Chiang Kai-shek wants to be with Soong Meiling, he must break off relations with his wives in front of him.
In order to marry Soong Mei-ling as soon as possible, Chiang Kai-shek first coaxed and deceived Chen Jieru to study abroad, and after sending her to the plane, he immediately published a newspaper clarifying that he had nothing to do with Chen Jieru, and mao Fumei was left.
I think that back then, chiang kai-shek, in order to please Chen Jieru, swore that "he has nothing to do with Mao Fumei anymore", but he did not expect that this sentence would be transferred to Chen Jieru so quickly.
From falling in love to staying together to being forced to separate, Chen Jieru only experienced the sweet life of seven years, and then repeated the old mistakes of Mao Fumei.
Chiang Kai-shek took a lot of thought in order to draw a clear relationship with Mao Fumei, because the first time, Mao Fumei refused to compromise, and this time it was even more difficult. After thinking about it, Chiang Kai-shek decided to start work from Mao Fumei's mother's house.
Chiang Kai-shek said to the Mao family: 'We have to get a divorce, because as soon as I see her, I have a headache, and she will lose control of my emotions when she sees me, and we can't go on.' ''
A sentence of ''We can't get by'' can abandon the wife who has been married for many years, and a sentence of ''I have a headache as soon as I see her'' can throw away the wife who gave birth to a son for herself? Of course not!
The Mao family here is delaying, there are still many people pursuing soong Meiling,and Chiang Kai-shek is anxious.
Therefore, he wrote to the county magistrate of Fenghua County this time and directly applied for divorce from the government of his hometown. Not only that, Chiang Kai-shek even rushed back to his hometown and pulled out more than twenty reasons for their discord after marriage, hoping to use this to pressure Mao Fumei, but Mao Fumei was just a sentence: ''I swear to die and not move out of the old house of the Chiang family'"
Seeing that Mao Fumei's attitude was so resolute, Chiang Kai-shek was in a bit of a mess for a while, and he was very worried that all the plans he had made before would be in vain. Just when he was chafing, Chiang Kai-shek suddenly thought of a person, his cousin "Sun Qinfeng", who had a pivotal position in both the Chiang family and the Mao family, and asked him to persuade Mao Fumei that he would succeed.
Soon after, Sun Qinfeng came to Mao Fumei's residence and listened carefully to the abandoned woman's complaints.
After pouring out some bitter water, Sun Qinfeng roughly knew Mao Fumei's thoughts. She did not want a divorce, not because she wanted Chiang Kai-shek to change his mind, nor did she want Chiang Kai-shek to fulfill any obligations.
What Mao Fumei really can't let go of is her son ''Chiang Ching-kuo'', Mao Fumei is a traditional feudal woman, deeply disturbed by the idea of ''concubinage and inferiority', she is worried that after she agrees to divorce, Chiang Ching-kuo will no longer be an authentic concubine and will lose everything in the Jiang family.
After Sun Qinfeng learned of all this, he set a rule for the two of them: "Divorce does not leave home": Mao Fumei agreed to divorce, but she is still the owner of the old house, and Jiang Chingguo is still the concubine of the Jiang family.
After accepting all this, the stone in Mao Fumei's heart finally landed, and she knew that even without Song Meiling, Chiang Kai-shek's heart would not be here with her, and there was no feeling at all between the two of them, but it was a tragedy under the feudal arranged marriage.
The reason why she is so determined about divorce is entirely out of consideration for Chiang Ching-kuo, what mother does not want her child to have a good way out? Although the son's status was laid, he became half of the Jiang family.
Looking at all this, Mao Fumei's thoughts couldn't help but fly back to when they were married, and the incident that happened that year seemed to have already set the end of the future. I remember that in 1901, 19-year-old Mao Fumei and 14-year-old Chiang Kai-shek were married. Mao Fumei sat in a palanquin waiting for the groom's official to come and pick her up, and she waited left and right, but she did not wait. It turned out that the hairy groom officer did not come to pick her up, but went to grab the firecracker head with a group of children.
It is very ridiculous, on the day of the wedding, the groom official did not come to pick up his wife, but competed with a group of children for the head. The laughter of the people around her reached Mao Fumei's ears, and she cried red-eyed, and pretended to be calm, but then she heard someone outside saying: 'This is a big murder, a fierce omen, a fierce omen.'"
At that time, there was a saying: "The bridegroom picks up the head, the marriage does not have the head", and this is the beginning of the sentence being pronounced to death?
As a result, that night, this sentence was half fulfilled.
On the night of the wedding, the groom actually left his wife and slept with his mother, while Mao Fumei had to stay alone in the empty room until dawn. Later, at the request of Mother Jiang, Chiang Kai-shek and Mao Fumei rounded the house.
In the next few years, those words came true one after another, and Chiang Kai-shek had other women outside, and he didn't have this home in his heart. No matter how hard Mao Fumei tried, Chiang Kai-shek never looked at her much, and until now, he finally couldn't wait to ask for a divorce.
Mao Fumei finally understood that if the two did not have love, even if they made more efforts, it would only be in vain. Love has always been mutually giving, unilateral giving has never been rewarded, his heart has never been in her place, and he can't see no matter how much she pays. Mao Fumei was dead hearted this time, and his heart was completely cold.
But what is surprising is that after the two announced their divorce, Mao Fumei has logically become an abandoned wife, but her status in the old mansion has not been seen at all, and even more respected by everyone.
This is inseparable from her usual leniency and courtesy, when Chiang Kai-shek struggled to climb up, Mao Fumei has been doing good deeds, taking the initiative to fund the local people, building roads for the people, distributing grain, and being deeply loved by the people.
People often say: 'Behind a successful man, there must be a woman who pays silently',' and Mao Fumei is such a woman. What is even more rare and valuable is that even after the divorce of the two, Mao Fumei still did not have a trace of complaint in the face of the lace news of Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Mei-ling. She is still single-mindedly good-hearted and faces the Jiang family with the greatest kindness, because she knows how to let go of herself, and only by letting go of herself can she live freely.
Compared with the depression before divorce, Mao Fumei after divorce is the winner in life. Even if you don't have a husband, what's the big deal? With sons filial piety, children and grandchildren, and the respect of the world, it is enough to have these!