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"Raising boys poorly and raising girls richly" has always been the consensus of parents, and we always feel that if a girl is rich in both material and spiritual, she will not be lured by some material interests, and she will not be easily "deceived" by people with some small favors in the future.
But with the changes in today's social situation, the guidelines for raising girls also need to be changed, otherwise it is really a pit baby who does not know it.
What kind of social situation is it today?
If you pay attention to social news, you will find that the environment in which women have been living in these years is not very peaceful.
The park morning run, the pregnant woman's Thai cliff fall, and most recently, the two children's fall from the building.
Some people will say that it is the child who fell from the building, and it is the father who started it, how can it be related to how to raise a daughter?
I'm talking about a mom who lost two kids.
In an in-depth interview with the media, the mother's original family was like this: her parents retired from decent work, although not rich but also substantial, as the only daughter of the parents, she grew up smoothly in pampering.
Such a daughter was targeted by the selfish and cold Zhang Bo. He pursues madly, not because of love, but because he values the identity of the other party's well-off urban family and wants to use this as a springboard.
When Zhang Bo met the more valuable Ye Chengchen, his wife became an obstacle to his class jump, along with his two children.
Having been raised by the rich, she had never experienced the sinister baptism of the world, how could she expect her husband's sinister schemes?
It can be seen that it is no longer rich to raise girls, and it is the right way to raise girls to be bold and knowledgeable, wise and courageous, and to be rough and tolerant of setbacks.
◆ The trend of raising girls is changing
Fortunately, many parents no longer simply pursue "rich daughters".
I want to give my daughter a dance class, after asking the parents of the community, I found that although many parents have reported dance classes to their babies, they are also reporting taekwondo and basketball, and some plan to report to their daughters after they are older.
It can be seen that a strong physique is not only something that boys need to pay attention to, but also parents who have daughters at home.
After all, with a good body, there is a stronger ability to protect yourself.
In addition, many parents have begun to deliberately "shatter" their daughter's princess dreams.
Little girls will like some princess fairy tales, beautiful princesses are carefree in the forest, after encountering bad people, there will be a prince to come to the rescue, and then the two live happily together. They watch princess cartoons, buy princess clothes, and fantasize that they are the beautiful and lovely princess.
But such a princess is beautiful, but there is no self-preservation ability, is such a story really good for the psychological development of girls?
A friend of mine began to guide her daughter to wake up from a princess dream and see how women in the real world were living.
Because her daughter likes princesses, she has found a lot of historical materials to see the lives of ancient princesses, talk about Wang Zhaojun, talk about Mulan, and then talk about new women.
She told her daughter that people's happiness should be in their own hands, and don't wait for others to help you save you. In reality, where there is a Prince Charming, the happiness of the princess still depends on herself to fight.
Arm the daughter physically and mentally, so that the daughter understands the meaning of self-improvement and independence. Teaching her daughter enough knowledge of safety and self-protection, telling her the skills and skills of knowing people, this is the right way to adopt a daughter.
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