As the saying goes, "Don't be afraid of the real villain, only the hypocrite"
At a glance, we can see that people with good character are actually not terrible, because through short-term contact, we can know whether the other party is good or evil, and when we meet again, we will naturally have a defensive heart.
On the contrary, those who often disguise themselves and never reveal their true appearance are the most dangerous, and under their "hypocritical" appearance, there is a frightening evil lurking, and we may be harmed by it if we are not careful, and we cannot prevent it if we want to prevent it.
However, we don't have to be too jealous of them in life and let ourselves live with trembling. After all, "the country is easy to change, the temperament is difficult to move", no matter how much a person hides his true character, we can still find their nature through many details observation.
Just like there are these three kinds of people in reality, they seem to be "harmless to humans and animals", but they actually have ulterior motives, once encountered, I suggest that you better stay away immediately, but don't expect you to be able to influence them.
In real life, there is such a kind of person, they like to talk about it, open their mouths and close their mouths is benevolent morality, and they look like a "gentleman's posture" in front of outsiders.
However, when you are completely impressed by the "personality charm" of the other party and begin to go deep into the other person's life, you will find that these people are only superficially noble, but in fact, they are doing all kinds of things behind their backs.
The "Friendship of Panga", which once aroused heated discussion among netizens, is a typical case. An old artist openly stood up to criticize the behavior of late life live broadcasting with goods, and even righteously warned the other party that "the water of the network is very deep, you can't grasp it."
The late student was deeply ashamed and heeded the advice of his predecessors. But it wasn't long before he found that the senior who had persuaded him had actually slipped into the ranks of live streaming with goods.
After the fermentation of this incident, people's impression of this old artist is getting worse and worse, so that many netizens have publicly accused this old artist, saying that he is "morally upright" and "disrespectful for the old", which seems to be standing on the identity of the predecessor to educate the younger generation, but in fact, he is pregnant with a ghost fetus and wants to monopolize his own interests.
Through this case, it is not difficult for us to know that it is difficult for people to distinguish between the taoists in the early days. Because their superficial skills are very good, it is difficult to see the true appearance of the other party before we have deeply understood each other, let alone what the real intention of the other party is.
If you are confused, you are easily confused by the illusion created by the other party, and you can only be foolishly led by the nose of the other party afterwards, only when they are exposed in their original form will you realize that you have been fooled by the other party.
Therefore, there is an old saying that goes: "It is difficult to draw a dragon and a tiger to draw a bone, and it is difficult to know the face of the person and not the heart." "Looking at people cannot look at the surface, but through the layers of appearances to analyze the deepest essence of the other party."
People who are really worth interacting with in life, who have professional ethics and have a long-term moral integrity, their adherence to the bottom line is self-evident, such people do not have to deliberately express themselves, and people can always see the difference in them.
Their noble moral qualities can be perfectly reflected in every bit of life, so people will respect them from the bottom of their hearts.
On the other hand, those who are morally upright are sinister and changeable, and the best means is to do a good job of superficial articles, and like to add drama to their own benevolence and morality. People like this who are inconsistent in appearance, when encountered, they should try to stay away as much as possible, and remember not to make deep friends.
In this world, there are some people who like to chew their tongues and play conspiracies behind others' backs, and what they like to do most is to slander others, create rumors, disregard the feelings of others for their own selfish interests, arbitrarily move right and wrong, and slander the reputation of others.
Historically, without the support of Zeng Guofan and Zuo Zongtang, the Qing Dynasty would probably perish prematurely. However, compared with Zeng Guofan, Zuo Zongtang's later life was not satisfactory. All because he had offended one of Cixi's eunuchs, Li Lianying.
In the sixth year of Guangxu (1880), after the 68-year-old Zuo Zongtang regained Xinjiang, Li Lianying went to congratulate him with heavy gifts. However, Li Lianying's personality was already notorious both inside and outside the government, and Zuo Zongtang, who had always been straightforward in temperament, did not give the big red man around Cixi the slightest face, not only returning all the gifts of the other party, but also humiliating him in public, saying that he was an eunuch who could only flatter and mislead the country and the people.
Who ever thought that since he was favored by Cixi, Li Lianying had already lost sight of everything, and even Prince Gong, the most powerful prince in the dprk at that time, did not dare to provoke him, let alone Zuo Zongtang? Therefore, the arrogant Li Lianying could not tolerate Zuo Zongtang's disrespect for himself, and he held a grudge in his heart and decided to teach him a lesson and find an opportunity to frame him.
Therefore, when Zuo Zongtang sponsored Zeng Jize to be the governor of Liangjiang, Li Lianying, while flattering Empress Dowager Cixi, added oil and vinegar to frame Zuo Zongtang, saying that his merits were proud of the world, there was no one in sight, he did not pay attention to Lafayette at all, and even the officials did not refer to Lafayette's opinions on such major matters, and suggested that Empress Dowager Cixi take back Zuo Zongtang's real power, so as not to have his intentions to rebel.
At that time, Cixi had always regarded Li Lianying as her confidant, and besides, she had lived in the deep palace for a long time and did not hear anything out of the window, so she naturally believed in Li Lianying's words.
As a result, Cixi decided to detain Zuo Zongtang to sponsor Zeng Jize's folding son, and in the days that followed, Zuo Zongtang was not reused by the imperial court.
Through Zuo Zongtang's personal experience and Li Lianying's face, it is not difficult for us to know that people with suspicious intentions and like to make things out of nothing are usually "one set in front of the face and one set on the back".
In order to satisfy their own interests, such people are willing to be "two-faced people", on the one hand, they are kind and friendly to remove each other's defenses, and on the other hand, they can disregard the feelings of others, manipulate right and wrong at will, and take the opportunity to take the position...
Their hearts are extremely perverted and distorted, and they often try to get some material or spiritual benefit by corrupting others by means of corrupting others.
If we encounter these little people in life, we must recognize and stay away early. Don't be confused by the other party's behavior, don't listen to the other party's one-sided words, when doing anything, you must adhere to your own judgment, only if your attitude is firm enough, you will not be at the mercy of the other party, this is very important, must be remembered.
If a person loses the dignity and bottom line of being a human being, then even if they sell their souls, they are doing whatever they want.
In other words, if a person does not show enough resistance in the face of temptation, it is easy to "bend for five buckets of rice", become a pawn in the hands of others, and eventually play for the tiger and help the abuse.
Most people, throughout their lives, can only do the word "Gou and". The so-called scenery is not scrupulous and skillful; the road is bumpy, but it is not sloppy and there is no door.
Where does man's sense of mission and responsibility for the country and society come from? Everything comes from the quality of "not scrupulously", and if you want to live out the wonderfulness and value of life, the essence of it lies in three words: "do not scruple".
To be reckless is to reserve a moral bottom line for people's dealings with the world. Never waver in the face of sin and temptation, and hold on to the clarity of your heart. This is a powerful motivator to encourage us to move forward resolutely and cultivate the personality of a gentleman.
If a person lacks this excellent quality, then his thinking will become impure and his behavior will become irregular. All day long I think about how to climb the ladder of power, how to seek power and profit, and even for the sake of worldly things, it is possible to abandon human nature and fall into the abyss of crime, and this result is very terrible and very sad.
Secondly, the influence of such people on society is also extremely bad, and if they have too much contact with such people, people will be more or less infected by their habits; moreover, this kind of person has a bad character and impure motives, and no one can guarantee that they will not become the target of their attack.
People who often do evil are no less dangerous than a hungry evil tiger, and if they get too close, it is equivalent to walking with the tiger, and they will face the danger of being bitten back at any time and anywhere.
Therefore, in life, we must not only avoid becoming "stubborn" people, but also learn to stay away from these young people. The so-called "flowers and grasses leave roots, people need to pay attention". Early detection, early away, is the best protection for yourself, do not wait until you are hurt, regret why you did not raise your vigilance in the first place.
In short, the more accurate the person, the less trouble, in the face of the above 3 kinds of people with ulterior motives, we must have multiple hearts and eyes, in case of accidents. As the saying goes, "The heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without." "There is a benefit to being alert.
Author: Mr. Senmei
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