There is a sentence in "Dream of the Red Chamber" that says: The burrow room is empty, and the bed was full of wat that year.
"Wat full bed" refers to the family of Guo Ziyi, a famous general of the Tang Dynasty.
The Guo family was rich and illustrious, and when the descendants wished Guo Ziyi a happy birthday, the wat board used in the upper court was full of a bed.
Throughout his life, Guo Ziyi fought against foreign enemies, supported the four dynasties, and saved the country from slavery by foreign enemies.
Meritorious but not shocking, holding the world's soldiers and horses, but not being suspected by the monarch.
At the age of 85, he died of good health, his descendants were shaded by him, and his seven sons and eight sons-in-law entered the dynasty as officials, all of whom were humerus, and the family prospered, which lasted for hundreds of years.
This has a lot to do with Guo Ziyi's ability to resolve conflicts and accept Baichuan.
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Wise men build bridges
Land and rivers crisscross each other.
Bridges are connections, walls are isolation.
One more bridge, one more road.
One more wall, one less road.
The isolated person cut himself off from others, and the receiver can absorb all kinds of rivers.
The famous Tang Dynasty generals Li Guangbi and Guo Ziyi were equally famous, and their military merits were not distinguished.
But in the early years, the relationship between the two was very poor.
The same mid-level officers, eating at the same table, the two would not say hello.
Cold eyes, not to each other.
Later, the emperor appointed Guo Ziyi as the Grand Marshal of Terracotta Warriors and Horses, and Li Guangbi was assigned to Serve Guo Ziyi.
Li Guangbi was half scared to death, afraid that Guo Ziyi would find an excuse to kill himself.
Surprisingly, Guo Ziyi distributed 10,000 elite soldiers to Li Guangbi to help him build a meritorious career.
Li Guangbi lived up to his trust, and in seven years, he fought countless hard battles and helped Guo Ziyi share the huge combat pressure.
It is precisely because of more famous generals like Li Guangbi that the Anshi Rebellion was finally put down.
Tang Suzong once thanked Guo Ziyi from the bottom of his heart: "Although my home country is really recreated by Qing! ”
Li Guangbi was also highly respected by posterity, and was known as "the first in ZTE".
Later, the imperial court recounted the merits, and Li Guangbi and Guo Ziyi were even sealed together, regardless of whether they were in the middle of the world.
In case of rain, hold up umbrellas, there is a bridge to cross the bridge.
The bridge is the extension and connection of the road, and with the bridge, the road can be smooth.
Building bridges with others is to pave the way for yourself, build more bridges for others, other people's roads are easy to walk, and their own life paths are naturally easy to walk.
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Fools build walls
Building a bridge is a blessing, and building a wall is a bad relationship.
Everyone is not an island, everyone is connected to each other.
Walls are conflict and obstacles.
The ancients said: If you don't say everything, you will accumulate virtue; if you don't do anything, leave the way back.
Talking without morality, doing things without room, is building walls.
Guo Ziyi held military power, and the minister of the DPRK, Yu Chao'en, was very jealous of him.
Taking advantage of Guo Ziyi's expedition, Yu Chao'en sent people to dig up the ancestral grave of the Guo family.
The court was in an uproar, and the emperor was also worried: Guo Ziyi was holding a heavy army and did not know what he would do.
Surprisingly, after Guo Ziyi returned to Beijing, he met the emperor.
He said: "The chief soldier of the subject for a long time cannot forbid the tomb of the remnants of the soldiers, and the tomb of the first subject of the present is condemned by heaven, and the non-human plague is also." ”
This means that I have led the army for many years, killed too much, and the sins are deep, and now the ancestral grave has been excavated, which is a natural punishment, not a man-made disaster.
A bloody storm in the political arena became invisible, and the emperor admired him so much that he fell to the ground.
Later, Yu Chao'en invited him to a private banquet, and Guo Ziyi's men wanted to bring five hundred elite soldiers to escort him, and as a result, Guo Ziyi took a few family children with him. Yu Chao'en was greatly touched to see Guo Ziyi's open-mindedness.
He said, "Can a non-public elder be unquestionable?" ”
Praise Guo Ziyi as an admirable elder and gentleman.
After this, Yu Chao'en completely submitted to Guo Ziyi and never clashed with him again.
On the contrary, although Li Guangbi had outstanding military merits, he was ruthless in his work, and once beheaded YuShi Cuizhong under the protection of the emperor.
If a subordinate makes a mistake, he will be severely punished, and no one will give face to him.
Because he offended too many people, Li Guangbi was always unsuccessful in the official field and ended up depressed at the age of 57.
Multiple friends and multiple roads.
If there are more enemies, the road will become more and more difficult to walk, and slowly, there will be no way out.
It is advisable to solve the knot, and it is convenient to be convenient with others, that is, it is convenient with oneself.
As the old saying goes: walls, knocked down is the door.
Similarly, doors, closed, are walls.
When you build a high wall in your heart, your future is missing a door.
When you tear down the wall of your heart, your way forward will be much smoother.
May we all build bridges, tear down walls, achieve mutual achievements with excellent people, and become better ourselves step by step.