Jia Mu, the president of the "Appearance Association", gave her a high evaluation when she first saw Sister You: "But it is a complete child, I think it is more handsome than you (Wang Xifeng). ”
It is true that the appearance of You Erjie has been praised more than once in "Dream of the Red Chamber". It is precisely because of her peerless appearance that Sister You has won the love of Jia Lian, and at all costs, she will also marry Sister You into the door, and even say that "everyone says that I was in order that night, and now I see that it is not worth it to pick up shoes for you."
The small house in Jia Fu also praised "the new second grandmother is more handsome than the old second grandmother"; the doctor who treated You Erjie, as soon as he saw You Erjie's appearance, he was "like a soul flying for nine days, numb, and didn't know anything.".
Jia Mu likes the most handsome girls, Xue Baoqin is by virtue of her outstanding appearance, as soon as she enters Jia Mansion, she becomes Jia Mu's "dry granddaughter" and enjoys the treatment that even Lin Daiyu has never enjoyed. Moreover, Jia Fuzhong has always had the custom of "virtuous wives and beautiful concubines", so the beautiful Second Sister You made a concubine for Jia Lian, and Jia Mu was undoubtedly very satisfied.
However, the most beautiful concubine in Jia Province, in a very short period of time, made Jia Mu's love for her quickly turn into disgust, so that she was tortured to death by Wang Xifeng, and Jia Mu also turned a blind eye, and even after her death, she lost the qualification to be sent to jia fu for burial, and could only accompany her sister You Sanjie, who had recently passed away, in a temple on the outskirts of the countryside.
Why did the beautiful Second Sister You finally step into Jia Fu, but she was not accepted by Jia Fu after all? Why did Jia Mu's love for her turn into disgust? Of course, all this was inseparable from Wang Xifeng's arrangement, but Second Sister You was also stupid enough to make a big mistake in front of Jia Mu and completely lost her qualification to be accepted by Jia Fu.
...... Angry, Second Sister You was crying in the room, and she didn't eat food, and she didn't dare to tell Jia Lian. The next day, Jia Mu saw that her eyes were red and swollen, and asked her, but did not dare to say. Qiu Tong was just when she was catching the beggars and selling the pretty, she quietly told Jia Mu, Madame Wang, etc.: "The special meeting will die, the Cheng Ri family will mourn well, and curse the second grandmother and I to die early behind their backs, so she and the second master will live a single life." "Jammu... Therefore, I gradually did not like it.
Jia Mu's attitude towards Sister You's change of attitude is an important node. With a few false accusations from Qiu Tong, did he really hide from Jia Mu? In fact, what is more important is that Sister You made a mistake that should not be made, and in front of Jia Mu, her eyes were red and swollen, and she did not hide it.
Let's compare what Wang Xifeng did when she was wronged, she was in tears in her room, and she was called up by Jia Mu.
The seventy-first time, Lady Xing embarrassed Wang Xifeng in public because of her two mother-in-laws, and afterwards, Wang Xifeng was also angry and wept alone in the room, and did not dare to let people know. This scene is very similar to You Erjie's anger at Qiu Tong and shed tears alone. However, when Jia Mu sent Amber to find Wang Xifeng, Wang Xifeng immediately "dried her tears, washed her face and applied another fat powder, and Fang tong Amber came over."
Wang Xifeng was originally bent on covering up the fact that he had cried, but the Mandarin Duck came over and looked at Wang Xifeng's face and said, "Why her eyes are swollen, so I am surprised, just look." When Jia Mu heard about it, she also let Wang Xifeng come to her and look at it.
Sister Feng smiled and said, "I just felt an itch and rubbed a little." The Mandarin Duck smiled and said, "Don't be angry with whom?" Sister Feng said, "Who dares to give me anger?" Even if I was angry, the old lady had a good day, and I didn't dare to cry. ”
This is where Wang Xifeng is smarter than Second Sister You, in front of the elders, she is always smiling and smiling, even if she has been wronged, she must endure. This is also in line with the etiquette of the ancient high-gate households. Jia Mu also likes that her grandchildren are all happy and joyful in front of her.
However, Sister You obviously did not understand this, she was wronged, just stay on the surface, with the appearance of crying, she went to see Jia Mu. Originally, the status of the concubine was very humble, there were not many of her, there were not many without her, and Second Sister You put on a crying face again, and it was inevitable that she would be disliked by Jia Mu.
Therefore, Jia Mu also disliked Sister You more and more, and coupled with the various rumors of Sister You, they successively spread into Jia Mansion, and she naturally became more and more unpopular in front of Mother Jia. Without the recognition of Jia Mu, Sister You has become a "ten thousand people stepping on" in Jia Province, even if she enters the door of Jia Province, she is finally buried in the wilderness and loses the qualification to be accepted by Jia Province.
Being wronged in life, things that everyone will encounter, how to adjust their emotions, do not let their emotions affect others, especially the elders, is a very important thing, but also must learn things. In this regard, Wang Xifeng is a model, and You Erjie is obviously a failure.