Uncle Lover's Introduction:
I don't love you, I don't believe in you, I don't recognize you, I don't understand you, I hurt you repeatedly, I lie, I don't mean what I say, I won't pay for you, I'm afraid of you, I can't stand on the same front with you. These are all ways for men to make women sad, and a man certainly can't gather so many flaws in one, but as long as the boy has these three performances, it means that he is no longer suitable for you to entrust for life.
First, unwilling to deal with it rationally after an argument
When people quarrel, they will overflow with emotions, that is, at this time, the emotions will appear to be unprocessed. In real life, there are many family tragedies caused by the unilateral oppression of women by men relying on their own gender advantages after quarrels, but such men often have violent tendencies in real life, or are a little paranoid.
In "The Sea of Stars", the heroine's parents are such examples, the heroine's father is usually very gentle, but when he knows the infidelity of the heroine's mother, he suddenly becomes very extreme, and it is this kind of personality that eventually leads to a tragic ending.
When arguing, both parties will inevitably be very emotional, and at this time, those who can rationally control it are those who can control emotions.
Second, often devalue you
Most girls are emotional, that is, because of this, so in some details will always find something, the mind will be more sensitive, in the face of the object of love is not to say something that makes the other party sad, but boys will be lacking in this point.
"Your short hair is also too bad."
"Now that girl will weigh more than 100 pounds."
"How dare girls go out without makeup?"
As soon as these words are spoken, they are blamed, and when they are spoken, they are devaluing the value of girls. With such a man, even the most confident woman will become suspicious of herself.
We often say that if you often talk about a thing, after talking too much, it may become true, the inner principle of this sentence is actually that if you talk about this sentence too much, this sentence will become a psychological hint, and it will make people's behavior go in that direction, so if a man often depreciates your value, then this man is not suitable for life.
Third, in the face of bad situations, there is no desire to change
I am not afraid that the man is poor now, and I am afraid that this man has no change in self-motivation at all. When a woman marries, she will want the other person's family conditions to be superior, but the reality is that there will be so many rich people waiting for you to choose. Instead of choosing whose family conditions are the best, it is better to choose who is the most capable of breaking through.
Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Not wanting to change will not let the man stay where he is, but will make him continue to regress and live more and more unsatisfactory. Although it is impossible to end up with a good ending at every opportunity, as long as he is willing to try, this heart is already much stronger than the right person.
Uncle Epilogue:
In fact, the word "entrusted" is placed between men and women in a literal sense, which is unfair to both sides, "entrustment" is not simply relying on the man, and girls must also have their own spiritual pillar that can walk independently in this world. "To the Oak Tree" says that "men are not nurseries, and the sexes should support and rely on each other." "So before a girl can identify whether a man is suitable for life, the most important thing is to determine whether she is ready to accept love."