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Little babies like to cry, want to suckle and cry, want to sleep and cry, want to let the mother hug, physical discomfort are crying, always crying all day long, often crying parents are upset, so give the baby a fierce meal, think this baby is too disobedient.
In fact, babies love to cry for a reason, it looks like fake crying, or hysteria, they may just be expressing an "appeal".
As small beings who have just arrived in the world, they have poor ability to move independently, and they cannot express their ideas through language, and if they want to survive, they naturally have their own "strategies".
"Although I have only been a novice mother for 28 days, I really feel that every behavior of the baby has her reasons. Crying and chirping, sometimes hungry to drink milk, sometimes pee pulled to change diapers, sometimes a lonely person wants to be coaxed by her mother, sometimes she wants to fart and can't let go of her mother to rub her stomach... It's really magical, and I guess I was really happy and full of thoughts on her mind. ”
It's a quote from a new mom, but she's really a good mom who's good at reading her baby's mind.
Babies love to cry for a reason, and "fake crying" may be several reasons
New parents may have found that sometimes there are no tears when the baby cries, sometimes it is a few times to cry a few pauses and then cry a few times, and sometimes cry twice to see the mother come over and not cry, feeling that the baby is "fake crying".
What the hell is going on here? There may be several reasons why new parents remember the points that can help you take better care of your baby.
Reason 1: The lacrimal glands of newborn babies are not mature enough
Newborn babies who have just been born often look very fierce, and even their faces are red, but there is not a single tear. Parents for unknown reasons will be worried and suspicious, is the baby crying fake or has a development problem?
In fact, this is due to the fact that the development of the newborn tear glands is not mature, there are no tears when crying, and after being born for a period of time, after gradually developing and maturing, tears can be seen when crying.
But also do not rule out the "abnormal" situation, such as the baby's tear gland blockage, tears can not flow out, this situation can be observed, if there is secretion at the same time, it is best to take the baby to the ophthalmology for the doctor to see.
Reason two: to attract the attention of adults by crying
As mentioned earlier, small babies have their own "survival strategies", and when they want to find their mothers, although they can't speak yet, they can cry and get their mothers' attention by crying.
Especially slightly older babies, when they see their mothers away, they will immediately cry, as long as they see adults coming, immediately stop crying, and even smile at adults.
This is to cry for attention and get the attention of mom and dad.
Then parents should put down other things in their hands and come to accompany the baby; in addition, they should accompany the baby more and increase the baby's sense of security.
Reason three: The baby is expressing emotions
Babies are small, but they also have emotions. In fact, when the baby is very young, he can express his joy and sorrow, but his language and limbs are not yet fully developed, and can often only be expressed through crying.
It is often manifested in crying when you are full, crying when you are hungry, crying when you are happy, and crying when you are unhappy, but as the baby grows up day by day, the way to express emotions becomes more and more abundant, and this situation is much better.
When parents encounter this situation, they should carefully observe the emotions expressed when the baby cries, accurately judge what kind of situation the baby may be, and meet the baby in time.
There is a reason why babies love to cry, and the baby's "real crying" also represents multiple meanings, and parents should understand
Sometimes the baby cries, it is true that it looks very sad, very angry, is really crying, then what are the possible reasons for this crying? Let's go on.
Reason 1: Babies have physiological needs
Before the baby can't speak, "crying" is the baby's language of expression.
Then when he was hungry, defecating, sleepy... There are various physiological needs, and he has frequently sent signals to his mother, but his mother did not catch it in time, and he could only come up with his own "ultimate trick" - crying.
Therefore, as a new mother, it is necessary to learn some "baby language", understand the needs of the baby in time, and meet them in time; usually, you must also take care of the baby carefully to avoid the baby from making big moves.
Cause two: crying caused by the jumping reflex
The startle reflex, a primitive neural reflex in newborns, usually disappears around 3-4 months.
When the baby is stimulated by the outside world, especially when sleeping, he will suddenly raise his hands naturally above his head, looking "shocked at first", and sometimes crying loudly.
This condition is mostly normal, and as the baby grows older, this reflex gradually disappears and this phenomenon will also be alleviated.
However, before disappearing, parents should not only understand this phenomenon, but also do a good job of corresponding care, try to create a quiet and comfortable sleeping environment for the baby, and also try to "wrap the baby", so that the baby has a "sense of bondage", which will also be alleviated.
Cause three: crying caused by the baby's physical discomfort
All the needs of a baby are expressed through crying.
When he is unwell, there will also be different degrees of crying, such as when there is flatulence in the stomach, it will be unruly; if there is intestinal colic, it will also cry hysterically.
Generally flatulence and intestinal colic begin to appear from about 2 months, and at this age, parents should pay more attention to this situation and correctly help the baby to alleviate and prevent it.
In addition, the baby's crying because of physical discomfort may also be caused by colds, diarrhea and other reasons, parents should observe more and judge.
After understanding the reasons for these babies crying, you should understand it now, and when you encounter the baby crying, you can make a judgment and respond to the baby correctly.
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