Text/Flying Fish
People live in this world, afraid of others feeling empathy, and afraid that others can not feel empathy.
It seems that at a certain age, people will lose their desire to express.
When you are happy, you know silently by yourself, and you are too lazy to share, and when you are sad, you are not willing to speak up, everything is going with the wind, without any trace.
In fact, only you know that in those unattended nights, you have also silently shed tears.
Someone asked what you would do when you were upset, whether to talk to someone else or to digest it yourself.
Before meeting a friend, she lived alone, the relationship in the past two years is not smooth, even pregnant, and accidentally miscarried, and finally separated from the man.
And her career, before achieving the position of vice president, but gave up for a man, now her career is gone, her feelings are gone, even her children have not been saved, sometimes she is at home, whenever she thinks of it, she can't help but cry.
When I heard her crying in her voice, I didn't know what to say, and I didn't dare to say anything more, so I quietly accompanied her across the screen.
Sadly, a person digesting, is the norm of adult life.
When you are sad, in fact, do not expect others to feel deeply about you, life is sad and happy, do not disturb, is the best decency.
Because you know, there is no real empathy in this world, and many times, we are sad and sad, we are exhausted, and we can only bear it ourselves.
Maybe adults are like this, the most difficult time, did not go to someone to talk to, the most difficult time, do not want to trouble others, tell yourself in your heart, this year is difficult, everyone is difficult, everyone has their own pain, do not bother others.
Sometimes you will find that in fact, even if you share your joys and sorrows with others, you feel that others do not particularly care about you, and they directly ignore your information and jump the topic.
Gradually, you will find that you are not willing to share with others, and you just want to be alone in silence. Because you feel that no one will really care about you, then when you encounter things, you will put up with it and pass.
I tried to tell it before, but later found that your unhappiness affected your good friends, and it became a joke for those who didn't like you, and digesting it alone slowly became a habit.
Many people now want to go out more and more, don't want to talk, don't want to go out or can't say, but are more and more disgusted by the feeling of neck-pinching socializing, preferring to sit quietly in no-man's land, even if it is in the dark all day, it seems to be free.
Adults have to learn to heal themselves, no one can help you, only on their own.
At any time, you have to be strong, you have to love yourself, no one loves, no one hurts, only you digest all your emotions, the adult world, is to know how to adjust all emotions into calm or silent mode.
When some people are sad, they adjust themselves, or exercise, and when they sweat, then their mood will improve.
Some people like to be alone in a daze, listen to music to quietly soothe their emotions, then get some sleep and wake up the next day.
Why do you feel that the more you grow up, the lonelier you are, the more you grow up, the more silent you are, when you are young, you always like to join in the fun, even if you are sad, you have to find a group of people to accompany you, because in the laughter, no one will notice your sadness, in fact, you are just lying to yourself.
When people mature, they are sad, in fact, they will choose to spend themselves in silence, thinking about it again and again and again and not wanting to disturb others.
Life is like this, like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
When I'm sad, I'd rather sit by the window with music and watch the moon in a daze than bother others.
Life is tragic and joyful, and in the end you can only cross yourself...
Maybe life has put a lot of obstacles for you, and everything you should experience can't escape.
All sorrows and joys can only be borne by oneself, and the love of others cannot be helped.
You must know that those sad nights are the tears you swallow after all, and no one knows that when you have survived all and survived, you will suddenly be enlightened later.
Life may be difficult, please tell yourself, don't give up, stick to one more day, a month, a year, you will find that you survived, all things look back, in fact, are small things.
Life is sad and happy, mentality is the most important, everything looks forward, although it is difficult, but it will never be wrong.
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